Rachel L Williams
Journal Entries for Rachel L Williams
My best friend
July 4th, 2008 8:15 pm MST
To My Friend Jenny O Thank you for the warm and tender smile you give me every time I see you Thanks to you My days are a little brighter My spirits a little higher and believing in my dreams a little easier Friends like you are rare You have touched my heart in so many ways Know You will always hold a special place in my heart Knowing that someday our time together shall come to an end My memories of you will always be cherished With all the good times we had and All the memories that remain to be made I raise a glass and toast you for all your kindness all your support and all your love Thank you for being my friend I have loved you from the day we met and I shall love you until the day I die No matter what distance may separate us Know that you will always be with me In my dreams In my heart and In my memories Rachel May 24 2008
My Chemistry Profile
January 29th, 2008 1:18 pm MST
Hello Rachel,Welcome to your Chemistry Profile. The following analysis is based on your responses to our questionnaire. Your results identify your major and minor personality types, as well as the types with whom you're likely to be compatible. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your Major and Minor Personality Types Characteristics of all four personality types can be found within each of us, but there is almost always one personality type that is dominant. We call this the major personality type.The Chemistry Profile also identifies your minor or secondary personality type. You exhibit some aspects of this personality type, though not to the same degree as with your major type.Your major personality type = NegotiatorYour minor personality type = ExplorerYou are a NEGOTIATOR/explorerYou are a big thinker. You easily take the large, long view of almost any topic. You are comfortable juggling myriad facts. You tend to synthesize material easily and to think in webs of factors, not straight lines. You are imaginative and enjoy theorizing. You are also socially savvy. You are good at both talking and listening. And you generally read people's faces, body postures and tone of voice accurately, so you tend to intuitively understand what people want and need. You are also highly compassionate. You care deeply about others. So you sometimes make personal sacrifices to be a supportive friend or colleague. And you like to work to improve the world. You enjoy new ideas and novel experiences. You are flexible, affable and open to adventure. And you admire impulsive, spontaneous people, despite your tendency to plan ahead. You dislike conflict. You seek "win-win" solutions. And with your skill as a negotiator, you adeptly bring peace to the chaotic world around you. You are a warm, insightful and often exciting companion. E-Explorer - 25% N-Negotiator - 27% B-Builder - 22% D-Director - 24% How your personality breaks out You Matchedwith Compatibility Rating Explorer - 25% of your personality Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion. Builder - 22% of your personality Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective. Negotiator - 27% of your personality Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing. Director - 24% of your personality Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.
Remember
January 29th, 2008 1:15 pm MST
Remember the joys, the laughter and the smiles Remember only the happiest of times For there really were no bad ones only some that are better remembered with a smile It's better to appreciate the good times you had than to dwell on what can never be Let the happiness you shared outweigh the pain you feel For the time we share is always too little and much is always left unspoken What we feel in our heart cannot always be expressed in the words we speak For they are not always what we feel deep within When our heart is broken and the pain we feel seems that it shall never end Remember time can do so much to heal the wounds that were left behind Remember the ones you love will always be with you in your dreams, in your memories in all that you are But most of all in your heart This is something that no distance no matter how far can ever be taken away Always remember as the sun sets with only memories of what once was The sun shall rise again and with it will come new dreams and memories, not yet discovered Think only of the times you laughed and joked together for that will surely bring a smile
Relationships
January 29th, 2008 1:10 pm MST
We are all raised knowing that in main stream America, girl meets boy, they get married and have children. They work to support and love their children. For Lesbians and Gay men it's a matter of finding the right woman or the right man to share your life with. For a Trans-Gender person finding that special someone can be difficult at best and impossible for most. Most TG's are not really accepted on either side of the fence. Straight people see Trans-Sexual women as gay men that wear a dress so they can be with a man. For some this may be true but for many TS's it's not the case. Gender identity and sexual preferance are two separate things and one has nothing to do with the other. Gender is who you are, sexuality is who you are attracted to. My gender identity is female and my sexual preferance is also female so what does that make me? Where do I fit in this gay and straight world we live in? I have alway been attracted to girls, I have never been attracted to men so how do I find a relationship?For the Male To Female TS's that like men, it may be easier fo find a man that will be interested in having a relationship with you but some men will think that being with a TS woman (post-op or pre-op)* will make them gay. Unfortunately, many of them deal with this fear by physically hurting the TS woman. If your a MTF TS that identifies as a lesbian your prospects for a loving relationship are virtually non- existant. If your a pre-op transsexual then your options are limited even more. Straight women don't want their partner to have breasts and lesbian women don't want their partner to have male plumbing. Straight women want to find a man and lesbian women want to find a GG (genetic girl) woman. *(Pre-op before surgery-Post-op after surgery)Lesbian and Straight women may see a MTF TS as women for friendship but not someone to build an intimate relationship with. For a bisexual woman a pre-op TS can be the best of both worlds. There are a few women that accept and love a TS woman but they are very rare in this world in which we live. So most TS will spend their life alone and lonely, never having the chance for a loving relationship. Being a TS man or woman is not an easy life to live and the price we pay for being who we are is higher than most people realize.
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