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New Photos Coming
Kimberly Elise January 6th, 2009 6:30 am MSTI had a formal makeover and photo session on Sunday, January 4th. Later this week I should have some new photos, my first big group of new photos since last May. They will include some casual "bare leg" looks with denim and flip flops, as well as some more dressed up office lady looks. Some of the photos will show off the pedicure I had (vivid pink nail polish). Also, my hair is in a longer style now, well below my shoulders. Kim :-)
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URNA DETECTIVES NEWS FLASH! DAN, JON & THE CASE OF THE MISSING JOURNAL ENTRIES!
Karen Reeves December 27th, 2008 8:54 pm MSTHi Everyone!
It appears that the case of the missing journal entry postings has been SOLVED!
I can see from my own list of the number of journal entries posted on my site that last June 4th was a busy day. I know I have posted quite a few journal entries over the years but not 53 of them!!! I can talk and write alot but . . . . .
Trying to repair the site the guys posted over 30 test entries on my site in just a few hours! When the site recently got repaired these disappearing journal entries suddenly reappeared. I just noticied this and have spent time deleting the test items.
I would suggest that everyone go delete repetative journal/test items to cut down on the clutter.
Thanks Dan & Jon for the great work in making Urnotalone such an awesome place!!! You have proved yourselves again!
*Smiles*
~Karen~
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Merry Christmas 2008 To You All!
Karen Reeves December 20th, 2008 11:51 pm MSTHi Everyone!
It is that time of year and yesterday's/today's snowstorm just seems to add to the festive mood of Christmas. I know that getting ready for the holidays can be stressful and painful.
I enjoy all the bright lights, good cheer, parties, the presents, and Xmas dinner. But let us remember the true meaning of Xmas. It is the day that we celeberate the life of one person and the meaning of what it is to strive and have a better planet to live on.
Enjoy your holidays no matter your belief system!!!!!
*Kisses*
~Karen~
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GOOBLE GOOBLE GOOBLE-Some November Thoughts !
Karen Reeves November 16th, 2008 10:00 pm MSTHi Everyone!
I hope that all of you have a great Thanksgiving. We all have, though it may not seem that way many times, so much to be thankful for. The next time you get down emotionally remember that things could be a whole lot worse. Many people are in that predicament.
Don't each too much turkey!
*Kisses*
~Karen~
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Thanks, for your sweet words
Ellen November 14th, 2008 2:00 pm MSTDear Jamie, Marci. Jacy Lee, and Bobbie,
Thanks, so much for your Birthday wishes. It was very heartwarming. I don't seem to be able to send emails, from the site to you girls so I'll publish it here. I had a great day, and your wishes helped!
Fondly,
Ellen
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Grace October 6th, 2008 1:45 pm MDTSo we agree to disagree. I "respect" your opinion and am comfortable with who I am and what I believe enough not to project it onto others to get VALIDATION....[6 comments]
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Sherryutah October 4th, 2008 3:20 pm MDThttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-DPV-vswIM[1 comment]
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Sherryutah October 4th, 2008 3:18 pm MDThttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-DPV-vswIM[Comment on this post]
Christianity
Grace October 3rd, 2008 5:43 pm MDTOn January 16th Dan posted a disturbing comment in his (public) journal. I don't personally know Dan, but from what else I have read - He is a nice guy. His post about Christianity was offensive to me, but this is not why I am writing. In another post he stated "As for religion and politics, maybe it doesn't belong here, but I think of journals as a way to express who are." I agree. However, was Dan expressing who he is or how ignorant Christians are? In any case I don't think politics, religion & SEXUALITY should be taboo as long as we are respectful of others and their life choices. Clearly that was not the case. I felt Christianity was being Mocked. Was it intentional - I prefer to believe it was not. Having said that, let's think about why we love this site so much. I believe it's because we can be who we are without fear of prejudice and judgement or being criticized for who we are and what we believe. Maybe I am naive and that is only applies to SEXUAL preference. If that's the case, it's a sad awakening for many of us, including me. Dan, thanks for reminding me why I choose the name GRACE.[1 comment]
What I wrote My Congressman regarding the US Economy
Jon October 1st, 2008 2:11 pm MDTI've been so disgusted listening to the Talking Heads spew bullshit on what needs to be done to get the Economy going again that I decided to write My Congressman. I encourage everyone to do the same, whether your view is in line with mine or diametrically opposed to it. Here's what I wrote My Congressman.
I'm writing to ask you 2 things and also to express my opinion.
1. Please Vote NO on any Tax Payer funded Bailout, of any kind, for Banks and Financial Institutions. As a Tax Payer, I do not want to see my Hard Earned Tax Dollars going to help out Companies or Institutions that have made irresponsible decisions. Large Firms should be treated no differently than Small Firms. If they can't stay afloat on their own, they should be allowed to go under.
2. Do NOT use my Hard Earned Tax Dollars to Subsidize the Mortgages of others. If a person was irresponsible enough to take out a Mortgage larger than they could afford then they should be foreclosed on. People must be held responsible for their actions. It would be grossly unfair to use My Hard Earned Tax Dollars to help pay off someone else's Mortgage. I have a hard enough time paying My Mortgage and My Monthly Bills without the Added Burden of Subsidizing someone else. Taxes are not levied by our Government to Redistribute wealth and it Offends me that it's even being considered.
My opinion on what should happen going forward...
1. Banks should require Substantial Down Payments before rewarding a Mortgage.
2. Banks should Verify Employment and Yearly Income before rewarding a Mortgage.
A comment on 1 and 2 above... This is what Banks always did until Our Government, towards the end of the 1990's, started pushing Banks to loosen their requirements so that more people could own homes. Well, guess what, not everyone can afford to own a home. I think that's pretty clear now and should have been obvious from the beginning.
3. Financial Institutions must be held responsible for the types of Financial Instruments they buy and sell. If they bundle up Worthless Sub Prime Mortgages into Financial Instruments and then can't sell them, well, that's life, they should be stuck with them. If it causes their Collapse, so be it.
To sum it up, Corporations AND Individuals must be held accountable for their actions. Using My and other people's Hard Earned Tax Dollars to Redistribute the Wealth to help the Rich OR the Poor, goes against everything this country stands for and the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach.
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A Little Boy In Drag
Grace October 1st, 2008 10:03 am MDTIt all started when I was about 7 years old. My best friend was Mario. Mario and I would spend most of our time together playing until his Dad would make him do unbelievable chores for a child of his age. Anyway, Mario and I would spend hours in my make shift "clubhouse". Mom made a clubhouse on our porch with a sheet. There, in my palace I would bake in my easy bake oven, put Jane (doll) to sleep in her crib and prepare a nice dinner. Of course, all of my other time was spent rummaging through my jewelry box, my fancy clothes and making the big decision on which HEELS (plastic) to wear. Then Mario would come over to play. That's when my odd desire to see a boy in girls clothes started. I spent soooo much time trying to convince Mario to wear just one bracelet or necklace. He wouldn't hear of it; BUT one day something changed. I was in my clubhouse and Mario came over. We were playing and I was messing with my frilly things when Mario asked if he could try on a necklace - Well, that was it.... on went the clip on earrings, the heels :-) and the dress. Mario's entire demeanor and character changed. We laughed and we played like 2 little girls and it was a cherished memory in the making. Eventually Mom came out and called us in for lunch. Mario's smile was gone and in it's place was terror. This 9 year old boy was terrified of being caught dressed like a girl. My heart broke. My Mom smiled and said to him "don't you look nice" and ushered us quickly under her arm and into the house. Mom reassured him that it was ok to play & she never questioned him or judged him for wearing girly things, but Mario was almost undressed before we ever got to the table. So, this is where my CD fetish all started. On my front porch in a make shift clubhouse at the tender age of 7. Men in woman's clothing has been a fascination of mine for as long as I have noticed boys or at least Mario. I don't know why or what the lure is for me, or where it ever came from, but it's been a part of who I am. It has only been in my recent adult life that I would allow myself to explore these desires. Was I feeling odd, alone, shame? I don't know. I think I wasn't aware of how many CD's there are in the world and how many woman support them. A man dressing in lingerie, applying a lovely shade of blush, putting on stockings and garters and Voila - the transformation. It is exquisite. I often wonder what ever happened to Mario. Last I heard he was having some issues with the law, his Dad (duh) and his sexuality. But I'll always remember my best friend; the boy that would play cops and robbers, watch Gigantor and on occasion play in my club and wear a dress. I wish that little boy and the man he has become all the best. [Comment on this post][1 comment]
It's time.....
Grace September 21st, 2008 3:44 pm MDTLife and God has opened my eyes to who I was, who I am and who I am to be. It's time for me to open a new chapter in my life. Time to focus on what my life means and not worry about what it is not. At 45 it's time. Time to be useful with my time and not WASTEFUL, time to help others and not want false desires. Maybe it's a midlife crisis, maybe I've grown up, but I do know life is so, so short. It’s time….. It's time... time to walk in the fall breeze, time to listen to the birds sing, time to help those less fortunate than I and time to laugh and not cry. Time to stop sitting in front of a TV, staring at a PC, wishing for years gone by, wishing for things I'll never try. It's time to put my petty desires and fantasies away, time to really go out to play. Play at the seashore, walk in the park, eat roasted marshmallows and stare at stars after dark... It's time to enjoy what God has given me, time to for me to truly BE..... It's been a pleasure meeting many of you and I wish you all well.[Comment on this post]
What Should I Have Done?
Linda Jensen September 15th, 2008 4:33 am MDTLast year I went to a nightclub in Montreal. I was dressed in a short, neatly cut blue skirt and a white sheer blouse with a neckline that plunged to suggest an ample breast cleavage. When I danced my long hair bounced lightly across my face. Happily, I attracted the attention of a nice looking gentleman. He offered me a drink; I accepted. We started to talk. Both of us were visitors to Montreal, me from Ontario, he from the eastern part of Canada, known as the Maritimes. He told me about his life and work in the Maritimes, he told me he was in Montreal to watch Tiger Woods at the President's Cup golf tournament. I told him little; I did not tell him I too was in town to attend the golf tournament. We got along great. He was impressed that I knew about golf, about his home province (I’d gone to university there) and I could speak French. We danced together and he freely bought drinks. At his suggestion, we left Cleo’s to spend the night in his hotel room. It was a gorgeous two-room suite, provided courtesy of one of the tournament’s major corporate sponsors. Shortly after we arrived he left me alone in the room while he visited one of his friends to get a bottle of liquor. I could have left right then and there with his laptop computer and other belongings but I am not like that. He was very trusting. 'Maritimers' are like that. On his return he poured me a nice strong Rum and Coke. We settled in to watch some late night television and do a little cuddling on the couch. Our embraces soon became very passionate. He was not tall but he had a very large, thick. . . .chest and shoulders. It was nice to run my hands over his body and feel its firmness, to run my fingers through his hair, to run my tongue across his neck. I loved the feeling of his strong hands squeezing my behind as I leaned over him, the warmth of his mouth kissing my neck, my ears and my lips. We made love for a long time. He had stamina; I had stamina. A single orgasm wasn’t enough for him; it had no effect on his ardor. For a while I thought I had found my perfect mate but as morning approached our lovemaking finished. I knew it was time for me to leave. We both had to be up in a few hours. Although he didn’t know it we both had a golf tournament to watch. I also was on the edge of time where I would need to shave. We made plans to get together for dinner the next evening. I asked for and he gave me $40 for the ‘cab ride’ home. I walked back to my hotel a few blocks away. The next day I made my way out to the Royal Montreal Golf Club to watch the tournament. All the big names in golf were there and I saw some brilliant shot making. But that is another story. I was certainly dressed more ‘boyishly’ than the night before – slacks, golf shirt, sneakers, no breasts, no make-up and no wig. On my head was a golf cap with the logo of my home course. There were 20,000 spectators at the Royal Montreal and I didn’t expect to see my Maritime friend but suddenly, late in the afternoon, directly across the 12th tee, there he was. He wore an open shirt and baggy shorts. There was no mistaking that broad chest. He was looking right at me. Or was he looking at the golfers standing just in front of me as they waited their time to play the Par 3? I couldn’t tell. Now, what is the protocol here? Should I have gone over to him and said, “Hi, I’m sometimes known as Linda. We made love last night. Would you like to nip into the bushes for a quickie?” Should I have gone over and asked if we were still on for dinner? Would it have destroyed his illusion if he realized the Cinderella he was with the night before was today just another a balding sweaty golf fan? As the golfers moved on from the tee I was going to follow my ‘lover’ but just then he was joined by a few of his buddies. I walked away. But I determined that later I would ask him ‘what would have happened if. . .?’ However, I never saw him again. The dinner never materialized; we were both too tired. The next day he returned to the Maritimes and I went home to Ontario. So, what should I have done? Should I have made an approach? Was I right to let the moment pass? Linda[Comment on this post]
Erowid: Documenting the Complex Relationship between Humans and Psychoactives
Jon September 12th, 2008 1:37 pm MDTJust a neat little site that I ran across...
http://www.erowid.org
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RIO GRANDE HS ABQ NM CLASS REUNION
Sassy Cat Girl I Love It! Jo-an August 30th, 2008 7:25 pm MDTANYBODY FROM ABQ INTERESTED?
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RIO GRANDE HIGH SCHOOL ALUMNI
Sassy Cat Girl I Love It! Jo-an August 30th, 2008 7:10 pm MDT[Comment on this post]
RIO GRANDE HIGHT SCHOOL ALB NEW MEXICO
Sassy Cat Girl I Love It! Jo-an August 30th, 2008 7:09 pm MDTAny Alumni out there? Trying to do a class reunion!
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Thoughts on Religion
Kimberly Elise August 21st, 2008 5:50 am MDTJust a note so there is no misunderstanding...if you're religious, I'm glad your religion works for you. But your religion is a private matter, so please don't try to convert me. I am quite happy the way I am. If anything changes, I'll call you. What are my beliefs? I'm basically an agnostic. Additionally, I'm interested in Buddhism and Hinduism, and have read some of the writings of J. Krishnamurti. I know this sounds kind of nebulous, but the fact is no human being can say for sure where we all came from and why our universe exists. As the author Geoffrey Wolfe once wrote, "We really don't know who we are, or where we have come from, or what we have done, or why." If you have read this far, log onto parabola.org. It's a great website (and magazine) which represents all faiths.
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Darkness
Sky July 23rd, 2008 1:35 pm MDT Darkness Darkness takin over my soul taking me down roads i don't know leading my places i don't want to go places i don't even know. how do i cope where do i go to fix my lost soul darker and darker has each day ends when will this darkness end this darkness taken over my soul confusion confusion rain down in my mind how do i cope where do i go to fix my lost soul i may never win this battle of this darkness thats taken over my soul.[2 comments]
Huge Success! YOU made it Happen!
Sassy Cat Girl I Love It! Jo-an July 21st, 2008 4:17 pm MDTHUGE SUCCESS! YOU MADE IT HAPPEN! THANK YOU!!!! This year's program generated more $ than any other year .. and it all goes to Charity!
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