URNotAlone

Complete Description of me

June 8th, 2007 7:59 pm MDT

Hello to all you URNA members kind enough to check out my profile.

Here is a little about me:
First of all, I consider myself a quite dynamic and complicated creature. The depths of my internal mechanics as a person can hardly be described in a short profile but I will do my best.

My name is Jessica and I am a 35 year transgendered girl from Maryland. I would say that I am a sweet girl with a little bit of vixen in her when appropriate. I have a free spirit, open mind, great sense of humor and don't have the energy to get offended by others judgments or ignorance. I enjoy good company, stimulating conversation, fine dining, cooking for others, all types of music, watching movies, being on the water or beach, playing poker, hanging with with good friends, and and enjoying a good cocktail from time to time :)

About my feminine side:
I have been dressing on and off most of my life but have finally reached a point where I completely accept this side of who I am. I do not plan on becoming full time as I still enjoy my male persona and that side of my life as well. However, Jessica is another expression of who I am as a person that I also really enjoy.

More about that:
From a spiritual perspective I feel that we are genderless but in the physical world we live in, the two genders have been created. Though all of us in the world (regardless of what sex you were born) are individually unique, I believe we can all agree there are some very common distinctions/characteristics that separate the male and female genders.

For me, I believe that I was born this life in the physical male gender form and though inwardly (mentally and emotionally) I have many characteristics associated to the male gender I also have many that are typically associated to the female gender. I enjoy embracing that feminine side. I love the energy that it brings when I am expressing myself completely as woman and part of doing that is dressing and creating the illusion of being a woman.

So with that said, I do not consider dressing just a hobby or something that I do as a fetish. Although I can be very sexually oriented at times when dressed and have certain fetishes, the dressing as a woman is not the fetish.

There are characteristics of me as a person that are shared between both persona's. All my values, opinions, and feelings, as well as many of my likes and dislikes, are the same regardless how I am dressed. However, when I am a guy, I act like a guy and have mannerisms of a guy. When I am expressing myself as Jessica I act as a girl and have mannerisms of a girl.

I am not the kind of CD/TV that wears womens panties under my male clothes nor the type that acts over the top girlie when dressed and acts like boys are stupid or dumb.

I am truly looking for genuine friendships. People that like and appreciate me as a complete person. Ideally this means that I would like to establish friendships with those who appreciate my feminine side but are not afraid to know my other side as well. For those TG girls who want to keep their female life completely separate from their male life, that is understandable and fine with me . We can still be friends as well on that level.

About chatting with me on instant messaging and chat rooms:
I am alway open to chatting with anybody new. All that I ask is that you be respectful and have the ability to carry an intelligent conversation. If you private message me in a chat room, don't expect me to carry the conversation. Introduce yourself properly, ask specific questions that you would like to know. I am an open book and no question is to personal to ask.

It should also be known that I am typically very sweet and willing to give anybody a chance but I can easily turn if you cross a line unwanted or show to be untrustworthy. Oh yeah.....I typically prefer to see profiles with photos and more importantly photos with face shots. If you don't have that I would surely expect and well thought out and written profile.

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