Alyssa A. Maid
" the latest and greatest was a Superbowl Party I uploaded a photo of me in my pink dress - I hope you like it!"
Journal Entries for Alyssa A. Maid
currently dating a non-supportive girlfriend
February 23rd, 2012 12:43 am MST
I'm currently dating a very NON-supportive girlfriend, which makes dressing as Alyssa extremely tough if not damn near impossible.
She's told me what happened TWICE in the past to her, she was jilted twice by two different guys who left her for another MAN (plus one of them wanted to attend the Rocky Horror picture Show as Frankenfurter - as she says "I was shocked that he wanted to wear the corset and fishnet tights and dress as Tim Curry's character Frankenfurter... then next he turned gay and dumped me for a boy"
She's stated that this has happened twice, two different guys have gone gay and dumped her for a male.. these were both very short relationships but she was hurt and devistated both times..
OK NOW what the hell do i tell her? I cannot possibly tell her about my life as "Alyssa" it would break her heart to find out that I was secretly lying to her about NOT being a Crossdresser for the entire relationship (I mean I'm not lying about how I feel towards her... I really do have feelings for her)
it is just tough to open up and drop that wall because you KNOW it's going to end horribly for both sides.
Plus she's Catholic and dating somebody who dresses is a huge red flag and I know she would run (and totally be devistated)
So what do I do now? Hang up Alyssa forever? 
Had a wonderful Birthday!
November 10th, 2011 1:32 am MST
Fortunatly for me, my birthday comes hot on the heels of Halloween, so after a fantastic outing in Felton, CA, as Witch Alyssa I turned 42.
Many of you are not aware of this but I have lovely admirers in both Canada and Germany (real ladies that I'll probably never get to meet) well they've been telling me that i need to offer my services as a maid and do either an 8 hour shift or a 16 hour weekend, basically spending 8 or 16 hours as a maid and the entire weekend as Alyssa with no "male time" This poses a significant challenge for me to dissapear for a period of time in my normal life and work as a maid and live for a weekend as a lady.
if you can help me out, please shoot me a comment or send me an email and please be local to san jose if you want me to come be a maid for a few hours.
-Alyssa
