URNotAlone

What happens to all the nice guys???

December 25th, 2007 11:51 pm MST

I sat and thought back on the past year and all the people i have had a chance to meet here on URNA as well as other chat rooms. It brought to mind the questions many t-grils as well as GG's ask. Where the heck are the nice guys. I will admit i have met some nice ones here Frank has been sweet, and when he played me a song one night and i heard my name on the radio it was great, and I can't leave out Denny who is so sweet to me. Denny has been kind enough to listen to me vent on the phone more than once, Thanks for that. You have no idea how much that has meant to me in a year when i have really had a chance to find out who i am and who i wan tto be. But now i look at all the guys who sadly have no interest in getting to know us before they ask those special meaningful questions like, Are you naked,horny, or what are you wearing, Most times i ignore that right away but when we go through the trouble of creating a complete profile full of pics and WORDS too. They never see the words that say we are not looking to get off. Well I am looking for a guy who can see me as a woman and nothing more, not looking for sex. I wan to be me and move at my own pace. When the tiime is right well sex won't be an issue. I know this is not a new gripe,but, hey its my two cents. Thanks to the guys that have really made me feel good about myself, and what i am doing. Now if i can trap one into showing up for our meetingLOL i might have a chance. Being in a small town it makes it tought enough but this past weekend a man who i have known left me a message and wanted to come see me and take me out, well he asked me to call, but guys when you do this it is always a good idea to leave a phone number with the message. Well luck was not on my side AGAIN. LOL Whats a girl to do???