Journal Entries for Singapore SGGURLS SGGURLS
SGGURLS 3rd anniversary: program draft
November 28th, 2010 12:47 am MST
27th November 2010
Singapore
We're oversubscribed! It's not a wonder when the value proposition is overwhelming. For a mere 18sgd, the gurls get a free make over, photography session, food and two days of chalet worth 180sgd per person. There are not many places where one can get 10x returns. Herein lies the problem, we're underfunded for the overpacked fun event.
We discussed this problem at length yesterday and decided to uphold this proposition, but we do need help cover the short fall. We're going to put a 'donation' box at the entrance of the chalet. For those of you who feel charitable, please do help us. Here's the DRAFT program for our SGGURLS celebration. The final program will be publish soon.
For payment & registration for this coming 3-4th DEC 2010 event, please email kdressersg@yahoo.com.sg
For more information on Singapore's transgender social networking group, please go to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls and we're also on facebook http://www.facebook.com/sggurls
SGGURLS: meet the moderator night
October 10th, 2010 5:56 am MDT
SGGURLS: meet the moderator night
9th October 2010.
Singapore.
Nothing beats a night of good food in a great restaurant that reserves the best seats for its trangenders patrons and their friends. Gardenslug's staff greeted us with winks and smiles, so putting up our petite feet up was no big feat. 
Ssssslowly but sssssurely, the rest of the SGGURLS sssssstrolled in. Des and Jess were the only time keepers of punctuality; bless their souls! Our resident blonde bimbo booked a place that closed at 10 so when the other half of the Moderators finally showed up, the restaurant had to close and we had to wind up our meeting.
Gurls will be gurls: we didn't really get down to business until the we were done chasing down villous news. It's difficult to focus when we had on the menu sexy muumuus on sale, a secret marriage in May, a pack of 003 condoms, lolita foreplay that angered the members of cosplay, the sparks from the Dark movements disputing monarchs and a corporate buyout.
The basic plan that we were reached were:
i. yaaaay ... we got a Chalet
ii. the SGGURLS anniversary will be on 3rd(Fri)-4th(Sat) of December
iii. Jess from AFA will help us with the program.
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For more information on Singapore's transgender (CD,TV,TS), please look us up in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls. For information on Aids awareness, please go to http://www.afa.org.sg/home.php
SGGURLS' 2nd birthday
November 14th, 2009 9:39 pm MST
SGGURLS' 2nd birthday
Singapore, 13th November 2009
The rain was relentless on Friday th 13th but it could not be more perfect for SGGURLS' big bash. The temperature dropped from a smouldering 31 deg C to 26 deg C. Perfect for looking and feeling glam.
The Indonesian dishes piled on the kitchen table top tantalised our senses. If the food didn't spice things up, our super emcee sure did. I was given the privilege to kick off SGGURLS' program. Though it was an easy assignment, I had struggled with it for two weeks. There was a drought in the inspiration creek. It should not be suprising since the gurls had searched for the meaning of SGGURLS' existence for two years. There I stood in my 5" heels in front of my friends, nervous like a newbie clown. Something unexpected happened when I looked around the gargantuan hall. In 35 pair of eyes, I found inspiration. I realised that they have enriched my life beyond any monies the world could offer. My mouth moved involuntarily. I started talking about the fabulous dishes that reflected the diversity of our group. That night, not only did the "T" in the lgbt celebrate but it was a night which we celebrated the enjoyment of each other's uniqueness. When my short blurb was done, I was relieved but more importantly I was speechless that I found enlightenment in the most unexpected of times.
SGGURLS' very own diva, Destynee, gave two awesome performances despite dancing with bruised ankles caused by her shoes. Still she danced her heart out. Kayla invited some of the gurls to speak of how they felt about SGGURLS. It was humbling and motivating to know that a group like SGGURLS meant so much to so many people. Adaline stepped forth and told us how SGGURLS got started. Deanna's very frank testimonial melted our hearts. Florence, Elisa, Daniel (founder of SGB) shared their insights on transgender lives. Our multi-talented Trish, who made our beautiful logo, told us said that SGGURLS had encourage her to socialise more.
The star feature of the program entailed celebrating the birthdays of two very special friends, Rebec & Hendricka. Rebec has been very supportive of SGGURLS'. We met Rebec at Cows & Coolies. She made us feel at home when there were trepidations in our hearts. Our talented mujeres bonita,Claudia, graced us with two unforgettable spanish numbers. Kayla closed off the program with lucky draws. When the official program ended, the party went into fifth gear.
A big thank you the moderators who made this happened (a big giant hug to Kayla who was the anchor woman who made this happen, Trish, Ada, Des, Deanna, Elisa, Ivys' Jr+Sr, Joy) and our friends who braved the rain to be with us.
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For more on Asia's transgenders, please visit the following sites.
China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/chinagurls
Thailand: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
Malaysia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls , http://www.sgbutterfly.org
Crashing a Hen Party
October 10th, 2009 10:03 pm MDT
Crashing a Hen Party
11th October 2009
Singapore
I think we may have found the second chick central in Singapore. I went there to meet my gurl and girl friends for a usual Saturday powwow. Lo and behold, when I stepped into Ootique there was a sexy dance class in progress. Alex & Shirley from SDAM (www.sdam.sg) joined our Sat night drinking session. I finally got to meet Alex whom I have had only perved on his facebook. He's an awesome person in real life and looks so much better than the pics. Warren & partner joined in a little later. A quick kiss to my favorite in-house Sexologist, Dr. Martha Lee (www.eroscoaching.com), who saw to our creature comfort. Michelle, Ootique's owner (www.ootique.com) sported a new sexy blond look. Gosh, I wish I could just take these two back home with me. Once we were all settled down, we didn't get to talk too much as our heads were permanently tilted towards the the pole dancing class and the ensuing hen party. Gosh, I am so addicted to women! The bevy of women were driving me nuts. There were a couple of women in there that looked like magazine models.
In the little discussion that we had, we did firm up a few things on Halloween night. Shirley said that she will get back to me on the bulk discounts for SDAM's Halloween night. She told me that SDAM faces a big challenge on their 16th October ALTERNATION event in DXO (http://www.dxo.com.sg/index/index.aspx). Shirley said that she was confident that they will see about 80 pax but DXO, which is owned by NTUC, expects a minimum of 100 pax in order to continue making the space available to SDAM. So if anyone of you loves goth fetish art & indie music, write to Shirley (http://www.facebook.com/people/Shirley-Zhong), alex (youknowjustwho@hotmail.com) or Saito (slave@sdam.sg) or just go to their website to findout more about ALTERNATION (http://www.sdam.sg/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=441).
As for our joint SM & trans halloween night, please do check our networks.
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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyle:
Goths & more: http://www.sdam.sg , www.sdam.asia
Transgender network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/chinagurls
BDSM network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Eros coaching (the only one of its kind in Singpaore): www.eroscoaching.com
Ootique: www.ootique.com
SGGURLS' mid-year Chalet Party
July 5th, 2009 2:48 am MDT
SGGURLS' mid-year Chalet Party
4th of July, Singapore.
The chalet was crammed and the place crowded but it didn't stop the 20 plus people from having lots of fun and good food. In case you're wondering why all the pics were indoor, our camera women (Fifi + Kayla) didn't take any photos outdoor because of poor ligthing. Of course our main photographer, Kayla, Elisa and Bobby were busy manning the BBQ pit.
We had a preview of the Calendar mockups done by our resident designer Trish Leong (who incidently designed the SGGURL's logo) and Bobby who did the physical mock-up. The ideas were fantastic. There were some creative tension which are always wonderful when talents collide. Kayla ran through the processed pics. Its too bad that we have to shortlist them as they look simply divine. Bobby suggested choosing some of the pics from our outing as they had lots of candid moments. In most of our SGGRUL's outings, the gurls tried create a journal to describe the things that we do. We have been successful in reaching out to many closet gurls that it is perfectly okay to come out and hang with us.
Xiang Ning, Edwina, Ada, Des, Deanna and Nic had an interesting discussion about HRT especially the drastic transformation that the body will go through. The discussion centered around mood swings, dosage and the social perception of these changes. The topic was too complex to result in any conclusion. Nevertheless it was still stimulating to talk about something so touchy. We did touch a bit on our belated sister Mel. We hope that we can do something in her memory with the proceeds from the calendar.
Rose showed us her Facebook and some of her voluptious...er...beautiful girlfriends. Dessert was well served. During the BBQ, Ada and Des related a haunted tale of the chalet that we rented. Bobby said that it was probably a horny ghost looking for worn panties. :-O.
We are very happy to receive overwhelming support from our Andrew, Shaun, Rebec, Mr.Tan, Alice, Samantha, our dear founders of SGButterfly, Rose's friends and some whom I have inadvertently forgotten. :-P
For more on Singapore's transgender groups:
SG Butterfly http://www.sgbutterfly.org
SGGURLS http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Singapore: SGGURLS 11th Moderator Meeting
May 23rd, 2009 10:26 pm MDT
Singapore: SGGURLS 11th Moderator Meeting
Singapore, 23rd May 2009
It was another sweltering night with 37 degrees heat index (30.5 degrees + 90% humidity). The gurls met up for what I thought was going to be a night of relaxation. The chairwoman, Destynee, was a task mistress. She bulldozed two tough topics on the agenda. In attendance were our dearest friends and founders of SGB (www.sgbutterfly.org) who had guided and supported us, our wisdom meister Bobby, Ada, Trish, Kayla, Destynee, Joy, Elisa, Linda, Rayne, Hendrika, Zermine and Fifi.
The thorniest topic was tabled first. Does SGGURLS needs its own website? SGGURLS had reached the limit offered by Yahoo's free group service months ago. Elisa asked a very innocent question: "what's the purpose of the website?" A debate ensued as to its purpose and contents. It was no doubt a tough and complex issue half of which had to do with SGGURLS identity. After the group is only 1.5 years old and like any teething baby, it has to find its own footing. Bobby suggested that we delay the decision on the website but keep the topic alive with ongoing discussions. Linda recommended that make this a two step decision: decide 'yes' or 'no' for the website, then form a project team collect the requirements from its members. Daniel offered his experience from running SGB. He suggested that we not focus at the number of members but rather look at actual participants. He said though there maybe 1000-2000 members, participation is less than 2%. Additionally, he proffered the mission of SGB was an education portal. Should SGGURLS embark on having its own website, the mission for the website must be clear.
The second topic was the 2010 calendar project. This was another hairy topic. I had to explain the three reasons for doing the project. The first being team work. SGGURLS has pulled off many events. They were tough but relatively straightforward projects. The calendar project would force the gurls really to look within its members and identify their best talents and use these talents to create an out-of-the-box calendar that will wow its buyers. Secondly, this calendar project challenges the notion that tgurls prefer to go stealth because they don't want to be marginalize by society. Trish and Rose brought up these valid points. In today's context, society still treats us badly. So it's better to just keep quiet, earn a living and not create any trouble. This calendar project is meant to show that trans are people who like any group if given an opportunity will accomplish incredible things. Thirdly, this calendar project is to showcase people with talent. I proffered several examples of trans glam in Asia. The photo studio for gurls in KL, Suzhou and Shenzhen do such wonderful work that it had that made many of its viewers say: "I can't believe these people are really guys". Like the transgender tiffany show, it is another milestone for the transgender to own the day.
SGGURLS 10th Moderator Meeting
April 25th, 2009 11:02 pm MDT
SGGURLS 10th Moderator Meeting
Singapore, 25th April 2009
It was another hot night of 32 degrees in Singapore. I took a cab driver to find PLU cafe. The damn cabbie kept wanting to drop me off at KTV lounges. He eyed me from the rear view mirror and kept asking if I was going to work? I presume he thinks I am a KTV hostess. :-P Jeez, I must improve my dressing.
When I finally to the PLU cafe, the staff was very friendly and hospitable. However, they have a strange custom in the cafe. To get to the cosy lounge upstairs, I had to take off my heels. Waaaahhhhh.... me without my heels? Anyways I acquiesced and went up stairs. I was pleasantly surprised by PLU cafe's tatami laid back style lounge. It was love as first sight. Now I fully understand why Hendrika (also from the SDAM, SGDOMSUBS network) kept suggesting that we hold our meetings in PLU. Andrew the owner of the PLU cafe set us up well. We had an incredible comfy and cool corner with the air-conditioning just above us. He’s so thoughtful and it was heaven for us just to escape from the sweltering heat outside.
We had a fabulous night and a very eventful one. SGGURLS achieved another big milestone by electing its first ever Chairwoman, co-Chairwoman, Official Biawak (or Vice-Something ..can't really remember but I think it's got to do with vice), Secretary, Treasurer, Chief Marketing Office, Chief Event Organizer, Webmistress, Liaison Officers to the various networks. I won't tell you who the names of the officers since I won't steal the Chairwoman's and co-Chairwoman’s thunder. They'll do the announcement.
We met the beautiful Elisa for the first time. She's very sexy and her photos don’t do her justice. We really need to get a pro-photographer to do a nice portfolio for the gurls. This is where the SGGURLS 2009 Calendar project comes to the rescue. Miss Destynee Chua the chief editor outlined the overall approach for putting the calendar together. It was very exciting to hear her ideas. I really can't wait to get this thing off the ground. The gurls closed quite a lot of outstanding tasks that night. I was awed by how far the SGGURLS' team has progressed. Some of the SGGURLS' mods have really grown tremendously and have stepped up to the leadership role. The team survived the forming, storming and norming stages. They put together some very sophisticated and fun events which were like a 100 times better that last years. I will let the Chairwoman & co-chairwoman to announce these exciting events.
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Links:
PLU cafe in Singapore: http://plucafe.blogspot.com
Singapore transgender social and support network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
GURLS' NITE OUT
April 5th, 2009 1:02 am MDT
Singapore, 4th April 2009.
It was a warm night but the 31 degree celcius didn't stop the gurls from romping around town having a fabulous time eating, shopping, catching a movie "Confession of a Shopaholic", having dinner and chilling out in the hottest lesbian bar in town (TOCAME). We caught up with old friends whom we haven't seen for a very long time. Some as long as 5 months (right, Ivy?). There were a lot of hot topics that were brought forth but not before playful Nic got the SM stuff out of her blood. This was unfortunate (or would be more appropriate to say, it was fortunate) for Adaline. The gurls indulged in a little photo taking so that to remember that friends matter. One can never have too many friends. Friends help us remember the good, the fun and the silly times. There was laughter, tears and lots of goofing around.
When we were a little bit more settled, the hot topics poured out. They were Hendrika's Fetish Ball 2009 plans, SGGURLS' 2010 Calendar, Adaline's Clothes X-change party, SGB's request for SGGURLS' participation on PLU Indignation and finalisation of the Bangkok Trip next week. The topics were no doubt hot and requries a longer discussion but with the Taiwnese version of beat it blaring in the background (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAVBpLFYW_U,) it's hard to get into in-depth discussions. We touched on the topics at a very surface level.
Some headway was made for SGGURLS' 2010 Calendar. Destynee will be our calendar's Editor in Chief, Trish our Chief Graphic Designer, Zermine & Bobby will be our photographers, and Nic will be the overall gopher. Our good friends who happened to be also the Tocame owners agreed to be one of the locales for our photoshoot.
Hendrika and Nic brainstormed for the Fetish Ball 2009. We have to merge some of our meets together and jointly do this with SDAM. The advantage is that Hendrika is also a SDAM mod.
There will be a group of gurls going to Bangkok this Tuesday. If anyone still wishes to go, please contact Adaline for our SGGURLS and BANGKOKTRANS joint agenda.
Edwina, Trish and Nic discussed SG Butterfly's request for SGGURLS' participation in PLU Indignation forum. There was some concerns but overall there were most positives, then negatives.
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For more information on our groups, please visit us at:
Singapore transgender social and networking group -
SGGURLS: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Malaysia's transgender social and networking group -
MYGURLZ: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
Bangkok's transgender social and networking group -
BangkokTrans: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
BDSM social and networking groups
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork ,
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork,
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
Hottest Lesbian lounte in town:
Tocame: http://www.blurbme.com/find/place.php?leId=13089
SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream
December 6th, 2008 11:57 pm MST
SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream
SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream
Singapore, 6th December 2008
The SGGURLS 8th Moderator meeting was a blast. The meeting was attended by a bunch of really fun loving gurls. It was heartwarming to see deepening relationships forming between the gurls. There were also some romances that had taken off. It was definitely more exciting than Cashmere Mafia and more intriguing than Ugly Betty. Is there a television series in the making? More than a few I wager. Unfortunately, most of the juicy stuff I can’t write in here. All I am allowed to say is that it sure beats watching Saturday night reruns on the telly. I got first class seat to the best show in our little corner of the world.
The meeting was graced by the lovely Mistress Christy. I was just blown away her grace and beauty. Her website and pictures don’t do her justice. She is really an incredible person: talented, gifted and yet so humble. I tried hinting of our informal gathering at DYMK as not to appear to blatant of the very rare treat. Mistress Christy shared with me the current developments of Bangkok’s ever evolving BDSM scene. She was also kind to share with me the underground SM scene in the rest of Asia as she is a widely sought after ProDomme who travels extensively.
In DYMK, there was an event generously sponsored by Aids for Action (AFA) Organization where anyone can test for HIV anonymously. The test is done via OraQuick rapid test where you just need to swab the inside of your mouth and wait for an hour for your results. SGGURLs support AFA. All the gurls and guests participated in the free test. For more on AFA, please see http://www.afa.org.sg/aboutafa.asp
After a very relaxed and fun time in DYMK, we popped over to Dixie’s at Mosque Street which is just next to Cows & Coolies. The bar was really fun. Most of the people knew the gurls. The gurls were up to their usual antics, singing Karaoke and playing pool. Our friends’ in Dixie had a blast trying out Joy’s mile tall high heel which ended up in an impromptu high heel dash around the pool table. This was eye candy for anyone with a foot fetish.
We would like to thank Benjamin and Marc of DYMK for making us feel at home.
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For more information of our groups, please visit us at
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash
November 15th, 2008 3:15 am MST
SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash
Singapore, 14th November 2008.
It was a night where people from all walks of life joinned to celebrate diversity. Despite the earlier drizzle, participation was fantastic. The rain stopped just as the celebration got underway. We could not have asked for better timing. The weather cooled down nicely so that we could chill outside when things got too hot inside and the gurls did sizzle things up inside. The bungalow was gigantic. It had 7 giant bedrooms upstairs. One of the rooms was converted into a makeup station for our two very talented make-up artist.
The night was special. We had a very rare opportunity to celebrate three birthdays: Rebec, Hendrika and SGGURLS. The totally delectable cakes were specially chosen by Adaline for the birthday girl and gurls. The catered Indonesian food, wonderful cakes, fine wine and beer were only the starters for the great celebration. It was a also a night when the gurls and friends of SGGURLS took ownership of the club and made it their own. The moderators were asked to gather around for the cake cutting ceremony. Nic made a speech on behalf of the group saying that SGGURLS is a group not just for the transgendered, but a group for anyone who had ever been discriminated. The birthday wish for SGGURLS is to be a positive force to forster respect amongst people regardless of their gender, gender preferences, race, religion, creed and country. We were also very happy that the owner of MYGURLZ came all they way from KL to celebrate SGGURLS' birthday. She was happy to see a united transgender community in Singapore celebrating their friendship in mirth and with warmth.
After the cake cutting ceremony, the celebration went into overdrive. Kaila was the emcee for the night and a fine emcee she was. She whipped up the audience into a frenzy when the beautiful Destinee, sexy Ivy and delicious Trish performed their hearts out. Destinee did two song numbers. Trish sang 'Fever' and Ivy heated up things with very exotic dance. 
And when everyone thought that the show as over, Joy brought out the ropes. Nic and Joy were like Betty Boo meets Betty Paige domina duo. They caught their naughty lollita and the birthday gurl. Before the gurls knew it, they were bound, gagged and tickled mercilessly for an hour. But this was all done in good fun of course.
A special thank you to Adaline, Kaila, Destinee, Trish, Ivy Jr., Deanna, Hendrika, Zeus, Bobby for making the celebration a success. And a big hug to all our wonderful friends who came and made the night a memorable one.
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For more information on Asia's transgender social & support network, please visit:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash
November 15th, 2008 3:14 am MST
SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash
Singapore, 14th November 2008.
It was a night where people from all walks of life joinned to celebrate diversity. Despite the earlier drizzle, participation was fantastic. The rain stopped just as the celebration got underway. We could not have asked for better timing. The weather cooled down nicely so that we could chill outside when things got too hot inside and the gurls did sizzle things up inside. The bungalow was gigantic. It had 7 giant bedrooms upstairs. One of the rooms was converted into a makeup station for our two very talented make-up artist.
The night was special. We had a very rare opportunity to celebrate three birthdays: Rebec, Hendrika and SGGURLS. The totally delectable cakes were specially chosen by Adaline for the birthday girl and gurls. The catered Indonesian food, wonderful cakes, fine wine and beer were only the starters for the great celebration. It was a also a night when the gurls and friends of SGGURLS took ownership of the club and made it their own. The moderators were asked to gather around for the cake cutting ceremony. Nic made a speech on behalf of the group saying that SGGURLS is a group not just for the transgendered, but a group for anyone who had ever been discriminated. The birthday wish for SGGURLS is to be a positive force to forster respect amongst people regardless of their gender, gender preferences, race, religion, creed and country. We were also very happy that the owner of MYGURLZ came all they way from KL to celebrate SGGURLS' birthday. She was happy to see a united transgender community in Singapore celebrating their friendship in mirth and with warmth.
After the cake cutting ceremony, the celebration went into overdrive. Kaila was the emcee for the night and a fine emcee she was. She whipped up the audience into a frenzy when the beautiful Destinee, sexy Ivy and delicious Trish performed their hearts out. Destinee did two song numbers. Trish sang 'Fever' and Ivy heated up things with very exotic dance.
And when everyone thought that the show as over, Joy brought out the ropes. Nic and Joy were like Betty Boo meets Betty Paige domina duo. They caught their naughty lollita and the birthday gurl. Before the gurls knew it, they were bound, gagged and tickled mercilessly for an hour. But this was all done in good fun of course.
A special thank you to Adaline, Kaila, Destinee, Trish, Ivy Jr., Deanna, Hendrika, Zeus, Bobby for making the celebration a success. And a big hug to all our wonderful friends who came and made the night a memorable one.
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For more information on Asia's transgender social & support network, please visit:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
A Saturday Night in Tocame
November 8th, 2008 11:44 pm MST
A Saturday Night in Tocame
Singapore, 8 November 2008
It had been a very long time since we visited our friends at Tocame. Tocame primarily caters to the lesbian crowd and it is not a wonder that we found the best looking women on the planet crowded in this little space. Its times like this that I am so glad that I am a dyke.
The lovely Mistress Shirley and Mistress Sally were gracious enough to drop by for a drink (not in any pics as requested). Our official photographer for the night was Patric (also not in any pics as requested). We were very happy to finally meet the lovely Miss Angeline. This was the first time for her to come out enfemme in her own homeground. She is beautiful as well as brave.
Cindy dropped by with lots of gifts for the Chalet. OMG the gurl is giving away a fortune of lovely dresses: silk dresses, designer cotton tops, etc. This gurl was so tempted to keep them for herself. Linda came out with an excellent suggestion to auction off the clothes and donate the money to charity. We'll most likely do as Linda recommended. I can think of a few deserving charities like the Children's Pocket Fund. We can have our event Chairwoman (miss Adaline) write a check on behalf of SGGURLS to two or three deserving charities.
After midnight, Joy showed us the ropes of having a good time. Once the genie was out of the bag, some of the gurls were quite tied up for the night. Trish was too enamored with the KTV system that she didn't notice some nice white ropes on her. :-P Or maybe she did but she just ignored the pest that was on bugged her.
We just hoped that we didn't embarass the TocaMe patrons too much. There were a few patrons that walked up to us and said that the ropes look like fun. They were wondering what happens next. Nic told them that they can take the packaged gurls back with them if they so desired. Our new friends smiled and winked at the gurls, absolutely delighted with such a naughty treat. ;-)
We like to thank our friends and the management at Tocame for the warm hospitality. For more information on TocaMe bar, please visit http://www.sal.org.sg/Lists/Membership%20Discounts%20and%20Privileges/DispForm.aspx?ID=213 or email tocame@juxtapose.com.sg
To find more about Asia's alternative lifestyle, please visit us at:
Transgender social and support group:
Singapore - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Malaysia - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
Bangkok - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
BDSM or D/s groups:
Singapore - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Singapore: Halloween 2008
October 31st, 2008 11:54 pm MDT
Singapore: Halloween 2008 Singapore, 31st Oct 2008, Friday Thanks to our lovely gurls that Halloween 2008 beat sitting at 11pm watching Survivor on the telly. Our guests Veron & Dyana were dressed in the dopest meeeoooowww...Cat suit and Goth outfit that would make any straight male go berserk. They look waaay too good. Andy and Alex (AlexSG01) dropped by for a drink before running off to their next caper. We had Rayne in her sexy Goth gear, Kaila in a hot leather chipao, Joy wearing a deliciously wicked she-devil costume, Trish looking like the hot young Tina Turner (I know she'll disagree), Shelia in a nice elegant dress, Destynee looking ravishing in her scrumptious lollita outfit, my luvly slut she-devil Adaline in a cosplay outfit, the shy demure Cindy wearing a kinky french maid costume, beautiful Andrea in a black elegant dress, Hendrika in a Thai university female outfit, and me da big COWgurl. Backstage was packed tighter than a can of sardines. It looked like a mini UN gathering with representatives from all continents with schmoozing and giving each other friendly spanks on the butt. Given that this was the tail end of a work week, the turnout was quite good. The Backstage team did a good job in making the place look spooky unfortunately there were no ghouls or ghost in the place only hot bods on the prowl. After Backstage, the group splintered to Cows&Coolies, Alley Bar @Peranakan Place and Thumper@Goodwood Park. Master Richard + partner, , Bobby + partner, were at Cows & Coolies with most of the gurls. There was a big goth party at Alley bar (http://community.livejournal.com/singaporegoths/) and of course SGDOMSUBS centennarian at Thumper. All in all Halloween 2008 amidst the economic downturn got my two thumps up. For more information on Asia's alternative lifestyles, please visit us at: BDSM sites: SE Asia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork Tgurls sites: Malaysia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls Bangkok: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans Tags: 2008, 31 oct 2008, backstage, bar hopping, bdsm, bondage, costumes, cows & coolies, friday, halloween, leather, pvc, singapore, sm
SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY on 14th NOVEMBER
October 23rd, 2008 7:26 am MDT
Singapore: SGGURLS 1st Annniversary Bash Date: Friday November 14, 2008 Time: All Day Author: nicole.singslave Type: Party Location: https://www.aloharesorts.com.sg/booking/chalet/chaletDetails.asp?lid=8 Street: https://www.aloharesorts.com.sg/booking/chalet/chaletDetails.asp?lid=8 City/State/Zip: Changi, Singapore The events: SGGURLS First Anniversary celebration and Hedrick'sBirthday Party.Venue: Aloha Changi Holiday resort (The exact chalet location will bemake know later)Time: The actual party start at 6.00 pm on the 14th November 2008.Agenda: Show performances, games, entertainment, pools table, KTV(karaoke), movies and free and easy activities by the SM groups.Dress code: Drag, party dress, SM gears, leather, pvc Foods: Halal buffet Drinks: Orange juice, beverages (coffee, tea or me), beers and hardliquors (subjected to changes)The chalet: After the party the chalet will declare open from 14th tothe 15th Nov 2008. Guests and members are welcome to stay with usovernight from the 14th November (Friday night) to the 15th November(Saturday night). The chalet program will be posted out later. OnSaturday night from 6.00 pm to mid night 12.00 am will be free andeasy night for all the guests and members. Fee: S$25, you can pay on that day itself. Please do your payment transfer to POSB Savings 087766187 If possible, try to enter your name during transfer for easy reference. After transfer, please sms 98629088 to check for confirmation stating your name and amount.
SGGURLS' 2nd HALLOWEEN PARTY
October 17th, 2008 7:40 am MDT
For details, please refer to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
SGGURLS 3rd Moderator's Meeting
October 11th, 2008 10:50 pm MDT
SGGURLS 3rd Moderator's Meeting Singapore, 12th October 2008 The SGGURLS moderators convened at DYMK bar at about 9pm+++. Some of the gurls were already there since 6pm as they attended Leona Lo's talk. Before the Moderator's meeting started a variety of topics were discussed. The most memorable were highlights from Leona Lo's inspirational talk about the challenges that a trans-gurl will face. Destynee said that the best part of the talk she liked was that a tgurl needs to be self-reliant and not hope for the knight in shining armor. There's no such person. Trish agreed and said that building up a means to achieve financial independence was a key to a successful pre and post transition. The topic of purging came up during the discussion. A spot survey from the moderators showed that almost all the Mods (short for Moderators of SGGURLS) who were present that night had purged their fem personalities at least twice only to be defeated by a stronger resurgence from their fem side. Nic said that "we're born with a curse never to escape the need to be a woman." Trish however disagreed and said that it was not a 'curse' but a blessing. Trish summed it up best by saying that Trans people (MtF, FtM) are the only people with a unique understanding of what it means to be a man and a woman. All the Mods agreed that it's quite difficult if not impossible to escape from wanting to be that elusive girl / woman. This need is like the programming in salmons that compel them to swim upstream. The Mods also discussed about how a pressing issue of harrassments of members and Mods in the SGGURLS forum. The Mods discussed the term 'harrassment'. Harrassment means to incessantly contact the gurls without any regard if the communication was not welcomed. We discussed about some specific cases that happened for the last two weeks. It was agreed that if the harrassers persist, then the Mods will take appropriate actions. The approach is to reason with them first. The banning of harrassers will be a last resort. When Kaila & Joy finally arrived (10:30pm ), Trish called the meeting in order. The Mods meeting was chaired by Destynee and Kaila. Destynee briefed us the status of the arrangements. Kaila went through the agenda. Destynee gathered our decisions for the halal menu which made many of us hungry. If the menu sounds as good as the actual food, most of us can't wait to get their hand on the food. Nic and Destynee worked out the finance for the SGGURLS nite. We discovered that we were short of about S$200. The Mods brainstormed on how to cover the shoftfall. Smart Joy suggested that each of the Mods contributed an additional sum. The sum to be worked out. Ivy suggested that we also ask if some of the bars, etc. wanted to sponsor our SGGURLS nite. There were some items that still needed to be worked out particularly drivers and the drinks portion. Destynee suggested that the Mods bring 1-2 bottles of their favorite drinks. Nic suggested that maybe make it optional (but much appreciated) if participants would also bring a bottle of their favorite wine or liquoer. The Mods also got to meet up with Angeline who posted her photos on the board recently. Kaila exchanges some tips for her on how to overcome her shyness. Most of us already think that Angeline is brave for joining the Mods meeting. After the meeting, the gurls adjourned to smoking heaven ("Cow&Coolies"). For non-smokers the place was smoking hell. But our friends in Cows&Coolies already very familiar with our group were fun. Their friendliness and craziness made up for the blured vision from the heavy smoke. Special thanks to Rayne who was our official ("arrowed') photographer for the night. ========================================================= SGGURLS (a Singapore based social network group for tv,cd,ts): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls MYGURLZ (a Malaysian based social network group for tv,cd,ts): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz DYMK bar: http://www.dymk.sg Cows N Coolies: http://www.streetdirectory.com/businessfinder/company_detail.php?companyid=21564&branchid=8466 Tags: butterfly, cd, coolies, cows, crossdress, crossdressers, crossdressing, dymk, glbt, group, lgbt, network, newhalf, sgb, sggurls, singapore, social, society, support, tgurls, trans, transgender, ts, tv
