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October 21st, 2008 8:08 pm MDT
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Day 1 at Southern Comfort Conference (SCC)
I
will not bore you with details, instead I will start off arriving at Hartsfield
airport right here In Atlanta. I arrived
on time from Delta, I know I was shocked too, ha-ha cause that never seems
to ever happen. While I walked through the airport I was deciding on what
transportation to take to the hotel taxi/livery cab, shuttle buses or the
MARTA… When I got to baggage claim I was a little hesitant on getting my
bags because last year I had a horrible incident happen. Last year I didn’t get my bags until like
sometime after midnight,
they said my bag was too heavy and had to be on board another flight coming to Atlanta. Anyways, I
found my bag and it was not delayed and not having to wait for it was a relief.
Okay, at this point I opted for the Marta as It was the cheapest (1.75 +.50
(2.25) one way. I was scared as I never been on the MARTA and going
through Atlanta
scared the crap out of me, I guess it’s that feeling of being in a new area and
I am not familiar to the transit system. When I walked up the stairs I
was shocked (sorry Atlanta)
it was actually clean and odorless. You
see I am from the NYC area and I was like great this is going to be just like
the NYC subway system. Boy was I dead wrong I was impressed that was an
above transit system and it was not overly crowded. It looks like I will be a MARTA user in the
future. The ride itself was pleasant,
smooth and quick, less than 45 minutes one-way. As I arrived at Dunwoody
station another “SHAMWOW” moment, was that, it was a stone throw away ha-ha, I
knew it was close but not that close. Getting off the platform and
down to street level to meet the shuttle to take us to the hotel was another 5
minute drive. I was happy to be finally here though a little
sad at the same time, meaning that I wish I had a GG girl friend to share this
with me, and yes I am still looking and
taking applications for GG J he-he... btw GG means, Genetic
Girl.
Arrived
at the hotel, walked in and got my SCC registration packet and named tag. Checked
In at the hotel and got my key card. This year I am on the 6th floor, last year I was on the 11 or something
can’t remember. I have view of the back
yard this time around nothing special as I can only see the top of the bar
called Chip Shots. I unpacked my things
and got everything in order. The time
was about 415p I need to quickly dress and get to the nail salon that I went to
last year, as I needed to get my nails done. Rushing through make up and doing a half decent job I finally got to the
nail salon at around 510p. I was happy to see the girls there remembered me and
many commented on my new look saying that I look better this year than last
year, ha-ha. As we chit chatted away I got a manicure and a pedicure, which cost
me with tip 50 bucks, to me that was reasonable. The whole process took about 1 hour or so, I
was then at the bare minerals store as I need more foundation then I left the
mall soon after. So back at the hotel I
went to my room to freshen up and head back downstairs to check to see if any
one was here that I knew. And low and behold I bump in to Amber a cross-dresser
from Indiana and her Indy friends heading out to dinner and I asked if I could
tag along they said sure the more the merrier. I didn’t know where we were
eating but we got on bus to the restaurant called Old Hickory House a
pulled BBQ pork place. Once we stepped
inside we got the usual stares and dumb founded looks, ha-ha... the
place is a local eatery and it was not busy just a small party in the back
besides us. We seated ourselves in the
back as those seem to be the bigger tables and ordered our food. The food was ok not great and the pork was
tender and juicy, I had the shredded pork sandwich with Brunswick stew (It’s
a chili like soup) and corn on the cob, at a reasonable price of 6.75, I got
the cheapest meal out of all the girls. Well after talking and eating and showing my pictures we paid our bill on
separate checks. We called the driver to
pick us up and headed back to the hotel to just relax and meet any talk with
the girls coming in and for me to have a good nights rest for tomorrow as it’s
going to be a big day for me.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Day 2
Woke
up at 7ish and showered and
shaved and got dressed in my Elie Tahari grey pant suit. I looked very professional
as I went to breakfast downstairs at the hotel and OMG rip off on
breakfast. I ordered 2 eggs sunny side
up with corned beef hash, toast and an apple juice, now this meal sounds it
would be a reasonable price, right, WRONG it cost 17.00 and I gave a 2
buck tip that came to 19.00. All I can say is HOLY SHIT. I was hungry, oh well... Today was an important day for me, why well I
am to take my friend Naria around and introducing her to some of my friends to
help her with her project she is working on for the Trans community. She
called me at 1137a and said she already and checked in and is ready to
roll. We headed to meet Cat first so she can register though we were too
late. So we all headed to eat
lunch, we sat at a table with my Indy friends and Naria had so many questions,
she was very observant and asked me if that person was a man or woman ,
and every time gave her the answer, she was shocked. Through out the day,
we talked and got to know each other fairly well. She got some good stories that can lead to a
possible shows and I hope that she finds the right people. She is
searching for heterosexual cross-dressers that are married and struggle with
the desire to dress as a woman in public. She would like to have them go on camera as their male and female side.
It’s a tall order but I am sure there are people out there that are willing and
ready to speak out for cross-dressers. We
meet some great people and I made a few new friends. As the evening ended with
dinner with the Vanity Club girls SCC annual dinner at a local restaurant she talked
to the wives of the group, I hope she made a few good friends. As we
headed back to the hotel I asked her if she was glad to come to this conference
if only for a short time she said yes she was happy that she came and had the opportunity
to talk to all my friends and educated herself on this diverse community. Unfortunately Naria had to leave early the
next day to care for her family. I wished
she stayed longer, but I wish her well and good luck with her project and
if she doesn’t find any leads or willing participants at least she is now more
educated about the trans community and I hope be more understanding towards our
community. I also hope that she teaches
her children to be accepting of people like me.
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This night also happened to be the vice
president debate night and the lobby was packed with people watching the
debate. Casino night was almost a bust
but some people came to enjoy it like Amber who had no idea on what she was
doing or how to play craps. This night
my friend Dee drove up to see me, it took her 4 hours to find the place. I am glad that she made it but on a slow
night and some what boring night. I was
so tired from the entire day that I couldn’t even talk to her. As it was
getting really late I bid her good night and that she should come when its more
a party atmosphere, but thanks for coming Dee.
Friday, October 3, 2008
Day 3
Friday,
today I woke up a little late, 9am and I was invited to breakfast by my friend Chloe,
I couldn't make it as I was just getting up and getting ready. Today I
wore an Elie Tahari black pencil skirt and VS thigh high stockings and a blue Theory
blouse and Guess ankle strap heels, I looked HOT!! The career expo was going on and that was interesting
that is why I dressed this way. It was
bigger than last year so Kudos to SCC for attracting more companies. Again I was wandering through the
vendor area, I spotted the really cute Asian girl and was eyeing her and I have
been eyeing her since Wednesday. I wanted to go up to her and say how cute she
was before I left, then today she started up a conversation with me, she
beat me to it. She asked me if she
looked good in her corset she was trying on and I said “yes you look gorgeous”,
then she asked me have I come by her wig store I said “no I have not” so she
lead me to her table and we talked for a bit. She said she would of dated me in
a heart beat and that she never dated an Asian guy before, I was floored, I
never ever have gotten that before in boy mode let alone as a woman. Her name is Nusara and she said all that to
me when I was dressed. She also happened to be eyeing me so that just shows how
understanding she is and open and she is also Republican. This is one of the best
moments of my life I will never forget. Just my luck, she is already married, DOH!! I hope
that she and I can become good friends to the point of almost BFF. This woman
is so great I wish I found her years ago. Whoever married her is one dam lucky
guy to have an open minded woman. I also meet another new girl her
name is Diane, a GG and she owns a store in Long Island,
now I didn’t know I spoke to her before until she mentioned First Event (FE)
because I was supposed to be her model for the Fashion show. After talking to her and her mother about the
local parties and some of the people we became instant friends. I also
meet Gina lance editor of TG-life who also happens to be a cross-dresser who
put out a book for cross-dressers to get out of the closet, she gave me a copy
of her book as a token of friendship and she even signed it ha-ha. All
three of these love woman I know will be long time friends for years to come.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Day 4 the last day
It started out normal ha-ha, right; I went down to get breakfast cost me about 12 bucks. Went to see Nusara again, that's the adorable Asian woman that happens to be married. I didn’t eat lunch and went shopping with Lauren she need some sort of wrap or shawl and I also need to get stud earrings I lost mine on Thursday night or Friday morning. It was around 4pm after all our shopping I went back to flirt with Nusara again and Jaye a VC sister told me that she told Nusara that I liked her and I that she was cute, which Is true but I didn’t know she would go and tell Nusara. In her response to Jaye, Nusara said that I looked cute as a boy too and that she likes me, why does she have to be married? I went back upstairs and packed up some things so I would not rushing to pack and get out on Sunday, as well as change in to my evening dress for the grand gala I looked ok I think ha-ha. I called Lauren to see if she needed help with deciding what to wear and she said “sure come down to my room” I sort of helped her, she was doing fine with out me, so I just waited for her to get ready, it was like 530- 600p. She finally got done and we headed out now for some reason the elevators were slow so I opted for the stairs with two other girls, we made it down and so did Lauren she took the elevators. While greeting and taking pictures I walked back into the vendor area yet again to glimpse at Nusara the Asian GG hottie. I was sad that she couldn’t stay. I said bye to her and got her contact info and told her to come back and go to the events with me.
Dinner
was at 730p and it was a decent dinner as it was the last one. It was a surf and turf meal with red potatoes
and asparagus and a plum tomato. Now for the entertainment, all I can say
is WHAT THE FUCK was that. It was so gaudy and atrocious that you couldn’t
understand what that actor was saying or even doing. Every one started
walking out on the act and by the end only a handful of people were in the ballroom.
Michael a trans-man and Capt of the night asked everyone that was outside to
please go back in for announcements and to hear the band play. Trust me
you didn’t miss much. The entertainment
committee needs serious help. I didn’t
go back in I stayed outside and took more pictures with people like Gia Darling
yes you read that right Gia, she was there. All I can say about her Is
DAM she is one gorgeous woman and in the words of our fearless Vanity Club
president “I’d go "straight" for that, ha-ha. Gia is so short and skinny I was really surprised
and I must say she is a hottie. I wish I had a chance to talk to her. I
also took pictures with the Vanity Club girls that happen to be outside at
that time. A bunch of great girls
I must say. As the night wore on I
headed upstairs to change in to my jeans and tank and packed up a little
more. Went back downstairs to mingle
a little more and I ran into Kelli a great girl In the making she has lots of
potential to make It as a woman and I wish her good luck. It was getting close to 1am and I headed back up to my room and
showered and cleaned up and went to bed.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
the day after
Woke
up at 9am and packed the last few things I had out I tripled checked the
room. Went downstairs to check out of
the hotel and placed my bag in storage as I was leaving with some of the girls
in their boy mode. It’s such an interesting thing to see someone in
their boy mode and trying to guess who was who but hey that is the beauty of
what makes us who we are sometimes. I
called Lauren to see where she was, she was down in the restaurant having
breakfast with Cat. After breakfast she
went back upstairs to pack which took an hour, so I just hung out with Wendy
and Kelli both in boy mode I said my good byes to all the Vanity Club girls
that were leaving. It was now about 11am and I well be heading back to
the airport on MARTA. It was a quiet
ride to say the least and check in and security was a breeze. I had lunch
there and boarded the plane home
I got home around 6p
Closing
This
year definitely felt different than past SCC’s that I have been to. Mostly regarding the fetish side of it I saw
a lot less leather and PVC and sissies this year which was a good thing, I
think it made SCC a more upscale and sophisticated atmosphere. Yes it
made SCC a less a place to have fun and enjoy the art of dressing. Another thing that has changed was the number
of younger participants at SCC it seemed many are already transitioning or in
the process. There are fewer younger cross-dressers
every year. The trans-men are increasing in every year which is
great. The third thing is the wild or party
energy has gone down dramatically since leaving midtown, or it could just be this
year, which in turn made this year seem to have less attendees, I heard like
850 or so compared to 910 last year. Possibly could be the result of economy, since for many SCC is more a luxury
than a need.
The people are what make SCC all possible and this year there were some wild ones that pushed the boundaries of being passable. It’s great to see that many people come out and enjoy being a girl. I am happy that I was able to attend to say hi to old friends and make some new friends. One last thing coming home from Atlanta that was in the 75-80 degrees, to New York that was at 50-55 degrees SUCKS ha-ha……… oh and after seeing myself in pictures I think I look bad and FAT.
Until next year….
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October 8th, 2008 7:07 am MDT
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Day 1 at Southern Comfort Conference (SCC)
I will not bore you with details, instead I will start off arriving at Hartsfield airport right here In Atlanta. I arrived on time from Delta, I know I was shocked too, ha-ha cause that never seems to ever happen. While I walked through the airport I was deciding on what transportation to take to the hotel taxi/livery cab, shuttle buses or the MARTA… When I got to baggage claim I was a little hesitant on getting my bags because last year I had a horrible incident happen. Last year I didn’t get my bags until like sometime after midnight, they said my bag was too heavy and had to be on board another flight coming to Atlanta. Anyways, I found my bag and it was not delayed and not having to wait for it was a relief. Okay, at this point I opted for the Marta as It was the cheapest (1.75 +.50 (2.25) one way. I was scared as I never been on the MARTA and going through Atlanta scared the crap out of me, I guess it’s that feeling of being in a new area and I am not familiar to the transit system. When I walked up the stairs I was shocked (sorry Atlanta) it was actually clean and odorless. You see I am from the NYC area and I was like great this is going to be just like the NYC subway system. Boy was I dead wrong I was impressed that was an above transit system and it was not overly crowded. It looks like I will be a MARTA user in the future. The ride itself was pleasant, smooth and quick, less than 45 minutes one-way. As I arrived at Dunwoody station another “SHAMWOW” moment, was that, it was a stone throw away ha-ha, I knew it was close but not that close. Getting off the platform and down to street level to meet the shuttle to take us to the hotel was another 5 minute drive. I was happy to be finally here though a little sad at the same time, meaning that I wish I had a GG girl friend to share this with me, and yes I am still looking and taking applications for GG J he-he... btw GG means, Genetic Girl.
Arrived at the hotel, walked in and got my SCC registration packet and named tag. Checked In at the hotel and got my key card. This year I am on the 6th floor, last year I was on the 11 or something can’t remember. I have view of the back yard this time around nothing special as I can only see the top of the bar called Chip Shots. I unpacked my things and got everything in order. The time was about 415p I need to quickly dress and get to the nail salon that I went to last year, as I needed to get my nails done. Rushing through make up and doing a half decent job I finally got to the nail salon at around 510p. I was happy to see the girls there remembered me and many commented on my new look saying that I look better this year than last year, ha-ha. As we chit chatted away I got a manicure and a pedicure, which cost me with tip 50 bucks, to me that was reasonable. The whole process took about 1 hour or so, I was then at the bare minerals store as I need more foundation then I left the mall soon after. So back at the hotel I went to my room to freshen up and head back downstairs to check to see if any one was here that I knew. And low and behold I bump in to Amber a cross-dresser from Indiana and her Indy friends heading out to dinner and I asked if I could tag along they said sure the more the merrier. I didn’t know where we were eating but we got on bus to the restaurant called Old Hickory House a pulled BBQ pork place. Once we stepped inside we got the usual stares and dumb founded looks, ha-ha... the place is a local eatery and it was not busy just a small party in the back besides us. We seated ourselves in the back as those seem to be the bigger tables and ordered our food. The food was ok not great and the pork was tender and juicy, I had the shredded pork sandwich with Brunswick stew (It’s a chili like soup) and corn on the cob, at a reasonable price of 6.75, I got the cheapest meal out of all the girls. Well after talking and eating and showing my pictures we paid our bill on separate checks. We called the driver to pick us up and headed back to the hotel to just relax and meet any talk with the girls coming in and for me to have a good nights rest for tomorrow as it’s going to be a big day for me.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Day 2
Woke up at 7ish and showered and shaved and got dressed in my Elie Tahari grey pant suit. I looked very professional as I went to breakfast downstairs at the hotel and OMG rip off on breakfast. I ordered 2 eggs sunny side up with corned beef hash, toast and an apple juice, now this meal sounds it would be a reasonable price, right, WRONG it cost 17.00 and I gave a 2 buck tip that came to 19.00. All I can say is HOLY SHIT. I was hungry, oh well... Today was an important day for me, why well I am to take my friend Naria around and introducing her to some of my friends to help her with her project she is working on for the Trans community. She called me at 1137a and said she already and checked in and is ready to roll. We headed to meet Cat first so she can register though we were too late. So we all headed to eat lunch, we sat at a table with my Indy friends and Naria had so many questions, she was very observant and asked me if that person was a man or woman , and every time gave her the answer, she was shocked. Through out the day, we talked and got to know each other fairly well. She got some good stories that can lead to a possible shows and I hope that she finds the right people. She is searching for heterosexual cross-dressers that are married and struggle with the desire to dress as a woman in public. She would like to have them go on camera as their male and female side. It’s a tall order but I am sure there are people out there that are willing and ready to speak out for cross-dressers. We meet some great people and I made a few new friends. As the evening ended with dinner with the Vanity Club girls SCC annual dinner at a local restaurant she talked to the wives of the group, I hope she made a few good friends. As we headed back to the hotel I asked her if she was glad to come to this conference if only for a short time she said yes she was happy that she came and had the opportunity to talk to all my friends and educated herself on this diverse community. Unfortunately Naria had to leave early the next day to care for her family. I wished she stayed longer, but I wish her well and good luck with her project and if she doesn’t find any leads or willing participants at least she is now more educated about the trans community and I hope be more understanding towards our community. I also hope that she teaches her children to be accepting of people like me.
This night also happened to be the vice president debate night and the lobby was packed with people watching the debate. Casino night was almost a bust but some people came to enjoy it like Amber who had no idea on what she was doing or how to play craps. This night my friend Dee drove up to see me, it took her 4 hours to find the place. I am glad that she made it but on a slow night and some what boring night. I was so tired from the entire day that I couldn’t even talk to her. As it was getting really late I bid her good night and that she should come when its more a party atmosphere, but thanks for coming Dee.
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Friday, October 3, 2008
Day 3
Friday, today I woke up a little late, 9am and I was invited to breakfast by my friend Chloe, I couldn't make it as I was just getting up and getting ready. Today I wore an Elie Tahari black pencil skirt and VS thigh high stockings and a blue Theory blouse and Guess ankle strap heels, I looked HOT!! The career expo was going on and that was interesting that is why I dressed this way. It was bigger than last year so Kudos to SCC for attracting more companies. Again I was wandering through the vendor area, I spotted the really cute Asian girl and was eyeing her and I have been eyeing her since Wednesday. I wanted to go up to her and say how cute she was before I left, then today she started up a conversation with me, she beat me to it. She asked me if she looked good in her corset she was trying on and I said “yes you look gorgeous”, then she asked me have I come by her wig store I said “no I have not” so she lead me to her table and we talked for a bit. She said she would of dated me in a heart beat and that she never dated an Asian guy before, I was floored, I never ever have gotten that before in boy mode let alone as a woman. Her name is Nusara and she said all that to me when I was dressed. She also happened to be eyeing me so that just shows how understanding she is and open and she is also Republican. This is one of the best moments of my life I will never forget. Just my luck, she is already married, DOH!! I hope that she and I can become good friends to the point of almost BFF. This woman is so great I wish I found her years ago. Whoever married her is one dam lucky guy to have an open minded woman. I also meet another new girl her name is Diane, a GG and she owns a store in Long Island, now I didn’t know I spoke to her before until she mentioned First Event (FE) because I was supposed to be her model for the Fashion show. After talking to her and her mother about the local parties and some of the people we became instant friends. I also meet Gina lance editor of TG-life who also happens to be a cross-dresser who put out a book for cross-dressers to get out of the closet, she gave me a copy of her book as a token of friendship and she even signed it ha-ha. All three of these love woman I know will be long time friends for years to come.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Day 4 the last day
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It started out normal ha-ha, right; I went down to get breakfast cost me about 12 bucks. Went to see Nusara again, that's the adorable Asian woman that happens to be married. I didn’t eat lunch and went shopping with Lauren she need some sort of wrap or shawl and I also need to get stud earrings I lost mine on Thursday night or Friday morning. It was around 4pm after all our shopping I went back to flirt with Nusara again and Jaye a VC sister told me that she told Nusara that I liked her and I that she was cute, which Is true but I didn’t know she would go and tell Nusara. In her response to Jaye, Nusara said that I looked cute as a boy too and that she likes me, why does she have to be married? I went back upstairs and packed up some things so I would not rushing to pack and get out on Sunday, as well as change in to my evening dress for the grand gala I looked ok I think ha-ha. I called Lauren to see if she needed help with deciding what to wear and she said “sure come down to my room” I sort of helped her, she was doing fine with out me, so I just waited for her to get ready, it was like 530- 600p. She finally got done and we headed out now for some reason the elevators were slow so I opted for the stairs with two other girls, we made it down and so did Lauren she took the elevators. While greeting and taking pictures I walked back into the vendor area yet again to glimpse at Nusara the Asian GG hottie. I was sad that she couldn’t stay. I said bye to her and got her contact info and told her to come back and go to the events with me.
Dinner was at 730p and it was a decent dinner as it was the last one. It was a surf and turf meal with red potatoes and asparagus and a plum tomato. Now for the entertainment, all I can say is WHAT THE FUCK was that. It was so gaudy and atrocious that you couldn’t understand what that actor was saying or even doing. Every one started walking out on the act and by the end only a handful of people were in the ballroom. Michael a trans-man and Capt of the night asked everyone that was outside to please go back in for announcements and to hear the band play. Trust me you didn’t miss much. The entertainment committee needs serious help. I didn’t go back in I stayed outside and took more pictures with people like Gia Darling yes you read that right Gia, she was there. All I can say about her Is DAM she is one gorgeous woman and in the words of our fearless Vanity Club president “I’d go "straight" for that, ha-ha. Gia is so short and skinny I was really surprised and I must say she is a hottie. I wish I had a chance to talk to her. I also took pictures with the Vanity Club girls that happen to be outside at that time. A bunch of great girls I must say. As the night wore on I headed upstairs to change in to my jeans and tank and packed up a little more. Went back downstairs to mingle a little more and I ran into Kelli a great girl In the making she has lots of potential to make It as a woman and I wish her good luck. It was getting close to 1am and I headed back up to my room and showered and cleaned up and went to bed.
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Sunday, October 5, 2008
the day after
Woke up at 9am and packed the last few things I had out I tripled checked the room. Went downstairs to check out of the hotel and placed my bag in storage as I was leaving with some of the girls in their boy mode. It’s such an interesting thing to see someone in their boy mode and trying to guess who was who but hey that is the beauty of what makes us who we are sometimes. I called Lauren to see where she was, she was down in the restaurant having breakfast with Cat. After breakfast she went back upstairs to pack which took an hour, so I just hung out with Wendy and Kelli both in boy mode I said my good byes to all the Vanity Club girls that were leaving. It was now about 11am and I well be heading back to the airport on MARTA. It was a quiet ride to say the least and check in and security was a breeze. I had lunch there and boarded the plane home
I got home around 6p
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Closing
This year definitely felt different than past SCC’s that I have been to. Mostly regarding the fetish side of it I saw a lot less leather and PVC and sissies this year which was a good thing, I think it made SCC a more upscale and sophisticated atmosphere. Yes it made SCC a less a place to have fun and enjoy the art of dressing. Another thing that has changed was the number of younger participants at SCC it seemed many are already transitioning or in the process. There are fewer younger cross-dressers every year. The trans-men are increasing in every year which is great. The third thing is the wild or party energy has gone down dramatically since leaving midtown, or it could just be this year, which in turn made this year seem to have less attendees, I heard like 850 or so compared to 910 last year. Possibly could be the result of economy, since for many SCC is more a luxury than a need.
The people are what make SCC all possible and this year there were some wild ones that pushed the boundaries of being passable. It’s great to see that many people come out and enjoy being a girl. I am happy that I was able to attend to say hi to old friends and make some new friends. One last thing coming home from Atlanta that was in the 75-80 degrees, to New York that was at 50-55 degrees SUCKS ha-ha……… oh and after seeing myself in pictures I think I look bad and FAT.
Until next year….
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Day 1 at Southern Comfort Conference (SCC)
I will not bore you with details, instead I will start off arriving at Hartsfield airport right here In Atlanta. I arrived on time from Delta, I know I was shocked too, ha-ha cause that never seems to ever happen. While I walked through the airport I was deciding on what transportation to take to the hotel taxi/livery cab, shuttle buses or the MARTA… When I got to baggage claim I was a little hesitant on getting my bags because last year I had a horrible incident happen. Last year I didn’t get my bags until like sometime after midnight, they said my bag was too heavy and had to be on board another flight coming to Atlanta. Anyways, I found my bag and it was not delayed and not having to wait for it was a relief. Okay, at this point I opted for the Marta as It was the cheapest (1.75 +.50 (2.25) one way. I was scared as I never been on the MARTA and going through Atlanta scared the crap out of me, I guess it’s that feeling of being in a new area and I am not familiar to the transit system. When I walked up the stairs I was shocked (sorry Atlanta) it was actually clean and odorless. You see I am from the NYC area and I was like great this is going to be just like the NYC subway system. Boy was I dead wrong I was impressed that was an above transit system and it was not overly crowded. It looks like I will be a MARTA user in the future. The ride itself was pleasant, smooth and quick, less than 45 minutes one-way. As I arrived at Dunwoody station another “SHAMWOW” moment, was that, it was a stone throw away ha-ha, I knew it was close but not that close. Getting off the platform and down to street level to meet the shuttle to take us to the hotel was another 5 minute drive. I was happy to be finally here though a little sad at the same time, meaning that I wish I had a GG girl friend to share this with me, and yes I am still looking and taking applications for GG J he-he... btw GG means, Genetic Girl.
Arrived at the hotel, walked in and got my SCC registration packet and named tag. Checked In at the hotel and got my key card. This year I am on the 6th floor, last year I was on the 11 or something can’t remember. I have view of the back yard this time around nothing special as I can only see the top of the bar called Chip Shots. I unpacked my things and got everything in order. The time was about 415p I need to quickly dress and get to the nail salon that I went to last year, as I needed to get my nails done. Rushing through make up and doing a half decent job I finally got to the nail salon at around 510p. I was happy to see the girls there remembered me and many commented on my new look saying that I look better this year than last year, ha-ha. As we chit chatted away I got a manicure and a pedicure, which cost me with tip 50 bucks, to me that was reasonable. The whole process took about 1 hour or so, I was then at the bare minerals store as I need more foundation then I left the mall soon after. So back at the hotel I went to my room to freshen up and head back downstairs to check to see if any one was here that I knew. And low and behold I bump in to Amber a cross-dresser from Indiana and her Indy friends heading out to dinner and I asked if I could tag along they said sure the more the merrier. I didn’t know where we were eating but we got on bus to the restaurant called Old Hickory House a pulled BBQ pork place. Once we stepped inside we got the usual stares and dumb founded looks, ha-ha... the place is a local eatery and it was not busy just a small party in the back besides us. We seated ourselves in the back as those seem to be the bigger tables and ordered our food. The food was ok not great and the pork was tender and juicy, I had the shredded pork sandwich with Brunswick stew (It’s a chili like soup) and corn on the cob, at a reasonable price of 6.75, I got the cheapest meal out of all the girls. Well after talking and eating and showing my pictures we paid our bill on separate checks. We called the driver to pick us up and headed back to the hotel to just relax and meet any talk with the girls coming in and for me to have a good nights rest for tomorrow as it’s going to be a big day for me.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Day 2
Woke up at 7ish and showered and shaved and got dressed in my Elie Tahari grey pant suit. I looked very professional as I went to breakfast downstairs at the hotel and OMG rip off on breakfast. I ordered 2 eggs sunny side up with corned beef hash, toast and an apple juice, now this meal sounds it would be a reasonable price, right, WRONG it cost 17.00 and I gave a 2 buck tip that came to 19.00. All I can say is HOLY SHIT. I was hungry, oh well... Today was an important day for me, why well I am to take my friend Naria around and introducing her to some of my friends to help her with her project she is working on for the Trans community. She called me at 1137a and said she already and checked in and is ready to roll. We headed to meet Cat first so she can register though we were too late. So we all headed to eat lunch, we sat at a table with my Indy friends and Naria had so many questions, she was very observant and asked me if that person was a man or woman , and every time gave her the answer, she was shocked. Through out the day, we talked and got to know each other fairly well. She got some good stories that can lead to a possible shows and I hope that she finds the right people. She is searching for heterosexual cross-dressers that are married and struggle with the desire to dress as a woman in public. She would like to have them go on camera as their male and female side. It’s a tall order but I am sure there are people out there that are willing and ready to speak out for cross-dressers. We meet some great people and I made a few new friends. As the evening ended with dinner with the Vanity Club girls SCC annual dinner at a local restaurant she talked to the wives of the group, I hope she made a few good friends. As we headed back to the hotel I asked her if she was glad to come to this conference if only for a short time she said yes she was happy that she came and had the opportunity to talk to all my friends and educated herself on this diverse community. Unfortunately Naria had to leave early the next day to care for her family. I wished she stayed longer, but I wish her well and good luck with her project and if she doesn’t find any leads or willing participants at least she is now more educated about the trans community and I hope be more understanding towards our community. I also hope that she teaches her children to be accepting of people like me.
This night also happened to be the vice president debate night and the lobby was packed with people watching the debate. Casino night was almost a bust but some people came to enjoy it like Amber who had no idea on what she was doing or how to play craps. This night my friend Dee drove up to see me, it took her 4 hours to find the place. I am glad that she made it but on a slow night and some what boring night. I was so tired from the entire day that I couldn’t even talk to her. As it was getting really late I bid her good night and that she should come when its more a party atmosphere, but thanks for coming Dee.
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Friday, October 3, 2008
Day 3
Friday, today I woke up a little late, 9am and I was invited to breakfast by my friend Chloe, I couldn't make it as I was just getting up and getting ready. Today I wore an Elie Tahari black pencil skirt and VS thigh high stockings and a blue Theory blouse and Guess ankle strap heels, I looked HOT!! The career expo was going on and that was interesting that is why I dressed this way. It was bigger than last year so Kudos to SCC for attracting more companies. Again I was wandering through the vendor area, I spotted the really cute Asian girl and was eyeing her and I have been eyeing her since Wednesday. I wanted to go up to her and say how cute she was before I left, then today she started up a conversation with me, she beat me to it. She asked me if she looked good in her corset she was trying on and I said “yes you look gorgeous”, then she asked me have I come by her wig store I said “no I have not” so she lead me to her table and we talked for a bit. She said she would of dated me in a heart beat and that she never dated an Asian guy before, I was floored, I never ever have gotten that before in boy mode let alone as a woman. Her name is Nusara and she said all that to me when I was dressed. She also happened to be eyeing me so that just shows how understanding she is and open and she is also Republican. This is one of the best moments of my life I will never forget. Just my luck, she is already married, DOH!! I hope that she and I can become good friends to the point of almost BFF. This woman is so great I wish I found her years ago. Whoever married her is one dam lucky guy to have an open minded woman. I also meet another new girl her name is Diane, a GG and she owns a store in Long Island, now I didn’t know I spoke to her before until she mentioned First Event (FE) because I was supposed to be her model for the Fashion show. After talking to her and her mother about the local parties and some of the people we became instant friends. I also meet Gina lance editor of TG-life who also happens to be a cross-dresser who put out a book for cross-dressers to get out of the closet, she gave me a copy of her book as a token of friendship and she even signed it ha-ha. All three of these love woman I know will be long time friends for years to come.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Day 4 the last day
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It started out normal ha-ha, right; I went down to get breakfast cost me about 12 bucks. Went to see Nusara again, that's the adorable Asian woman that happens to be married. I didn’t eat lunch and went shopping with Lauren she need some sort of wrap or shawl and I also need to get stud earrings I lost mine on Thursday night or Friday morning. It was around 4pm after all our shopping I went back to flirt with Nusara again and Jaye a VC sister told me that she told Nusara that I liked her and I that she was cute, which Is true but I didn’t know she would go and tell Nusara. In her response to Jaye, Nusara said that I looked cute as a boy too and that she likes me, why does she have to be married? I went back upstairs and packed up some things so I would not rushing to pack and get out on Sunday, as well as change in to my evening dress for the grand gala I looked ok I think ha-ha. I called Lauren to see if she needed help with deciding what to wear and she said “sure come down to my room” I sort of helped her, she was doing fine with out me, so I just waited for her to get ready, it was like 530- 600p. She finally got done and we headed out now for some reason the elevators were slow so I opted for the stairs with two other girls, we made it down and so did Lauren she took the elevators. While greeting and taking pictures I walked back into the vendor area yet again to glimpse at Nusara the Asian GG hottie. I was sad that she couldn’t stay. I said bye to her and got her contact info and told her to come back and go to the events with me.
Dinner was at 730p and it was a decent dinner as it was the last one. It was a surf and turf meal with red potatoes and asparagus and a plum tomato. Now for the entertainment, all I can say is WHAT THE FUCK was that. It was so gaudy and atrocious that you couldn’t understand what that actor was saying or even doing. Every one started walking out on the act and by the end only a handful of people were in the ballroom. Michael a trans-man and Capt of the night asked everyone that was outside to please go back in for announcements and to hear the band play. Trust me you didn’t miss much. The entertainment committee needs serious help. I didn’t go back in I stayed outside and took more pictures with people like Gia Darling yes you read that right Gia, she was there. All I can say about her Is DAM she is one gorgeous woman and in the words of our fearless Vanity Club president “I’d go "straight" for that, ha-ha. Gia is so short and skinny I was really surprised and I must say she is a hottie. I wish I had a chance to talk to her. I also took pictures with the Vanity Club girls that happen to be outside at that time. A bunch of great girls I must say. As the night wore on I headed upstairs to change in to my jeans and tank and packed up a little more. Went back downstairs to mingle a little more and I ran into Kelli a great girl In the making she has lots of potential to make It as a woman and I wish her good luck. It was getting close to 1am and I headed back up to my room and showered and cleaned up and went to bed.
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Sunday, October 5, 2008
the day after
Woke up at 9am and packed the last few things I had out I tripled checked the room. Went downstairs to check out of the hotel and placed my bag in storage as I was leaving with some of the girls in their boy mode. It’s such an interesting thing to see someone in their boy mode and trying to guess who was who but hey that is the beauty of what makes us who we are sometimes. I called Lauren to see where she was, she was down in the restaurant having breakfast with Cat. After breakfast she went back upstairs to pack which took an hour, so I just hung out with Wendy and Kelli both in boy mode I said my good byes to all the Vanity Club girls that were leaving. It was now about 11am and I well be heading back to the airport on MARTA. It was a quiet ride to say the least and check in and security was a breeze. I had lunch there and boarded the plane home
I got home around 6p
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Closing
This year definitely felt different than past SCC’s that I have been to. Mostly regarding the fetish side of it I saw a lot less leather and PVC and sissies this year which was a good thing, I think it made SCC a more upscale and sophisticated atmosphere. Yes it made SCC a less a place to have fun and enjoy the art of dressing. Another thing that has changed was the number of younger participants at SCC it seemed many are already transitioning or in the process. There are fewer younger cross-dressers every year. The trans-men are increasing in every year which is great. The third thing is the wild or party energy has gone down dramatically since leaving midtown, or it could just be this year, which in turn made this year seem to have less attendees, I heard like 850 or so compared to 910 last year. Possibly could be the result of economy, since for many SCC is more a luxury than a need.
The people are what make SCC all possible and this year there were some wild ones that pushed the boundaries of being passable. It’s great to see that many people come out and enjoy being a girl. I am happy that I was able to attend to say hi to old friends and make some new friends. One last thing coming home from Atlanta that was in the 75-80 degrees, to New York that was at 50-55 degrees SUCKS ha-ha……… oh and after seeing myself in pictures I think I look bad and FAT.
Until next year….
scc08
October 8th, 2008 7:05 am MDT
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Day 1 at Southern Comfort Conference (SCC)
I will not bore you with details, instead I will start off arriving at Hartsfield airport right here In Atlanta. I
arrived on time from Delta, I know I was shocked too, ha-ha cause that
never seems to ever happen. While I walked through the airport I was
deciding on what transportation to take to the hotel taxi/livery cab,
shuttle buses or the MARTA… When I got to baggage claim I was a little
hesitant on getting my bags because last year I had a horrible incident
happen. Last year I didn’t get my bags until
like sometime after midnight, they said my bag was too heavy and had to
be on board another flight coming to Atlanta. Anyways, I found my bag
and it was not delayed and not having to wait for it was a relief.
Okay, at this point I opted for the Marta as It was the cheapest (1.75
+.50 (2.25) one way. I was scared as I never been on the MARTA and
going through Atlanta scared the crap out of me, I guess it’s that
feeling of being in a new area and I am not familiar to the transit
system. When I walked up the stairs I was shocked (sorry Atlanta) it
was actually clean and odorless. You see I am
from the NYC area and I was like great this is going to be just like
the NYC subway system. Boy was I dead wrong I was impressed that was an
above transit system and it was not overly crowded. It looks like I will be a MARTA user in the future. The
ride itself was pleasant, smooth and quick, less than 45 minutes
one-way. As I arrived at Dunwoody station another “SHAMWOW” moment, was
that, it was a stone throw away ha-ha, I knew it was close but not that
close. Getting off the platform and down to street level to meet the
shuttle to take us to the hotel was another 5 minute drive. I
was happy to be finally here though a little sad at the same time,
meaning that I wish I had a GG girl friend to share this with me, and yes I am still looking and taking applications for GG J he-he... btw GG means, Genetic Girl.
Arrived at the hotel, walked in and got my SCC registration packet and named tag. Checked In at the hotel and got my key card. This year I am on the 6th floor, last year I was on the 11 or something can’t remember. I have view of the back yard this time around nothing special as I can only see the top of the bar called Chip Shots. I unpacked my things and got everything in order. The
time was about 415p I need to quickly dress and get to the nail salon
that I went to last year, as I needed to get my nails done. Rushing
through make up and doing a half decent job I finally got to the nail
salon at around 510p. I was happy to see the girls there remembered me
and many commented on my new look saying that I look better this year
than last year, ha-ha. As we chit chatted away I got a manicure and a
pedicure, which cost me with tip 50 bucks, to me that was reasonable. The
whole process took about 1 hour or so, I was then at the bare minerals
store as I need more foundation then I left the mall soon after. So
back at the hotel I went to my room to freshen up and head back
downstairs to check to see if any one was here that I knew. And low and
behold I bump in to Amber a cross-dresser from Indiana and her Indy
friends heading out to dinner and I asked if I could tag along they
said sure the more the merrier. I didn’t know where we were eating but
we got on bus to the restaurant called Old Hickory House a pulled BBQ
pork place. Once we stepped inside we got the
usual stares and dumb founded looks, ha-ha... the place is a local
eatery and it was not busy just a small party in the back besides us. We seated ourselves in the back as those seem to be the bigger tables and ordered our food. The
food was ok not great and the pork was tender and juicy, I had the
shredded pork sandwich with Brunswick stew (It’s a chili like soup) and
corn on the cob, at a reasonable price of 6.75, I got the cheapest meal
out of all the girls. Well after talking and eating and showing my pictures we paid our bill on separate checks. We
called the driver to pick us up and headed back to the hotel to just
relax and meet any talk with the girls coming in and for me to have a
good nights rest for tomorrow as it’s going to be a big day for me.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Day 2
Woke
up at 7ish and showered and shaved and got dressed in my Elie Tahari
grey pant suit. I looked very professional as I went to breakfast
downstairs at the hotel and OMG rip off on breakfast. I
ordered 2 eggs sunny side up with corned beef hash, toast and an apple
juice, now this meal sounds it would be a reasonable price, right,
WRONG it cost 17.00 and I gave a 2 buck tip that came to 19.00. All I
can say is HOLY SHIT. I was hungry, oh well... Today
was an important day for me, why well I am to take my friend Naria
around and introducing her to some of my friends to help her with her
project she is working on for the Trans community. She called me at
1137a and said she already and checked in and is ready to roll. We
headed to meet Cat first so she can register though we were too late. So
we all headed to eat lunch, we sat at a table with my Indy friends and
Naria had so many questions, she was very observant and asked me if
that person was a man or woman , and every time gave her the answer,
she was shocked. Through out the day, we talked and got to know each
other fairly well. She got some good stories that can lead to a possible shows and I hope that she finds the right people. She is searching for heterosexual cross-dressers that are married and struggle with the desire to dress as a woman in public. She
would like to have them go on camera as their male and female side.
It’s a tall order but I am sure there are people out there that are
willing and ready to speak out for cross-dressers. We
meet some great people and I made a few new friends. As the evening
ended with dinner with the Vanity Club girls SCC annual dinner at a
local restaurant she talked to the wives of the group, I hope she made
a few good friends. As we headed back to the hotel I asked her if she
was glad to come to this conference if only for a short time she said
yes she was happy that she came and had the opportunity to talk to all
my friends and educated herself on this diverse community. Unfortunately Naria had to leave early the next day to care for her family. I
wished she stayed longer, but I wish her well and good luck with her
project and if she doesn’t find any leads or willing participants at
least she is now more educated about the trans community and I hope be
more understanding towards our community. I also hope that she teaches her children to be accepting of people like me.
This night also happened to be the vice president debate night and the lobby was packed with people watching the debate. Casino
night was almost a bust but some people came to enjoy it like Amber who
had no idea on what she was doing or how to play craps. This night my friend Dee drove up to see me, it took her 4 hours to find the place. I am glad that she made it but on a slow night and some what boring night. I
was so tired from the entire day that I couldn’t even talk to her. As
it was getting really late I bid her good night and that she should
come when its more a party atmosphere, but thanks for coming Dee.
Friday, October 3, 2008
Day 3
Friday,
today I woke up a little late, 9am and I was invited to breakfast by my
friend Chloe, I couldn't make it as I was just getting up and getting
ready. Today I wore an Elie Tahari black pencil skirt and VS thigh high
stockings and a blue Theory blouse and Guess ankle strap heels, I
looked HOT!! The career expo was going on and that was interesting that is why I dressed this way. It was bigger than last year so Kudos to SCC for attracting more companies. Again I was wandering through the vendor area, I spotted the really
cute Asian girl and was eyeing her and I have been eyeing her since
Wednesday. I wanted to go up to her and say how cute she was before I
left, then today she started up a conversation with me, she beat me to
it. She asked me if she looked good in her
corset she was trying on and I said “yes you look gorgeous”, then she
asked me have I come by her wig store I said “no I have not” so she
lead me to her table and we talked for a bit. She said she would of
dated me in a heart beat and that she never dated an Asian guy before,
I was floored, I never ever have gotten that before in boy mode let
alone as a woman. Her name is Nusara and she
said all that to me when I was dressed. She also happened to be eyeing
me so that just shows how understanding she is and open and she is also
Republican. This is one of the best moments of my life I will never
forget. Just my luck, she is already married, DOH!! I
hope that she and I can become good friends to the point of almost BFF.
This woman is so great I wish I found her years ago. Whoever married
her is one dam lucky guy to have an open minded woman. I also meet
another new girl her name is Diane, a GG and she owns a store in Long
Island, now I didn’t know I spoke to her before until she mentioned
First Event (FE) because I was supposed to be her model for the Fashion
show. After talking to her and her mother about
the local parties and some of the people we became instant friends. I
also meet Gina lance editor of TG-life who also happens to be a
cross-dresser who put out a book for cross-dressers to get out of the
closet, she gave me a copy of her book as a token of friendship and she
even signed it ha-ha. All three of these love woman I know will be long
time friends for years to come.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Day 4 the last day
It started out normal ha-ha, right; I went down to get breakfast cost me about 12 bucks. Went to see Nusara again, that's the adorable Asian woman that happens to be married. I didn’t eat lunch and went shopping with Lauren she need some sort of wrap or shawl and I also need to get stud earrings I lost mine on Thursday night or Friday morning. It was around 4pm after all our shopping I went back to flirt with Nusara again and Jaye a VC sister told me that she told Nusara that I liked her and I that she was cute, which Is true but I didn’t know she would go and tell Nusara. In her response to Jaye, Nusara said that I looked cute as a boy too and that she likes me, why does she have to be married? I went back upstairs and packed up some things so I would not rushing to pack and get out on Sunday, as well as change in to my evening dress for the grand gala I looked ok I think ha-ha. I called Lauren to see if she needed help with deciding what to wear and she said “sure come down to my room” I sort of helped her, she was doing fine with out me, so I just waited for her to get ready, it was like 530- 600p. She finally got done and we headed out now for some reason the elevators were slow so I opted for the stairs with two other girls, we made it down and so did Lauren she took the elevators. While greeting and taking pictures I walked back into the vendor area yet again to glimpse at Nusara the Asian GG hottie. I was sad that she couldn’t stay. I said bye to her and got her contact info and told her to come back and go to the events with me.
Dinner was at 730p and it was a decent dinner as it was the last one. It
was a surf and turf meal with red potatoes and asparagus and a plum
tomato. Now for the entertainment, all I can say is WHAT THE FUCK was
that. It was so gaudy and atrocious that you couldn’t understand what
that actor was saying or even doing. Every one started walking out on
the act and by the end only a handful of people were in the ballroom.
Michael a trans-man and Capt of the night asked everyone that was
outside to please go back in for announcements and to hear the band
play. Trust me you didn’t miss much. The entertainment committee needs serious help. I
didn’t go back in I stayed outside and took more pictures with people
like Gia Darling yes you read that right Gia, she was there. All I can
say about her Is DAM she is one gorgeous woman and in the words of our
fearless Vanity Club president “I’d go "straight" for that, ha-ha. Gia
is so short and skinny I was really surprised and I must say she is a
hottie. I wish I had a chance to talk to her. I also took pictures with
the Vanity Club girls that happen to be outside at that time. A bunch of great girls I must say. As the night wore on I headed upstairs to change in to my jeans and tank and packed up a little more. Went back downstairs
to mingle a little more and I ran into Kelli a great girl In the making
she has lots of potential to make It as a woman and I wish her good
luck. It was getting close to 1am and I headed back up to my room and showered and cleaned up and went to bed.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
the day after
Woke up at 9am and packed the last few things I had out I tripled checked the room. Went
downstairs to check out of the hotel and placed my bag in storage as I
was leaving with some of the girls in their boy mode. It’s such an
interesting thing to see someone in their boy mode and trying to guess
who was who but hey that is the beauty of what makes us who we are
sometimes. I called Lauren to see where she was, she was down in the restaurant having breakfast with Cat. After
breakfast she went back upstairs to pack which took an hour, so I just
hung out with Wendy and Kelli both in boy mode I said my good byes to
all the Vanity Club girls that were leaving. It was now about 11am and I well be heading back to the airport on MARTA. It was a quiet ride to say the least and check in and security was a breeze. I had lunch there and boarded the plane home
I got home around 6p
Closing
This year definitely felt different than past SCC’s that I have been to. Mostly
regarding the fetish side of it I saw a lot less leather and PVC and
sissies this year which was a good thing, I think it made SCC a more
upscale and sophisticated atmosphere. Yes it made SCC a less a place to
have fun and enjoy the art of dressing. Another
thing that has changed was the number of younger participants at SCC it
seemed many are already transitioning or in the process. There are fewer younger cross-dressers every year. The trans-men are increasing in every year which is great. The
third thing is the wild or party energy has gone down dramatically
since leaving midtown, or it could just be this year, which in turn
made this year seem to have less attendees, I heard like 850 or so
compared to 910 last year. Possibly could be the result of economy, since for many SCC is more a luxury than a need.
The people are what make SCC all possible and this year there were some wild ones that pushed the boundaries of being passable. It’s great to see that many people come out and enjoy being a girl. I am happy that I was able to attend to say hi to old friends and make some new friends. One last thing coming home from Atlanta that was in the 75-80 degrees, to New York that was at 50-55 degrees SUCKS ha-ha……… oh and after seeing myself in pictures I think I look bad and FAT.
Until next year….
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September 3rd, 2008 8:17 pm MDT
Well it's that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that's almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don't know what SCC is, it's a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it's a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can't find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman's best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
Untitled Post
September 1st, 2008 11:29 am MDT
Well it's that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that's almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don't know what SCC is, it's a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it's a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can't find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman's best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
post scc
September 1st, 2008 11:23 am MDT
Well it's that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that's almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don't know what SCC is, it's a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it's a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can't find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman's best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
post scc
September 1st, 2008 11:22 am MDT
Well it's that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that's almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don't know what SCC is, it's a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it's a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can't find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman's best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
post SCC
August 29th, 2008 6:37 am MDT
Well it's that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that's almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don't know what SCC is, it's a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it's a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can't find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman's best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
post SCC
August 29th, 2008 6:31 am MDT
Well it's that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that's almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don't know what SCC is, it's a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it's a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can't find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman's best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
PRE SCC BLOG 8/22
August 22nd, 2008 12:06 pm MDT
Well it’s that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that’s almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don’t know what SCC is, it’s a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it’s a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can’t find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman’s best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
PRE SCC BLOG 8/22
August 22nd, 2008 12:04 pm MDT
Well it’s that time of the year again and SCC is just 5 weeks away, and its going to be a blast. This will be my 3rd year attending the conference and it seems to always get better, much like wine or aged cheese, hmmm……Anyhoo, this year I am going to TRY (<--- KEYWORD) to pack lite and keep it simple and I know that’s almost impossible for a Trans-woman. I had the idea after watching a You-Tube video by Ford models, the model Alejandra is showing us what she packs and giving tips on how to pack it in a small carry on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6h7DNARN8g
I love this channel on you tube, besides this one they have a lot of great videos on exercise and diet as well as fashion in makeup, clothes and hair, a TG can learn a lot form them.
Speaking of Videos, this year at SCC I plan to take a more interactive role and really blog about my days there as well as snap pictures and videos and maybe some interviews, yes I will be filming using my Sony handy-cam. All will be posted on You Tube so be on the look out for it in 5 weeks, the first video should be weds night (taken weds afternoon).
Now what to wear to SCC, oh for those that are reading and don’t know what SCC is, it’s a conference called Southern Comfort Conference http://www.sccatl.org/. And no its not the drink or an AA meeting about the drink, it’s a convention/conference geared towards the trans-gender community (M2F, F2M) that educates and informs as well as support the on going process of equality, and be able to function in everyday society as a human beings and not FREAKS. Ok back to what to wear… I need an evening dress that is sexy, like the one I wore at SCC 07, it was a little black designer black tank dress (will get the name later) it was so comfy I and yet so sexy with out being slutty.. http://www.flickr.com/photos/87508412@N00/2082073940/
Love this dress and outfit and my hair was awesome my skin was tan, If you can’t find me I am the middle the short Asian girl, by the way I was in pain in those heels, see what women go through, to look hot and sexy.
Ahh well I need to find another dress so its shopping for this poor young woman, yes I am poor, racking up those CC bills sigh…. A woman’s best friend and worst enemy all in one.
till next time later peeps
muah
KAT XOXO
celeb look alike
December 21st, 2007 1:12 pm MST
so who do i look like to me i think i look like
rachelle ann go, let me know
part 1 of scc
October 16th, 2007 10:30 am MDT
ok i know its late but super lazy hehe
part 1 of scc
Well it’s officially over SCC 07, and this year was a tad bit different than years past. First off is the new hotel it was held in the Crown Plaza, beautiful hotel and the location is just perfect right next to the mall, yes I did go shopping. The staff had little time to adjust to the overwhelming transgender community living in their hotel but they did a fabulous job and treated us with respect and understanding.
Ok so here is a brief day to day account
Wednesday 9/12
Got up bright and early and made sure that I packed all I need and what I need. I packed the car and I needed to make one small stop to the post office, I was waiting for my wig, but it never came so I was upset. But I did pack two wigs so I was ok and I didn’t have to go home to get another one. Well after that I went to get breakfast at my bagel shop and ordered it to go. I left my town at 845am and was on my way to Westchester airport in White Plains (HPN). Took me about 45-50 minutes to get there, no traffic on the way there and I live in the NY metro area, I was so happy. Well I never flew out of HPN I usually take JFK or LGA to ATL, HPN was a lot cheaper. I didn’t know how long the lines would be at HPN or how long TSA would take so I checked in via online, saves so much time in the long run. All I had to do at the airport was check my baggage which I did, then I proceeded to TSA and went thru fine and quick. Now as I sat in the terminal and got comfy as I was 1.5 hrs early I saw Kathie lee Gifford and her assistant, no I did not get a picture I didn’t want to be a pest as no one else seem to notice or care that she was there. Anyways, as time wore down and I boarded my plane, it was kind of different here at HPN. We had to walk outside and board on the tarmac and not by a gate, thought that was cool. Ok so I settled down to my seat and got comfy it was going to be 2 hrs before we landed in ATL. No meals were served and I was starving but I needed to loose weight so I fought the urge and thought about food and chewed my gum, HAHA. An uneventful 2hrs, I might say no movie. As we landed in ATL and I made my way to baggage terminal, I got a call from Annette a good TG friend of mine coming in from BOS. She just landed as well and will be at baggage soon, and asked where I was I told her baggage waiting for suitcase. She met me at my baggage claim, and it was like 230 now and I still haven’t got my suitcase, and everyone else on board with me left with theirs. I was getting worried did they loose my luggage? Was it sitting in HPN open with my forms out to everyone can see? So I went to the baggage customer service dept and they said that it did not make the flight and was still in HPN, I was like WHAT why? No one told me? So they assured me that it will be on the next flight coming in at 530p (DAM, DAM, DAM) and that they would drop it at the hotel. Sigh what a blow huh. So I left ATL with my friend and grabbed a cab to the Crown Plaza. 58 bucks total so we split the fare.
Walking into the new facility it was definitely a change, registration was now on the same floor to the left of the entrance, and they had like 4 eating places. The place was much cleaner and bigger (more land). The back had a garden/waterfall, very natural and lots of walking paths, it was beautiful. We checked in to our room, went to register to receive my badge and packet. And it was now around 4pm and it was still worried about my luggage everything was in there, still hoping that I comes. Well we walked the hotel looking around, found the pool/heatlh club, it was clean and indoors and a huge sundeck. We then decided to go to dinner at garrisons, it was located across the street great food and wait staff, it was a tad bit pricy but still with in reason. I had oysters half shell, surf and turf… I loves me seafood mmmm,mmm, good. So I would recommend Garrisons if you are ever at Perimeter Mall in ATL. After dinner we strolled the mall to just check it out and see where a nail salon was and ear pierced place would be. We returned to the hotel and it was now like 9ish, and my bags still have not come in. I was so worried. Well then we walked around the hotel to say hi to some old friends and make some new ones even though I was not dressed properly. Well as it was getting close to now 11pm I decided to go to my room and just paced like a new father in a waiting room, I feel a sleep for like 1 hr and 15 minutes. Then my cell rang at 1245 it was my luggage it was here, I rushed down stairs and greeted the transport luggage guy and I saw the bag and THANK GOD it was the right one. (that would of sucked ass if it was the wrong one) . but I was relieved and I slept like a baby.
Thurs 9/13
Ok bare with me here these next couple of days are not so dramatic as the first day, cause I didn’t go to any seminars. Sorry…
Well I woke up at like 10 ish and I showered and shaved and got ready to go eat lunch. My roommate Annette was already in downstairs, waiting. We sat with people that we knew from past SCC’s or from other parties in the North East area. It was a decent lunch nothing to really wow about it. a little after lunch we headed over to the mall, I had to get my nails done and she needed some more shirts. There were 2 place to get nails done one was a spa , I went there and asked for an appointment they had no openings (they probably did though, they just don’t want us there), so I went to the other place, a small nail salon in the corner near Dillards. It small, cozy and tucked away, the people are so kind and very professional, and the price is very affordable. So I got my manicure and pedicure, the tech commented on how soft my feet were and that they were very clean and nice. Well I laughed and said thanks. It took roughly an hr for me, and it was about 330-400. we then strolled the mall for another hr or so to check out the mall.
As dinner time rolled around we were back at the hotel getting ready for dinner. We had separate plans I was to eat with my VC sisters at our annual SCC dinner and Annette was to eat with her friends at some place other than the hotel. For the VC dinner I wore a white linen dress with black ballet flats, I rode with 2 other VC girls to the restaurant that was like miles away from the hotel. I forgot the name of the place its some French name. oh well. The dinner was great thanks to the organization of our president, and I meet so many new sisters there it was a pleasure to see and meet them all. As dinner was winding down and all of us were heading back to the cars we came in, and me and my VC sisters, almost got lost. Two blondes in the front and two brunettes in the back (not going to name names) but we eventually found our way back to the hotel. It is now like I think 930-10pm and the night was still young. Tonight’s entertainment is Twinkledome, and omg is she a hottie and cutie, now she is a girl I would love to have relations with hehe. I ventured in to the ball room even tho I don’t dance I just wanted to see what was all the hoopla. I stayed until about 12 or so and went back to my room and slept..
life
September 24th, 2007 12:56 am MDT
well i am writing this cause of what happened to my mother, she was in the hospital for minor injuries. tho it still scared me because of her age. i love my mother with all my heart and solil, i dont know what i would do with out her. i hate seeing her in pain from the fall she took, it just scared me. and it sorta made me re-evaluate life and what the future holds for me, as i see it i dont think i will ever have a GF or a family of my own, due to the lifestyle i live. even tho i want that life with all my heart, it seems it will never come. also i have few physical freinds i can talk to that know me, no one wants to be freinds with a tranny. the freinds i do have seem to be all online,. tho they are great and all, its not the same as real phsycial freinds, i am doomed to a life of no freinds and no family of my own and no Girl freind. i love life dont get me wrong i just wish it was a lot more better for me, been thinking of life a lot lately just because of what i see others have. it makes me think of what i want but will never get. one of my biggest fears is dying alone. i am happy for my parents as they love each other and to know that they will always be together. one thing i regret at this point in my life is that i wouldnt be able to give my parents grand children, there are four F's that are essential to be happy in life and they are FAMILY. FRIENDS, FAITH, FUN, you need all of these to have a fulfilling life. i have maybe two of these. i am sorry if this sounds really sad and all its seems that life for me is only soso, and that nothing good or anything happens to me.
asian beauty pagent in NYC on march 24 come see me
March 5th, 2007 3:04 pm MST
MR. & MISS ASIAN PACIFIC ALLIANCE 2007
Gay Pageant And Musical Fundraising Extravaganza
MARCH 24, 2007 -- SATURDAY -- 7:30 PM
PS 41 Auditorium -- Greenwich Village School
116 W. 11 Street (btw 6 & 7 Aves), NYC
The Pageant is co-sponsored by Queens Pride House: www.queenspridehouse.org, www.diversitycenterofqueens.net
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DISCOUNTS:
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$12 Advanced Tickets (Send check to APANY)
Advanced Tickets are also available at the Pageant Rehearsal & Meeting on March 18, Sunday, 2-5:30 pm, at PS 41 Auditorium.
Asian Pacific Alliance of New York (APANY)
Ed: 718-699-5922 / John: 718-966-4010 (calls btw 9am-9pm only)
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poll survey questions
February 12th, 2007 2:30 pm MST
ok what to hear what u all think and i want to hear from GGs as well
what makes a woman a woman
gender
sex
both
something else
thank on my bithday
January 28th, 2007 4:50 pm MST
thank you all for the wonderful wishes, on my birthday, and the comments, i will write more later and reflect on my life at age 31, and the woman i am hoping to be
making love to his new girlfreind
October 27th, 2006 5:41 am MDT
i got this from one of my groups post and i thought id share it. i was laughing, its a good one. hahaha
After a long night of making love to his new girlfriend, Fred notices a photo
of a man on her bedside table.
At first, he really didn't give it much thought; she had never mentioned it so
why should he.
But after a month or so he begins to stress about it; even imagining the
photo is staring at him doing the deed .
It was causing him so much anxiety that he finally decides ask about it.
"Is this your ex-husband?" he nervously asks.
"No, silly," she replies, snuggling up to him.
"Another boyfriend, then?" he continues.
"No, not at all," she says, nibbling away at his ear.
"Is it your dad or your brother?" he inquires, hoping to be reassured.
"No, no, no!!!" she answers.
"Well, who in the hell is he, then?" he demands.
"That's me before the surgery"
HOTlanta
September 16th, 2006 11:49 am MDT
ill be in altanta on tues 19-24 for SCC i hope to see all u there



