URNotAlone

The Fake Social

September 2nd, 2008 6:09 pm MDT

I had a strange experience this weekend which started with an email invite by a Tgirl from URNA. I had seen this local person's profile but never had any contact. So when she announced a Tgirl group in Raleigh I was a bit surprised because between myself and my friends we thought we knew most everyone. Even more intriguing was the location of the social, our own favorite downtown hotel bar. There were several red flags, but I was a bit intrigued if maybe there were other Tgirls in our town that I didn't know.
So I forwarded the invite to a few special friends and asked if anyone knew this girl. My message was sort of miscommunicated as an invite to this special party and that is where it gets strange. One of my close friends sent this person an email and received back a message telling about having an eveing gown event in addition to the dinner and social. As it happens I was going out on Saturday to meet friends so I responded that yes, I would attend the social.
To make this short, no one but my friends showed up at the hotel bar, our bartender never heard about any group event, and some of my friends were not only a bit pissed, but offended that this person would pull this kind of crap. I'll be sending an email to Jon asking if there have been any other complaints about this member, but should she show up at one of our many regualar hangouts it might not be a pretty picture. I just don't see how another Tgirl on URNA could play such a silly game.

But for your reading please, here is the original invite and let me know if being stood up was a special insult to my friends and myself. But have no concern for our Saturday night,.. we had a good time at the hotel bar (always do), at the club we met a lot of friends and danced, and danced, and danced,.. Then later at another place met some more friends and even made some new ones,.. What is almost funny is we're known by every bartender, every doorman, every DJ, the hotel staff, the bar and restaurant owners so no matter where we go, we have friends. I wonder if this person will have the nerve to show up at any downtown place,..

Ok, here is the email,...

Hi there ladies.
Do not be alarmed at this email. One of your lady friends has given us your emails address and we just want to in invite you to a local event this weekend in downtown Raleigh.

We are a local group of discrete transgendered and cross-dressing ladies that meet several times a year in the Raleigh area.

Your friend thought enough of you to include you in this group and it is an honor to be asked to attend our meetings. We try and keep things very quiet and only invite ladies that are looking to meet other ladies and enjoy an evening of entrainment and fun at a local hotel. We always pick hotels that are t-girl friendly and can offer some degree of comfort for our ladies. This year we are meeting at the clarion hotel in downtown Raleigh. They offer enclosed parking and several exclusive areas just for us including a bar area that has an exquisite view of the Raleigh sky line.

This is a fun environment for any ladies that want to come join us for a fun time and meet other ladies with similar interests and passions. Many of the local Trans woman and performers from the local clubs attended. It is a fun evening and is open to all ladies that can behave in public and need a comfortable place to meet.

Please come join us this Labor Day weekend and have a gala time with the ladies.

We are meeting Saturday the 30th about 800 pm. This is after dark and will afford all our shy ladies a chance to get out after dark.

If you would like to get a room for the evening, the group rate for this sat is $89, and you can remain totally anonymous, dress I your room and join us in the bar.We will meet there from 8 until 10 and then we will have a late night dinner at 10 pm

If you care to attend in guy mode the first time that is fine. Many girls are shy at first and we love to meet new shy ladies.

After dinner we usually have a show and then we have some activities for the bold and the timid. Usually we have a live performance in the meeting room form some of our local t-girls and then we visit the local bar scene for drinks and meeting men.

Let us know if you would like to attend and if you will be getting a room for the evening and we can put you in contact with some of our ladies if you would like adjoining rooms.

Please let us know ASAP if you would like to attendThe theme for this meeting is: lace lace.The ladies of theRaleigh area trans-ladies societyPs: all your information and correspondence is totally confidential and your information is only available to you and ladies that you want to correspond with. We are very discrete for obvious reasons.If you are a bit shy that is fine, we have several ladies that just dress in the room and you may attend in guy mode if you so desire. Many of the ladies attend in guy mode and then retie to their room with a lady for the evening. Several ladies only dress in the room and have members come meet them for intimate times.If you are a local guy and would like to meet a local lady for a fun evening just respond and tell us what types of ladies you are interested in and we will let you know when they are available.We are a very open and loving group. Always play safe and wear your rubbers.If you would like to be taken off the list just say so in your response.