URNotAlone

Marrage

March 24th, 2009 9:16 am MDT

I talk to a lot of random other people who say they are married, but they haven't told their wives they dress. I don't want to say that's terrible, but the longer you wait to tell them the worse it will be. Having someone married to you for years and not know this huge part of you life is devestating for them. I know it's easy for me to say this because my wife knows and is supportive of it. But I knew I had to tell her before we got married. I waited a little longer than I should have, and I wish it would have happend differently, but in the end it happend. If the person rejects you for it, are you meant to be togeather anyway? Why would you want to stay with someone who won't accept you for who you are? Again, I know it's easy for me to say this because of my situation, but still. It's Trust, if they find out later in life they feel you couldn't trust them and pretty much lied to them.