URNotAlone

Do Not Read Unless You Have a Strong Stomach/A Night Home Alone with Deb

July 23rd, 2006 4:27 am MDT

 Deb and I have grown so close together in these last couple of weeks. We are separated by exactly 1183 miles, 22hours 45 minutes according to Google.

But last night after thinking about going out to Talbot St with the Altgurls or a local club with some girls from Crossport, our local support group, which I NEVER miss a chance to go out!

After much deliberation, I sat down at my makeup mirror, put my contacts in as I was talking to Deb on the phone, then I hung my head down and I thought, I do not want to go out, I want to spend my evening with "My Love"! So we talked and decided to curl up on our beds, turn our televisions on and watch a movie together as we were connected by phone, we each made popcorn, and just so happened we had the same brand, to me that added to the ambiance.

So we lay there on our beds, sharing our laughs, thoughts and tears, feeling the warmth in our voices, watching the movie "Hitch", what an amazing experience. I am not sure if anyone else has done this or not, surely we did not invent this way of bonding and touch. I have never felt this close to anyone except my best friend who passed away 14 years ago. Debra is now my best friend, my lover and the person that makes my life complete.

But if you have not and you are in a long distance relationship and you have free minutes, we highly recommend it. We had such a beautiful time together hoping that nights like this will be enough until we meet in person on August 4th.

I love Debra Anne Johnson with all my being and I cannot wait to spend the rest of our lives together, we have already survived some soul searching and one nightmare and both have brought us closer together.

I would not trade last night's experience for anything in the world and I am sorry if it is to sappy for the weak of heart, but what a great evening!