URNotAlone

Men, Men, Men, Men, Manly, Men, Men, Men…

January 17th, 2008 5:37 am MST

 *** The more I converse with the girls, and ladies, the more I realize how truly different we are how much it takes a REAL woman to enjoy a man, without compromising his manliness.  Don’t stop reading now, or you will miss totally what I am saying.  *** I know there a potential to be the most miss quoted, or quoted out of context.  But, here goes…  My need to express this has been on my mind for some time, but came up again the other night.  She asked, “Why do you like us?”  Which always takes me to why do you like men?  We can be really disgusting.  I personally am a clutter bug, and have to fight against turning my basement into a junkyard.  But, that is what I am talking about… that is a manly thing.  The Clutter is a mess in it self, but my Male soul wants to fix things.  So, I pick up furniture, computers, clothing, etc.  These are all things I can fix.  Furniture may need minor repair, or is just plain dirty… “I can fix that.”  Computers, if they are not to old, can be scavenged from and I can cobble new computers from the old parts… “I can fix that.”  Clothes can be thrown out cause they dirty, or just plain old, I can wash them, examine them carefully, and pass them on to our local thrift store…  “I can fix that.”  *** Hopefully this will give you of the kinds of things men can find important.  It is not just strapping on a man, and getting your jollies… there are machines for that sort of thing.  Down deep a man likes to hunt… which can include freezing your ass off in drizzling rain, up is some tree trying to get ‘Bambi.’  But, the ‘hunt’ I am talking about is more elemental then that… and is why many of us are here…. Sex.  Either real, or imagined men want to pursue.  A butcher is happy is the meat is deliver to his doorstep.  It is processed, and life goes on.  A hunter wants to enjoy the pursuit as well as the capture.  Which is what makes me want to run a hide when a conversation starts out discussing how unfulfilled the other person is, and home much they want to be filled???  *** I am not saying I never went “all the way in a chat conversation.”  But, I am saying is it was a fun process of flirting, and exploring of personalities.  How this relates to women is this… you need to be prepared… almost look forward to the pursuit… enjoy the attentions… heck everyone enjoys being desired.  Women need to understand the full implications of my friends comment to me… “You are a guy… and guys will say anything get into a girls pants.  But, that is ok.”  Of course I have known this young lady for years, but the point is she acknowledged my desire for the ‘hunt’ and is cool with it… that to me is the MOST feminine thing that has ever been said to me.