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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Jenna Elizabeth Taylor March 22nd, 2006 9:51 am MST HUMOR? I should think you didn't  know the spelling, let alone the meaning of the word. Telling fellow members to f#ck themselves is FAR from HUMOR. If your rating is exactly the SAME as the rating you've given our, wherein lies the problem? Is it that you're far superior to everyone else. Hence, the narcissistic statement. BTW, any of my friends, I mean real friends not instant friends KNOW my sense of humor, thank you very little. Remember, time wounds all heals...
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Mandy Taylor March 22nd, 2006 10:01 am MST My word, we do seem to have a sense of humour ( spelt the ENGLISH way) by-pass dont we? Your point about incoming and outgoing scores is not a question of who thinks they are the better , my point in question concerned the clutch of bad scores given at one particular time. How you deem this a superiority complex is beyond me, perhaps you and your " long term" friends should put your heads together and work out who the bad apples are rather than have them stuck up your arses bitching over someone who has an opinion that differs from your own. 
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Jenna Elizabeth Taylor March 22nd, 2006 11:19 am MST My opinions are my own, as I suspect yours are too. Bad Apples exist no matter what means or to what lengths either you or I try to rid ourselves of them. Hypocrisy is thus proven when someone "bitches" about the "great hairy and unwashed" or tells them to perform self copulation. If your and my senses what is a 'good" score and what is a "bad" score" differ, so be it. However, if you average a 9.6 and thats the results of several "slayings" at the hands of the "unmerciful", what you're really complaining about is the undermining of your "Crusade for 10's" and when some Saladin  knocks you in the ditch you go on the attack. Debate, not attack is the only way to resolve your presonal dilemma. BTW, how did your score given out manage its way to only 9.6? You must have given out "low" scores too. Hmm? No "by-pass" here Sweety! ;)
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Mandy Taylor March 22nd, 2006 11:39 am MST Again you seem to miss the point , I see you seem to be well aware of my previous postings, you must also be aware that I have attempted to placate at the beginning, but pandering to the whims of these nonentities bears no fruit , so I have decided to vent my spleen in a more direct manner. I'm not saying I am right , by no means , but this is a public forum. The point you seem to be missing YET again , is not the fact that I am aghast at not getting " another 10" but in the pointless and obvious down voting of all others in favour of just one person. This is meant to be a talent contest not a popularity contest. I am one of many who take the time and effort to put a new picture up every month, the voting should be on the quality of the pic , not on who has the most chums to fiddle the scoring. Please feel free to continue calling me names and tossing quotes in my general direction, but I'm afraid that unless this group voting is erradicated once and for all this debacle will only coninue, and therefore so will my " sarcasm". Another word you might want to look up, you'll find we British are reknown for it . xxxx
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Jenna Elizabeth Taylor March 22nd, 2006 12:10 pm MST No my Dear, I have NOT missed your point, only conceded that prior to THIS discussion. This is not about pointless and and obvious down voting of all others in favour of just one person. That point is well documented on this site by you and many others including myself.  The point I make is debate versus attack.  I have YET at "call you" a single name, unless making an unsolicited observation of your behavior is "name calling". Reposting something that is on your profile this is hypocritical and follows in a long tradition of attacks on fellow nameless and faceless members is not "name calling" . However, "bitch", "bigots" and "cowardly lots" however accurate in their depictions are "name calling" terms.   SARCASM? I wrote the book Dear. Be sarcastic, if you wish, however sardonic is more aptly applied to British roots. Be BETTER at it, not bitter at it . Your wit is dulled by your anger.......Take out the bitterness and really nail them. It help if people sense a "sincerity" to your appeals. 
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Jon March 22nd, 2006 12:19 pm MST

  Now, now children...

  
  

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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Mandy Taylor March 22nd, 2006 12:20 pm MST Please forgive me honey , accusing you of name-calling was not my intention , I merely meant carry on regardless. May i add though hon, that there is no bitterness in my jibes, to be bitter would mean that these reprobates are winning, I merely feel that by giving them jovial nick-names gets my point across nicely and provides some amusement at the same time. To be honest, my main concern nowadays is my own site , and members therein, but I like to have a lil joust here too, keeps the interest alive hugsmandy xxxxxxxxx
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Rhianna Skye March 22nd, 2006 6:52 pm MST Wow, when the claws are out, everybody duck, lol :)
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Jenna Elizabeth Taylor March 23rd, 2006 12:46 am MST LOL! Nope, no claws, just to stubborn girls "dancing" around each other!! I'm sure Mandy's as declawed as I am. She says Tah Mat-toe I say Tah May- toe!
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Mandy Taylor March 23rd, 2006 12:51 am MST I readily concur sweetheart , it's our lil differences that make life more fun xxxxx    Good Morning hon btw xxxxx
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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Karen Reeves March 23rd, 2006 5:31 pm MST

   

  Is this being entered as a new sporting event at the next Summer Olympics in Beijing, China in 2008 ? 
  

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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Michele Angelique April 27th, 2006 5:48 pm MDT

  Mandy, I feel your frustration!  For someone who spends as much effort as you have, attempting to get a fair rating, it's no wonder you are reaching your wits end.

  My ratings have been off the entire year I've been on URNA, because I always felt it unfair for a GG to compete with TGs in this contest.  Since a new category for GGs was made this month, I thought I'd turn them on for fun.  I didn't expect to win, nor did I want to.  I still don't think it's fair for a GG to win.

  I just want to let you know that I have now experienced -- first hand -- what you are very legitimately frustrated about.  Last night, I was in #1 spot with 110 votes.  This morning, I see that a lousy 12 votes caused my rating to SEWER!!!  Nearly everyone else who was on the Top 10 as of last night, are still the same people on there today.  Except me, who in an 8 hour period got burried all the way from #1 to #49.  Yeah, that's random chance alright... not.  Did I get targeted? Am I being narcissistic in calling a spade a spade?

  Based on my new found first-hand experience, it's obvious that people on this site CAN and WILL deliberately attack someone's rating, and that it's really quite easy to accomplish.

  My ratings are once again OFF, which is how they will stay.  My hat is off to you, who keeps on trying, month after month.  I don't personally believe that the prize is worth all of your efforts, but still, for all the time you've spent reaching out to people on this site, you deserved to have won this thing long ago.  No doubt you keep getting crapped on by a few small people, right at the last moment.  I sincerely hope you actually win one of these months.

  It's not Jon or Dan's fault that a few jealous bitches ruin the contest for everyone, nor that statistically, it's really easy for a few votes to ruin an otherwise good vote.  It's just the fact of the matter. Mathematics don't lie.

  I don't see any narcissism in your frustration.  I see a person whose tireless efforts keep getting shit on.  You've got a hellova lot more motivation than I, to keep playing into this silly game month after month.

  Just remember honey, you are beautiful.  This is bound to cause jealousy.  Low people tend to feel better about themselves by trying to knock someone else over.  It's very sad, but please don't take it to heart.

  Hugs,

  Michele

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  Re: NARCISSISTIC MOI???? Jenna Elizabeth Taylor April 27th, 2006 7:43 pm MDT Ahhh, Michele, don't worry about it. Ratings or no ratings, we still luv ya..... Your true friends rate you on what's on the inside and know all the good you do.