Journal Entries for Keith Schneider
Dating
August 23rd, 2011 5:14 pm MDT
Mature single white straight male safe and sane. Looking for a woman. A T/G who identifies as straight and is ready for a good decent man. NOT looking for a fantasy or escorts. All most guys know about a T/G women is what they see in porn that’s not me I have experience dating T/G women. You should be drug free a little 420 is ok, want to be with a gentleman, be DD free and be ok with going out
I am very for real and I have learned a lot about T/G women and like their company more than most GG’s I have dated. I do have pictures and will exchange them with you I’m not like most guy’s who post I will meet if we like and I wont stand you up if we agree to meet.
Age and race open prefer 35 to 50 but open to mature thinking younger or young thinking older
Untitled Post
April 9th, 2009 8:07 pm MDT
Some of you have gotten to know me quite well from talking at TSG and TS Social lounge and most girls there know Im a decent guy but some of you don’t know me that well and I have been asked some questions lately that lead me to believe some explanation may be in order to give you an idea of my attitudes that might help Im not a troll or a perv. I am just a decent guy who decided I had some pretty good reasons for being where I am and dating T/S women. There was a time when I thought perhaps my reasons were a bit to selfish and I was considering just leaving TSG and the other dating sites (I truly didn’t want to be looking for a T/S mate for the wrong reasons) and hurt someone but after talking with a few of the girls I came to realize that a man with my perspectives wasn’t coming to the table empty handed either and that even if some of my reasons were a bit selfish it was ok. So I posted this to give you an incite as to how I think. I hope you will take the time to read my journal and learn more about me
Hi My name is Keith Im a way different kind of guy My attitudes are so different from other men. A little background info might help explain some of the things I'm about to say. Sometime ago I met and dated a wonderful girl after a time and before becoming intimate she told me she was a post op T/S I didn't know a lot about it at the time but we got along great and I didn't see where it made any difference so we continued to date until she moved away but it did lead me to do some research and check out some sites that I found that were not porn sites that actually allowed for learning about transgender people. After spending considerable time there and elsewhere I really do understand this I don’t think of the women as T/S to me they are just a woman I know for certain in my own mind that they truly are women in mind and heart so for me it’s just a man and a woman dating and it’s very easy to just forget about it I would also like to say it's quite possible for a normal straight guy to date T/S girls. I have various reasons for wishing to do so and I will freely admit some are a little bit selfish although I wouldn’t consider any of them to be perverted or voyeuristic.
Number one I love women and I have found many of the girls to be more feminine than typical modern day natal females and I don’t think a T/S woman will ever take being a woman for granted like so many natal females seem to.
Number two I think and this is only an opinion but formed from talking with a lot of different girls that a there will be a much higher degree of fidelity in the relationship (one of the selfish reasons).
Number three My personal experience leads me to believe in general T/S people are more understanding and willing to work at a relationship and much more communicative open and don’t play games also with a different perspective than a natal woman which makes communicating much easier without all the BS a T/S woman understands a male in ways no natal female ever could.
Number four a much greater likelihood of meeting a girl who will be a kind affectionate loving faithful smart full partner for a man who has taken the time and effort to learn about the realities of what it has taken for her to have transitioned and knows what she in all probability has lost along the way with family friends and spouse and who has thought long and hard about the problems and possible benefits of having a T/S woman as a life partner and is fully able to put the T/S woman's past behind them and simply treat her as the woman she is and not feel any embarrassment or guilt or give a damn what anyone thinks of the decision and treat her like the woman she is with family, friends, and in every day life with love and affection and probably the most selfish reason of all a smaller pool of decent available understanding males like me to chose from means she knows how hard it is to find a man like that and she will never take that man for granted.
Now you have an admittedly brief but pretty good idea what my thoughts are about a T/S woman and you know I have thought this through pretty thoroughly and my eyes are wide open to possible problems and benefits to actively seek a T/S girl friend I am currently not involved in a committed relationship I have dated recently and will be continuing to do so. I am seriously looking for miss right I am ready and willing to settle down with the right woman in a committed monogamous relationship so if you think you might be ready for that with a man who admittedly is kinda high maintenance I require a woman who wants a kiss and a hug good morning and kiss and a hug goodbye when she or I leave a kiss and a hug when we get home and maybe anytime for no reason at all. A sweet kind affectionate woman who likes to let the man in her life know she cares about him in small ways as well. I do these things and require them as well. I said I am straight and I meant it I would really prefer a post-op woman and it need never be mentioned again about being T/S but would be open to a pre-op who will be post-op in the near future meaning your plans are made and it wont be years away (and yes if were together I will be with you every step of the way supporting you in every way) I will be there for anything you need. I understand how important a time of your life that will be I will be there holding your hand when you go to sleep and I will be there holding your hand when you wake up for the first time congruent in mind and body in fact I think it might form an incredibly strong bond between us I make no bones about looking for a T/S girl friend I have thought about it I know what I want in a mate and think I have a better chance of finding it with a T/S woman so there hasn’t been any embarrassment or guilt in the past nor will there be in the future in dating a T/S woman you can be stealth or out with my friends and family its your decision and I understand and respect that. I am confident enough in who I am and what I want to not give a damn about what someone else thinks and we will simply live our lives together like any other couple although I will say most of my friends and family are fairly open minded. Ok whew that lays it out pretty plainly I think where Im at so if you think you might be miss right please contact me
