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  Re: Tell me How... Michelle Hart May 22nd, 2008 4:00 am MDT

  "I am really curious, how do I encourage your womanhood, with out involving sex?"

   

  You don't and you cant. Being a woman has little or nothing to do with sex. Sex is just a biological imperitive to keep the species alive nothing more. The key word in your question is "encourage" and that is what you do. You help her blossom, you guide her in the art of femininity, you talk to her as a woman and treat her like one. Sex really has no place in womanhood nor should it. I may not have been born a woman but I certainly dont need to have sex with somebody to prove it. Everything I do and say says "woman" How I talk and veiw the world says "woman" How I dress and carry myself says "woman" none of the aforementioned have anything to do with sex.

   

  "That may sound strange, but it seems like any relationship I have on line at URNA stumbles once certain ... moments have been shared."

   

  Well that to me is rather odd? If it stumbles then it's a comunication issue, you don't "get" her or she is not "getting" you. Plain and simple. There are a lot of people here who want to pretend to be a woman and once the have to confront what it "IS" to be a woman they tend to fall apart. It all goes back to what is being said and what it implies.

   

  "Hey, I didn't say I don't like sex... but, there has to be more..."
  

   

  Hmmm, there is and always will be more. Sex is just a pastime or an activity you do when your up to it. It sure is'nt what a relationship of any kind is based on unless your a hooker and then it's more about ego and attention than it is about having sex with someone. Most people like it but there are some who actually don't which is fine so I would actually spend more time on the "what's your sign" questions and a whole lot less on the "what's your favorite position" ones. If your whole focus of the conversation revolves around that topic your doomed, trust me.