Journal Entries for Amanda Nicole Valet
Choose your friends wisely !
June 13th, 2011 12:45 am MDT
Recently a suposedly good friend of mine started some crap and telling other firnds things and complaining about his and that , and then they forwarded the stuff to me because it was about me , when i confronted this supposedly good friend at first she denied it and then the next day apologised over and over again , just to on the following day twist it around and put all the blame on me once again, is that the kind of friends i need , i think NOT ! I sent this person a stern but honest email saying no matter how upset i get or got at them that the lest i was still going to be thier friend , but eveidentually they cannot read and they trash and rip me from limb to limb. Well all i can say is be careful who you choose as a friend. Because of this constant twisting of words it has ripped the friendship apart to un-repairable terms i think . I think the best hting is to not have such good friends but to have acquaintances instead , they dont expect so much from you.
And if you do plan to have friends and your gonna complain about them or talk bad about them make sure you dont do it to one of thier friends who in turn is gonna tell them about it and in the end you'll get caught running your mouth. I catch this person running thier mouth and in lies but yet it is my fault ?!?!?! REALLY????
Oh well friends come and go i suppose , so again everyone please choose your friends wisely !!!!! Just saying....
Hug's
~AMANDA~
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Re: Choose your friends wisely ! Amanda Nicole Valet June 14th, 2011 1:10 am MDT Wow Julie , thank you for such a well thought and expressed comment on my journal post , it really hit home , i think my problem is i try to let everyone be a good friend , only to be used as the dumpng person to dump all thier problems on , on a daily basis , it gets way to over-whelming. And when you do try to give your imput or give some advice , you now being mean because your beiong honest. I too think i am gonna go the path you took long ago and only have acquaintances that way there is nothing expected of me . Everyone has thier own concerns and problems with becoming the women they truely are or vice versa , but it dont mean they need to dump it all on you , or blame you when you do not return an instant message rigth away , you get yelled at and told you dont like them or are ignoring them. Thank you so much for all the advice and kind words of encouragement. You truely are a wise person. Thank you again...... ~Amanda~
