URNotAlone

Accessibility Options

Marissa Kim Virtue

"exercising daily to keep fit."

Out and About

May 8th, 2006 4:29 am MDT

I have been out and about in public as Kimberly something like 200+ times--my best guess.  Each time I try to have fun and each time I try to learn something to improve myself.  A number of times I have gone shopping at Marshall's or Target in the evening, when it is rather crowded.  Those are the most challenging excursions.  My voice is not passable, in my estimation, but visually I can pass as a woman most of the time, I think.  Usually I browse for things like jeans, shoes and cosmetics when I am at Target, and I typically don't get a second look from other customers or staff.  I love to try on shoes!  But there have been a few times when, for example, a younger GG has given me an extended glance.  That's when I think about my look, and realize that perhaps I used a little bit too much makeup that night, or was wearing a skirt when I would have been more passable wearing blue jeans and tennis shoes, or just for a second had a relapse into more masculine mannerisms.  In any case, I see myself as a work in process always, getting (hopefully) a bit better as time goes.  It all seems so natural and normal when I am out as Kimberly.  To me I am just a woman going about her business.  It is such a delight.

Comments

Logon to Post Comment

  • Lena Gibbson
    Re: Out and About Lena Gibbson May 16th, 2006 6:16 am MDT Hi Kimberly;  First, thank you for adding me to your friends list.  I'm flattered.  I enjoyed reading your "Out & About" post.  It echoes some of my own thoughts though I have never been out and about and probably never will.  I'm 6'3"+ in flats and would draw more than "extended glances".  Having seen your photos, I feel sure that the extended glances you might feel you have attracted are imagined or, better yet, are coming from GG's who are admiring a very attractive young lady.  Don't spoil your outings with self doubt.  Enjoy.  I envy you.  Kisses, Lena 
banner

© 1995-2010 URNotAlone.com, All Rights Reserved. All items © Copyright by their respective owners, used here with their consent.

Page generated in 0.14 seconds