URNotAlone

Out with my wife

June 25th, 2006 3:39 am MDT

Hi girls,My wife is pretty much accepting of my CDing in that she lets me go out as Steffie but she does not want to go out with me to  pulic place when I am dressed (which I can understand).  She had gone to a couple of CDing meetings with me in the past but she has never really had a good time.  Last night however, she did go with me to another meeting (a picnic we had).  This was only her 4th meeting  since I have come out in the last year.  It rained and we moved the picnic indoors.  We talked with some nice couples there though.  It gave my wife a chance to talk to other wives of CD's.  I could tell this time my wife had a great time and later on she confirmed this to me.  It is good, I think, when other wives can bond.  Then they can talk about the issues that most wives face; even the ones that ae most accepting need to do this I think.  My wife definitely wants to go back and is even considering going out with Steffie  a few months down the road when there is an event (in Novemer) in Deleware where crossdressers and crossdressing couples can go for a few days.  She says I can be Steffie the whole time there an she will not be embarassed to be seen with me.  :)It seems (I hope and pray) that last night my wife and I may have grown a little closer in this crossdressing journey; we weren't too bad before but it's always nice when understanding can continue to grow in a relationship.  :)