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"really tired from partying to mutch"
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Be real, stop the denial and hiding.
vannesa girl queensbury, NY September 11th, 2008 4:09 pm MDTI'm trying to figure out why people put themselves on these websights professng to want to meet people and then they run back into the closet. It was hard for me the first time out but now I love it. I guess it is the initial fear but once you get through it it actually frees you. I've never been so happy since I've come out. About meeting. I give my phone number to all that want it. I won't meet anyone without talking with them first. If someone will not give or exchange numbers with you then it means they are unavailable. They are either immature wannabees or married and cheating. I don't want anyone contacting me or requesting an add if they will not exchnage phone numbers or live 3000 miles away. Grow up and come out from behind your computers. Life isn't in there it's out here in the world.[Comment on this post]
Finally !!,,I did it,,Face Pics
Deanna Rachel August 23rd, 2008 7:03 am MDTI finally came to my senses and took some full body shots..with clear face pics. Please excuse the novice make-up, I am working on it. Any Gurls wanna help me practice.?..hope ya like em'..leave some comments..plz..thx,,Kisses,Deanna[Comment on this post]
Surround Yourself with Love
Michele Angelique January 6th, 2008 4:51 pm MSTOnce we think more deeply about the people we interact with, it becomes easier for us to work toward filling our lives with people who help us cultivate healthy and positive relationships. Even though it might not always seem like we have much control over who we are with, we do. The power to step back from toxicity lies within us. All we have to do is take a few moments to reflect on how another person makes you feel. Assessing the people we spend the most time with allows us to see if they add something constructive to, or subtract from, our lives. Should a friend sap our strength, for example, we can simply set the intention to tell them how we feel or simply spend less time with them.
We will find that the moment we are honest with ourselves about our own feelings, the more candid we can be with others about how they make us feel. While this may involve some drastic changes to our social life it can bring about a personal transformation that will truly empower us, since the decision to live our truth will infuse our lives with greater happiness.
When we surround ourselves with positive people, we clear away the negativity that exists around us and create more room to welcome nurturing energy. Doing this not only enriches our lives but also envelopes us in a supportive and healing space that fosters greater growth, understanding, and love of ourselves as well as those we care about.
Much love and happy 2008,
Michele Angelique
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What Makes a Pretty Face....?
T. R. Annie November 9th, 2007 7:56 am MSTWhat makes a pretty face? And why are we so powerfully attracted to feminine facial features? Consider the following associations: Big nose = ugly, small nose = pretty. Big eyes = pretty, small eyes = ugly. Looking at pictures of actresses and models, I’m fairly certain that the above rules are an accurate reflection of our facial preferences. Why? Rules may be rules, but I won't simply accept such things without looking at root causes. So here is my theory.It seems as if pretty women mimic the facial characteristics of human babies, who are also noted for their big eyes and small noses. The killer fact that proves this theory is found in the language used to describe nubile women. Is not an attractive woman called a “babe”? Is she not also described as “cute”, an adjective traditionally applied to babies or young furry animals? The use of these words is clear proof that, at some sub-conscious level, the human admirer realises he is behaving like an ass but is powerless to resist.Well, that’s my theory - what's yours?[1 comment]
Modelts
Sakura The Cutie July 27th, 2007 4:54 pm MDTGirls! Do you think I could become one of those modelts girls?? XXXSakuraXXX[1 comment]
Dressing Day
Sakura The Cutie July 27th, 2007 4:50 pm MDTHey you girls out there, I'm just want to ask you a question.I'm probably going to be able to dress on Monday, but I really don't know what to wear. Please gurls, write me back and ask me what I should wear and I will take pictures and give them to all of you. If I don't have the thing you are saying I will try to get something to wear that is very similar. XXXSakuraXXX[Comment on this post]
Comment me girls!
Sakura The Cutie July 13th, 2007 1:29 pm MDTHey all you sexy girls out there, please check out my profile and please comment me or send me a e-mail and we can become great friends. XXXSakuraXXX[2 comments]
Lovely Crossdressing Day
Sakura The Cutie June 20th, 2007 10:12 am MDTHello all my cute girlfriends out there. I just had another great chance to dress today. I wore my mom clothes like always. First I put on some very sexy clear pantyhose, and after that I put on some blue pantyhose over them. I just love the feeling of having 2 pantyhose on my legs, I get all excited. Then I put on this sleepwear thing my mom has, and after that I put on my moms very sexy, cute white dress, that she bought not to long ago. Oh yeah! I almost forgot, the heels, I searched another my moms shoes and got out a pair to wear. After getting all cute and sexy I started taking pictures, I just tried different poses and stuff. If you would love a copy of my pictures, please just e-mail me I will send them to you. I haven't crossdressed in a very long time and I felt great doing it. I'm still wearing all of this right now as I'm writing this in my journal. Well I hope you enjoy reading this, BYE-BYE! XXXSakuraXXX[Comment on this post]
New Pic
Sakura The Cutie March 13th, 2007 7:46 pm MDTNew Pictures that I took today, when I dressed.[1 comment]
Karen my best friend
Sakura The Cutie February 4th, 2007 4:17 pm MSTI would just like to say that Karen Reeves is the great girl in the whole world!!!!! She is the best friend I have ever had!!!!!!!! I love you Karen![1 comment]
Why Do I Love Transwomen?
Michele Angelique February 1st, 2007 6:04 pm MSTBecause I am a natural born woman, I have been asked on more occasions than I can count, "why" do I care about transgender issues and "why" do I have so many friends in the online trans community, since I myself am not trans? I was born female, so "why" am I here online representing and supporting transgender women? My reasons are a combination of personal, social and spiritual. I'd like to write a little more about each of these areas, then expand in future blogs based on your interests.
Personal Reasons…
On a personal level, I am bisexual femme top, so none other suits me as well as a bi-gendered male-to-female (M2F) transwoman. No other type of potential love partner is more attractive to me, particularly those who are comfortable with both sides of their gender.
For a male crossdressing en femme, it is often erotic, sensual and sexual, yet it goes even deeper because dressing allows his inner feminine to emerge from the heart of a man, invoking a feeling of relief and joy as she is able to breathe through her true self. To observe, participate, facilitate this emotional healing is blissful to me, satisfying and fulfilling beyond measure.
All my romantic/sexual inclinations are for M2F trans of all degrees from crossdresser, femboi, transvestite, bi-gendered, transgendered, transsexual – all males who respectfully cross the gender line are so beautiful in my eyes. Someone who can switch between male and female, or who embodies both at one time, is the ideal match for a bisexual woman like me. This intense attraction is the magnet that keeps me transfixed, despite that I myself am not trans, the love of my life certainly will be.
Social Reasons…
On a social level, it is from a strong feminist perspective that I support transwomen. I am someone who believes that feminine is of equal value to masculine, and it is healthy and normal for females to be masculine, or males to be feminine. Because I am a feminist, I admire the ideals of femininity, so it makes perfect sense to me that many humans aspire to the feminine, no matter whether they are anatomically female or male.
Society has a deep-seated underlying disregard for the feminine, which is why women and transwomen are not treated as equals to men. The gender imbalance is a social problem which has existed for millenniums. All feminine people, genetic women and transwomen, are on the same side of the movement toward true gender equality.
As a feminist, I love and revere the feminine, so I hold in most special regard those born male who have the strength to be feminine in this harsh and cruel world. Males who possess such an inner goddess essence that they choose to cross the gender divide and become one of us, are the ultimate feminists in my book. I urge all women, all feminists, to recognize and embrace transgender women as our true sisters.
Spiritual Reasons…
From a spiritual perspective, I believe the human soul is genderless. I believe our Higher Power is genderless. It is only in physical earthly form that we are bound to vessels which are gendered. In our angelic forms, we have the knowledge, wisdom and understanding of both feminine and masculine, in perfect balance and harmony.
I believe it is evolutionary for humans to transcend societal bondage of stereotypical polarities, in particular the illusion of binary gender. As we evolve as human beings, we get closer to our angelic forms, we find a growing inner knowing of both masculinity and femininity. People who cross the human-made gender construct are only following a natural course of soul evolution.
We as human beings are not meant to be caged by the artificial duality we have created for ourselves. The time has come to transcend the illusion and ascend into our most beautiful selves.
What Do You Think?
So you see, I have a number of reasons for loving transwomen. I could write so much more if you are interested. I would like to hear from you. Along which of these lines – personal, social or spiritual - should I expand my writing?
Much love to all of you beautiful URNA sisters!
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Mature
Sakura The Cutie January 9th, 2007 6:09 pm MSTSince I'm finally 18, I just know I will be stepping up my crossdressing adventure.[1 comment]
NEW PHOTO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sakura The Cutie January 4th, 2007 1:47 pm MSTI got to crossdress today and I took some new pictures. I hope all you girls like them. Please tell me what you think.[1 comment]
Coming Out of Hiding
Michele Angelique August 16th, 2006 4:31 pm MDTComing Out Of HidingIsolation
There are times in our lives when withdrawing from our social obligations and taking some time to be alone is necessary to rejuvenate our energy and renew our connection to ourselves. However, there are also times when withdrawal is a red flag, indicating an underlying sense of depression or some other problem. We may not even have consciously decided to isolate ourselves but wake up one day to find that we have been spending most of our time alone. Perhaps it's been a long time since friends who used to call have given up. Without anyone inviting us out, we sink deeper into alienation.
The longer our isolation lasts, the harder it becomes to reach out to people. It is as if we have failed to exercise a particular muscle, and now it is so weak we don't know how to use it. Yet, in order to return to a healthy, balanced state of being, that's exactly what we need to do. If you find yourself in this situation, call an understanding friend who will listen to you with compassion, not a defensive friend who may have taken your withdrawal personally. The last thing you need is to be chided; a negative response could intensity your isolation. If you don't have a kind friend you can rely on, call a spiritual counselor or therapist. They may be able to help you determine the underlying cause of your isolation and help you find your way out of it.
When you've been in a pattern of secluding yourself, it can begin to seem impossible that you could reenter the world of friendships, conversations, and group activities, but with time, you will. Most people will understand if you take the time to explain that you've fallen out of touch and would like to reconnect. Take your time and be gentle with yourself, starting with one person and building from there. Try to reach out to one new person every week. Before you know it, you will find yourself back in the company of friends.
~ From www.dailyom.com
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2nd day of crossdressing this week
Sakura The Cutie August 15th, 2006 11:36 am MDTHello everyone!!! Today my mom had to go to a class from 8am to 2pm. She did that the day before which was the day I got to experience wearing high heels. Today, the 2nd day of my crossdressing for this week, I found in my mom's closet the black lingerie. Some of you might know what lingerie this is. I used to have a picture of me wearing some black lingerie. Well anyways I found that lingerie, then I found some black panties and black pantyhose. First I put on the black panties, they felt very good on my little cock. The second thing I put on was the black pantyhose. I put them on very very slowly, I wanted the nylon to nub on my legs nicely. Now I finally got to put on the black lingerie. I really enjoyed the lingerie. On the back on the lingerie, there was a thing that supports my chest then just a string that just goes down to my butt and around back to my little cock. I really enjoyed the string in the back, I just loved touching it. Oh yea I like almost forgot to tell you, I wore high heels as well. The same high heels that I wore yesterday, seriously my mom needs to buy more heels. Anyways, I just went walking around my house in the lingerie, then I make a big risky thing, I went outside to my back porch and went walking around. My heels were making the hitting sound that it does when hitting the ground, with that noise I seriously thought someone was going to see me, but if there were someone outside watching me, I hoped they enjoyed the show HEHE (^_^) lol. No one was outside that I saw, so I stayed outside for like 10 minutes walking around. Next I went back inside, and was feeling to wear something else, so I went back into my mom's room and went looking through there night wear and I found this white night gown that I've never seen before. I put it over my black lingerie, and like OMG I looked so sexy in it. The gown fitted perfectly on my body. When I was looking at myself in a mirror I started to make teasing poses and started lift the night gown so my black lingerie was shown and I was nubing myself (sorry, I like to be naughty sometimes). After that I went back outside and walked around for 10 minutes, went back inside and did some self-bondage. I ball-gagged myself (I know, kind of dangerous) and tied-up my legs. I didn't tied my hands, if that happened I would never would get to untie myself. I just mostly rowed around and tried to scream cuz of my ball gag. After bondage I just got on my computer and now I'm writing this journal, and yes I'm still wearing the black lingerie and the white night gown with the black panties and black pantyhose and the high heels. HEHE (^_^)XXXSakuraXXX[1 comment]
New Experience: High Heels
Sakura The Cutie August 14th, 2006 8:59 am MDTHello girls and all my girlfriends! Today August 14, 2006, Sakura has experienced something new in her journey to womenhood. My mom was attending a class August 14, and 15 from 8am to 2pm. I thought this could be the perfect time to bring out Sakura for a couple of hours. Right as I'm writing this, I'm in a blue tank top, a white short shirt, pantyhose and yes girls high heels. I know I never wore high heels before. My mom feet are way to small, so none of her shoes fit me at all. So how you think I'm wearing high heels you ask? Well before my aunt left to move somewhere else, she gave my mom a pair of blue high heels. My aunt has bigger feet so my mom has not wore them since. I thought today would be the perfect chance for me to see if they fit me or not. As to say, I did get them on after all, but there were kind of a pain to put on. My aunt has bigger feet then my mom, but not as big as me. I had to push my feet in the heels a little. I got my feet into the heels but I had one little problem. The srape on the back of the shoes that goes behind the foot, I couldnt get on. I was thinking this wasnt going to wear the heels no more, but I wanted Sakura to be experience with high heels. So I really forced my feet in the heels and finally YES! I got my feet in the heels!!!! Sakura was so happy!!! She started to jump all over the place!!!!! Sakura went into the kitchen on the hard floor to hear the toching and walking of the heels on the floor. Sakura was blushing and so very happy!!!!XXXSakuraXXX[Comment on this post]
To the Wife of a Transwoman Coming Out
Michele Angelique August 7th, 2006 3:10 pm MDTI received a letter from the wife of someone who recently revealed their transgender status after 10+ years of marriage, and who intends to transition permanently to live as a woman full time. After reading one of my earliest pieces, "Best of Both Worlds", she reached out to me in the hopes that I may be able to help her to cope with these changes in her partner, particularly in regard to sexual orientation. Fortunately she loves her spouse immeasurably, and wants to accomodate their needs if she is able. While I was only able to scratch the surface of this topic in a single letter, my hope is that I provided her with a few important points to consider. I expect that this will be an ongoing discussion, and plan to post again on this topic in the near future. I would really like to get your feedback, because I am considering writing a book on this topic. Please tell me if I am on the right track.
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Please forgive my delay in responding honey. I wish I could provide some easy answers, but I don't want to make light of the situation you are facing because I do understand how you feel. First off I should note that I wrote "best of both worlds" about a year ago, and in all honesty, I have personally evolved in the year since writing that piece. At the time, I was still under the impression that my partner needed to have a penis. I have since reconsidered that notion, because quite frankly, it is not the penis that I love but rather the person. A penis does not make or break the sex life, but rather, the passion and intent of each partner to please one another is the real key; the body parts are just details.
The only real certainty in life is change. Nothing remains static forever. This is especially true with human beings. Because we have minds, hearts and spirits, we are constantly evolving, changing, growing. This is obviously more true for some people than others, but yet everyone does evolve through the course of life, even if in very minor ways. Some people change drastically, for various reasons, be they intentional or otherwise. One way or another, change is inevitable, and the only way to remain connected to another person over the long haul is to change together. As your partner evolves, you must also evolve in ways that accomodate and/or inspire your partner's growth. Otherwise, you will grow apart and find yourselves no longer compatible. To resist changes which your partner feels are essential to their happiness is to deny them the right to blossom, whereas to support their evolution is to enable them to reach for their best. A happy partner makes the best possible partner for you, so it's a win-win, provided the changes bring no harm to you.
The thing you will have to face is that as your partner transitions, she will be less inclined to assume the male role, especially in bed, mainly because it reminds her of what she doesn't want to be. If you demand this of her during intimacy when she is most vulnerable, she will come to resent the pressure. Whereas if you focus on pleasing her in the ways she needs to be pleased, quite likely she will be happy to reciprocate in whatever ways she is able. Have confidence that your partner will be far more sexually responsive if she is contented with herself, in which case she will be a more attentive lover to you.
I understand your misgivings about your own sexual orientation, as you noted you've never considered yourself a lesbian or even bisexual. I have come to realize that there is no label for my sexual orientation, because what I really love about a person is their heart, mind, and spirit, whereas anatomy is secondary. Therefore I am not a lesbian, nor am I hetero, nor am I truly bisexual (because it does not account for loving gender-fluid people). I guess if someone had to label me, it would be something like "queer" because I don't fit into any pre-defined box.
The question is whether your sexual orientation defines you as a person? Quite likely, in the grand scheme of you as a whole person, sexuality is just one fraction of who you are. Thus, to get hung up on this detail to the point where it might lead to questioning your love relationship, seems giving too much importance to something that doesn't even define the totality of you.
You loving your spouse, no matter what her anatomy, does not mean you are suddenly a lesbian attracted to all women, it simply means that you have the ability to love your partner in any form.
The fundamental point to ponder is, are you harmed by the changes?
You may feel that the changes will bring negative social stigma to your life... in this case, ask yourself whether the opinions of outsiders matter more than your partner's happiness?
You may feel that your children (if any) would be confused by the changes... in this case, ask yourself whether you wish to raise your children to understand only what's inside the old box of societal norms, or if teaching them to be open-minded and accepting of diversity may actually be a service to them?
You may feel that the changes will diminish the excitement of your sex life... in this case, ask yourself whether you are more excited by the totality of your partner as a person, or by their body parts?
You may feel that having a partner who changes gender will mean having to change the label of your sexual orientation... in this case, ask yourself whether the label is more important than the love?
I can't answer any of these questions for you dear one, only you know what's right for you. All I do know for sure is that your heart is in the right place in asking the questions you did. Your spouse is very blessed to have you as a partner, because it is clear that your love for her is pure and strong.
I wish you all the best, in whatever path you may choose.
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I Believe in You
Michele Angelique August 5th, 2006 2:03 pm MDTThere are times in our lives when we may find ourselves facing challenges that can seem overwhelming. The situation or task we are struggling with seems hopeless, and it is easy to stop believing in ourselves, our goals, and our dreams. It is during these moments that it can be reassuring and reaffirming to turn to the people in our lives who do believe in us, especially when we are finding it hard to believe in ourselves. An encouraging word, a reassuring look, or hearing the words "I believe in you" from someone who matters can help us turn our situations around in an instant.
Everybody has someone who believes in them, whether this person is a teacher, parent, friend, loved one, or an employer. Often their belief can wrap us in warmth, bolster us, and offer us a supportive hand to grab onto until we can regain our own support. Having that special person who believes in our abilities and our worth is a wonderful gift. But when we are feeling unworthy, it may be difficult to take in something so precious. We may even feel like we need to do it all on our own and that we shouldn't be asking for help. However, in letting their belief and support impact you, you are acknowledging the part of yourself that knows you are worthy of trust and esteem. By allowing them to believe in you, your own belief in yourself and your abilities will start to emerge again. Borrow their vision, and you can make it your own.
If your special someone is not there to spur you on, you also can lift yourself up with the gift of a positive image. When you feel uncertain, you can create a vision of the future you desire that will serve as a beacon of light. To do so, simply imagine a future that is exactly as you'd like it to be. Imagine in detail how you feel, what you are doing, and how others are responding to you. Make your vision as real as possible, and allow your doubts to recede so you can focus solely on the goal you seek. The more intently you focus on the image of what you want, your belief in yourself will step to the forefront, making it easier for the universe to open up a path and guide you.
From www.dailyom.com
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Cute thing to wear
Sakura The Cutie July 22nd, 2006 11:13 am MDTI was just wondering when I get the chance to move out of my house, what type of cute dresses and skirts should I get? Any ideas gurls??[Comment on this post]
New Photos
Sakura The Cutie July 13th, 2006 2:04 pm MDTHello all you girls out there. OMG finally this summer I got to do some dressing and also I got to take some very sexy pictures of me. I've been waiting forever to dress this summer. I'm not going to post all of my new pictures on my profile, but if you do want to see them, please just ask me and I will send you my pictures. I also got a chance to make some 1 minute videos as well. I finally found out how to use the video thing on my bro's digital camera, it was great having to take some videos of myself walking around in a dress and pulling up my dress show my pantyhose and panties show as well. (^_^) XXXSakuraXXX[Comment on this post]