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Surround Yourself with Love
Michele Angelique January 6th, 2008 4:51 pm MSTOnce we think more deeply about the people we interact with, it becomes easier for us to work toward filling our lives with people who help us cultivate healthy and positive relationships. Even though it might not always seem like we have much control over who we are with, we do. The power to step back from toxicity lies within us. All we have to do is take a few moments to reflect on how another person makes you feel. Assessing the people we spend the most time with allows us to see if they add something constructive to, or subtract from, our lives. Should a friend sap our strength, for example, we can simply set the intention to tell them how we feel or simply spend less time with them.
We will find that the moment we are honest with ourselves about our own feelings, the more candid we can be with others about how they make us feel. While this may involve some drastic changes to our social life it can bring about a personal transformation that will truly empower us, since the decision to live our truth will infuse our lives with greater happiness.
When we surround ourselves with positive people, we clear away the negativity that exists around us and create more room to welcome nurturing energy. Doing this not only enriches our lives but also envelopes us in a supportive and healing space that fosters greater growth, understanding, and love of ourselves as well as those we care about.
Much love and happy 2008,
Michele Angelique
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HUGE MISTAKE DROPPING THE RATINGS
Laura White November 12th, 2007 7:42 pm MSTDear URNOTALONE AUDIENCE Its been exactly 12 days since the ratings were dropped and the only thing that has dropped are the number of comments and visits to my site . Everyone with a IQ greater then a ripe summer squash did realize the falacy of thinking that winning the monthly contest actually meant anything . However , the ratings were a catalyst for activity . True , a few magots seemed to get their rocks off posting "1"s and spoiling the temporary high . But after all , We all live a little bit of fantasy that could certainly survive a few idiots .The down side of eliminating the ratings is far worst . Laura White[6 comments]
Damn You Easter Bunny!
Nancy Ng April 9th, 2007 8:22 pm MDTOh why do I love chocolate so much. Maybe it's the female influence in me. Just bought over three pound of chocolate that was half priced post Easter.Must...resist...from eating it all in a short period or I won't be able to fit into my favorite dresses.[Comment on this post]
Happy Valentines Day
Nancy Ng February 13th, 2007 10:04 pm MSTTo all the lovely gals on URNA, have a Very Happy Valentines Day.[Comment on this post]
Why Do I Love Transwomen?
Michele Angelique February 1st, 2007 6:04 pm MSTBecause I am a natural born woman, I have been asked on more occasions than I can count, "why" do I care about transgender issues and "why" do I have so many friends in the online trans community, since I myself am not trans? I was born female, so "why" am I here online representing and supporting transgender women? My reasons are a combination of personal, social and spiritual. I'd like to write a little more about each of these areas, then expand in future blogs based on your interests.
Personal Reasons…
On a personal level, I am bisexual femme top, so none other suits me as well as a bi-gendered male-to-female (M2F) transwoman. No other type of potential love partner is more attractive to me, particularly those who are comfortable with both sides of their gender.
For a male crossdressing en femme, it is often erotic, sensual and sexual, yet it goes even deeper because dressing allows his inner feminine to emerge from the heart of a man, invoking a feeling of relief and joy as she is able to breathe through her true self. To observe, participate, facilitate this emotional healing is blissful to me, satisfying and fulfilling beyond measure.
All my romantic/sexual inclinations are for M2F trans of all degrees from crossdresser, femboi, transvestite, bi-gendered, transgendered, transsexual – all males who respectfully cross the gender line are so beautiful in my eyes. Someone who can switch between male and female, or who embodies both at one time, is the ideal match for a bisexual woman like me. This intense attraction is the magnet that keeps me transfixed, despite that I myself am not trans, the love of my life certainly will be.
Social Reasons…
On a social level, it is from a strong feminist perspective that I support transwomen. I am someone who believes that feminine is of equal value to masculine, and it is healthy and normal for females to be masculine, or males to be feminine. Because I am a feminist, I admire the ideals of femininity, so it makes perfect sense to me that many humans aspire to the feminine, no matter whether they are anatomically female or male.
Society has a deep-seated underlying disregard for the feminine, which is why women and transwomen are not treated as equals to men. The gender imbalance is a social problem which has existed for millenniums. All feminine people, genetic women and transwomen, are on the same side of the movement toward true gender equality.
As a feminist, I love and revere the feminine, so I hold in most special regard those born male who have the strength to be feminine in this harsh and cruel world. Males who possess such an inner goddess essence that they choose to cross the gender divide and become one of us, are the ultimate feminists in my book. I urge all women, all feminists, to recognize and embrace transgender women as our true sisters.
Spiritual Reasons…
From a spiritual perspective, I believe the human soul is genderless. I believe our Higher Power is genderless. It is only in physical earthly form that we are bound to vessels which are gendered. In our angelic forms, we have the knowledge, wisdom and understanding of both feminine and masculine, in perfect balance and harmony.
I believe it is evolutionary for humans to transcend societal bondage of stereotypical polarities, in particular the illusion of binary gender. As we evolve as human beings, we get closer to our angelic forms, we find a growing inner knowing of both masculinity and femininity. People who cross the human-made gender construct are only following a natural course of soul evolution.
We as human beings are not meant to be caged by the artificial duality we have created for ourselves. The time has come to transcend the illusion and ascend into our most beautiful selves.
What Do You Think?
So you see, I have a number of reasons for loving transwomen. I could write so much more if you are interested. I would like to hear from you. Along which of these lines – personal, social or spiritual - should I expand my writing?
Much love to all of you beautiful URNA sisters!
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BACK FROM VEGAS
Laura White November 8th, 2006 7:51 pm MSTGirls
I just returned from a week living in Vegas as Laura . The thrill of Flying from Miami as Laura and Mainstreaming as Laura for a Full week in one of the Hottest places to visit in the world leaves me speechless .
Laura White
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Coming Out of Hiding
Michele Angelique August 16th, 2006 4:31 pm MDTComing Out Of HidingIsolation
There are times in our lives when withdrawing from our social obligations and taking some time to be alone is necessary to rejuvenate our energy and renew our connection to ourselves. However, there are also times when withdrawal is a red flag, indicating an underlying sense of depression or some other problem. We may not even have consciously decided to isolate ourselves but wake up one day to find that we have been spending most of our time alone. Perhaps it's been a long time since friends who used to call have given up. Without anyone inviting us out, we sink deeper into alienation.
The longer our isolation lasts, the harder it becomes to reach out to people. It is as if we have failed to exercise a particular muscle, and now it is so weak we don't know how to use it. Yet, in order to return to a healthy, balanced state of being, that's exactly what we need to do. If you find yourself in this situation, call an understanding friend who will listen to you with compassion, not a defensive friend who may have taken your withdrawal personally. The last thing you need is to be chided; a negative response could intensity your isolation. If you don't have a kind friend you can rely on, call a spiritual counselor or therapist. They may be able to help you determine the underlying cause of your isolation and help you find your way out of it.
When you've been in a pattern of secluding yourself, it can begin to seem impossible that you could reenter the world of friendships, conversations, and group activities, but with time, you will. Most people will understand if you take the time to explain that you've fallen out of touch and would like to reconnect. Take your time and be gentle with yourself, starting with one person and building from there. Try to reach out to one new person every week. Before you know it, you will find yourself back in the company of friends.
~ From www.dailyom.com
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To the Wife of a Transwoman Coming Out
Michele Angelique August 7th, 2006 3:10 pm MDTI received a letter from the wife of someone who recently revealed their transgender status after 10+ years of marriage, and who intends to transition permanently to live as a woman full time. After reading one of my earliest pieces, "Best of Both Worlds", she reached out to me in the hopes that I may be able to help her to cope with these changes in her partner, particularly in regard to sexual orientation. Fortunately she loves her spouse immeasurably, and wants to accomodate their needs if she is able. While I was only able to scratch the surface of this topic in a single letter, my hope is that I provided her with a few important points to consider. I expect that this will be an ongoing discussion, and plan to post again on this topic in the near future. I would really like to get your feedback, because I am considering writing a book on this topic. Please tell me if I am on the right track.
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Please forgive my delay in responding honey. I wish I could provide some easy answers, but I don't want to make light of the situation you are facing because I do understand how you feel. First off I should note that I wrote "best of both worlds" about a year ago, and in all honesty, I have personally evolved in the year since writing that piece. At the time, I was still under the impression that my partner needed to have a penis. I have since reconsidered that notion, because quite frankly, it is not the penis that I love but rather the person. A penis does not make or break the sex life, but rather, the passion and intent of each partner to please one another is the real key; the body parts are just details.
The only real certainty in life is change. Nothing remains static forever. This is especially true with human beings. Because we have minds, hearts and spirits, we are constantly evolving, changing, growing. This is obviously more true for some people than others, but yet everyone does evolve through the course of life, even if in very minor ways. Some people change drastically, for various reasons, be they intentional or otherwise. One way or another, change is inevitable, and the only way to remain connected to another person over the long haul is to change together. As your partner evolves, you must also evolve in ways that accomodate and/or inspire your partner's growth. Otherwise, you will grow apart and find yourselves no longer compatible. To resist changes which your partner feels are essential to their happiness is to deny them the right to blossom, whereas to support their evolution is to enable them to reach for their best. A happy partner makes the best possible partner for you, so it's a win-win, provided the changes bring no harm to you.
The thing you will have to face is that as your partner transitions, she will be less inclined to assume the male role, especially in bed, mainly because it reminds her of what she doesn't want to be. If you demand this of her during intimacy when she is most vulnerable, she will come to resent the pressure. Whereas if you focus on pleasing her in the ways she needs to be pleased, quite likely she will be happy to reciprocate in whatever ways she is able. Have confidence that your partner will be far more sexually responsive if she is contented with herself, in which case she will be a more attentive lover to you.
I understand your misgivings about your own sexual orientation, as you noted you've never considered yourself a lesbian or even bisexual. I have come to realize that there is no label for my sexual orientation, because what I really love about a person is their heart, mind, and spirit, whereas anatomy is secondary. Therefore I am not a lesbian, nor am I hetero, nor am I truly bisexual (because it does not account for loving gender-fluid people). I guess if someone had to label me, it would be something like "queer" because I don't fit into any pre-defined box.
The question is whether your sexual orientation defines you as a person? Quite likely, in the grand scheme of you as a whole person, sexuality is just one fraction of who you are. Thus, to get hung up on this detail to the point where it might lead to questioning your love relationship, seems giving too much importance to something that doesn't even define the totality of you.
You loving your spouse, no matter what her anatomy, does not mean you are suddenly a lesbian attracted to all women, it simply means that you have the ability to love your partner in any form.
The fundamental point to ponder is, are you harmed by the changes?
You may feel that the changes will bring negative social stigma to your life... in this case, ask yourself whether the opinions of outsiders matter more than your partner's happiness?
You may feel that your children (if any) would be confused by the changes... in this case, ask yourself whether you wish to raise your children to understand only what's inside the old box of societal norms, or if teaching them to be open-minded and accepting of diversity may actually be a service to them?
You may feel that the changes will diminish the excitement of your sex life... in this case, ask yourself whether you are more excited by the totality of your partner as a person, or by their body parts?
You may feel that having a partner who changes gender will mean having to change the label of your sexual orientation... in this case, ask yourself whether the label is more important than the love?
I can't answer any of these questions for you dear one, only you know what's right for you. All I do know for sure is that your heart is in the right place in asking the questions you did. Your spouse is very blessed to have you as a partner, because it is clear that your love for her is pure and strong.
I wish you all the best, in whatever path you may choose.
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I Believe in You
Michele Angelique August 5th, 2006 2:03 pm MDTThere are times in our lives when we may find ourselves facing challenges that can seem overwhelming. The situation or task we are struggling with seems hopeless, and it is easy to stop believing in ourselves, our goals, and our dreams. It is during these moments that it can be reassuring and reaffirming to turn to the people in our lives who do believe in us, especially when we are finding it hard to believe in ourselves. An encouraging word, a reassuring look, or hearing the words "I believe in you" from someone who matters can help us turn our situations around in an instant.
Everybody has someone who believes in them, whether this person is a teacher, parent, friend, loved one, or an employer. Often their belief can wrap us in warmth, bolster us, and offer us a supportive hand to grab onto until we can regain our own support. Having that special person who believes in our abilities and our worth is a wonderful gift. But when we are feeling unworthy, it may be difficult to take in something so precious. We may even feel like we need to do it all on our own and that we shouldn't be asking for help. However, in letting their belief and support impact you, you are acknowledging the part of yourself that knows you are worthy of trust and esteem. By allowing them to believe in you, your own belief in yourself and your abilities will start to emerge again. Borrow their vision, and you can make it your own.
If your special someone is not there to spur you on, you also can lift yourself up with the gift of a positive image. When you feel uncertain, you can create a vision of the future you desire that will serve as a beacon of light. To do so, simply imagine a future that is exactly as you'd like it to be. Imagine in detail how you feel, what you are doing, and how others are responding to you. Make your vision as real as possible, and allow your doubts to recede so you can focus solely on the goal you seek. The more intently you focus on the image of what you want, your belief in yourself will step to the forefront, making it easier for the universe to open up a path and guide you.
From www.dailyom.com
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An Unconditional Gift
Michele Angelique June 18th, 2006 1:10 pm MDTIn the quest to create a gentler, more loving world, kindness is the easiest tool we can use. Though it is easy to overlook opportunities to be kind, our lives are replete with situations in which we can be helpful, considerate, thoughtful, and friendly to loved ones and associates, as well as strangers. The touching, selfless acts of kindness that have the most profoundly uplifting effects are often the simplest: a word of praise, a gentle touch, a helping hand, a gesture of courtesy, or a smile. Such small kindnesses represent an unconditional, unrestricted form of love that we are free to give or withhold at will. When you give the gift of kindness, whether in the form of assistance, concern, or friendliness, your actions create a beacon of happiness and hope that warms people's hearts.
The components of kindness are compassion, respect, and generosity. Put simply, kindness is the conscious act of engaging others in a positive way without asking whether those individuals deserve to be treated kindly. All living beings thrive on kindness. A single, sincere compliment can turn a person's entire world around. Holding a door or thanking someone who has held a door for you can inspire others to practice politeness and make already kind individuals feel good about their efforts. Smiling at people you meet-even those who make you feel like frowning-can turn a dreary encounter into a delightful one, for both of you. Every kind act has a positive influence on the individual who has performed said act as well as on the recipient, regardless of whether the act is acknowledged. Kindness brings about more kindness and slowly but surely takes a positive toll on humanity.
Weaving the thread of kindness into your everyday life can be as easy as choosing to offer a hearty "Good morning" and "Good night" to your coworkers or neighbors, a stranger on the street, or the grocery store clerk. When you commit a kind act, you are momentarily disconnected from your ego and bonded with the individual who has benefited from your kindness. Being fully present in each moment of your life facilitates kindness as it increases your awareness of the people around you. You'll discover that each act of kindness you engage in makes the world, in some small way, a better place.
From: www.dailyom.com
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Please Help Us to Help You!
Michele Angelique April 23rd, 2006 10:46 pm MDTMy dearest sisters and friends on URNA,Please take a moment to consider signing your Transgender Human Rights petition. We are petitioning the United Nations to recognize transgender people as human beings equal to men and women. As it stands, transgender people are excluded from the U.N.'s definition of human.
The U.N. has 191 member countries, most of whom are guilty of not protecting our transgender sisters' human rights. By petitioning a centralized world body like the U.N., the goal is to bring attention to the descrimination faced by transwomen. This is just one approach of many that will be needed over the coming years, as transgender people gain equal rights and protections as the rest of society.
Due to the need for anonymity to guard your safety, you may choose to sign this petition with either your official given name, or with your chosen transgender name. Signing is better than silence, because silence implies acceptance. Darlings, you must not accept being considered less than human! Stand up and be counted, even if only on a virtual level for now. Anything is better than silence!
Please visit this important website for more information and to sign your petition: http://transgenderunity.blogspot.com/
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~ The Secret ~ Campari Ad
Michele Angelique April 11th, 2006 7:27 pm MDTCampari was a Finalist for the Epica 2005 Awards which is Europe's Premier Creative Awards. It was created in Great Britain by Radical.Media for BBDO Milan. It was awarded a Silver medal in the Film category. See the very unique and flashy Campari website. The company even provides a PDF version of "The Secret" for download
The high film quality and artistic value evidenced a high budget, and they represented T in a very classy and alluring way. I believe Trans is going to become the next hottest thing! Call me optimistic, delusional or downright crazy, but in a few years when you're shaking your heads in disbelief, just remember crazy little old me who saw it coming!
But I'll never say "I told ya so"... promise.
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Eye Of The Beholder
Michele Angelique April 6th, 2006 5:32 pm MDTBeauty can be cruel, and our pursuit of her can be in vain. We may go to the opera in anticipation of finding beauty there, and she may bore and disappoint us. Instead, beauty lavishes her attention on another suitor who may be more appreciative of her charms. Or, we may try to capture beauty's essence in a photograph, painting, or sculpture, and still she is nowhere to be found. Beauty will forever inspire works of art, and she will always pose for her portrait, selecting the artist who is most worthy of her catching her likeness.
Depending on our personal tastes, beauty can be found in every color, flavor, scent, and texture. She lives among the poor, as well as the rich, and appears in the faces of the young and the old. She is at home in the city, as well as the country, decorating skylines as well as landscapes. She is the ultimate shape shifter. Beauty is a weather beaten barn beloved by one person and an awesome testament of naval craftsmanship revered by another. Beauty knows no bounds, and we can find her everywhere. All we have to do is look for beauty, and she is there.
From DailyOM
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My Personal Mission Statement
Michele Angelique April 4th, 2006 10:27 pm MDTOriginally posted at: http://blog.myspace.com/28809086
Who Am I?
I am a child of the universe, a worker of light with unshakable conviction of the power and truth of love, peace, freedom, tolerance and equality of all people, regardless of race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, or any other factor. I celebrate the diversity of human and other life existent on this planet, judging only by the guiding premise if it harms none, do what you will.
What Do I Believe?
I believe love is the divine source residing in the heart of every human being, and that all souls have equal worth in the larger multidimensional scheme. Life is a series of tests to be handled by means of human free will and choice; the most difficult tests bear the greatest opportunity for growth. We are given many lifetimes to experience progressively differing circumstances and attributes. We as individuals determine the quality of lessons (evolution) gained from the challenges presented. As a collective group we determine the unfolding destiny of Earth and its inhabitants. Our beliefs form our reality. Change can happen in a moment. No soul is ever permanently lost.
What Am I Doing?
I have taken a special interest in the transgender community, yet I am not outwardly transgendered. My soul is genderless, and I was born within my preferred physical gender (female), so I feel no personal conflict whatsoever in this area. Love and empathy are what draw me to the transgender community. These gifted people are misunderstood and discriminated against by society, which is unjust on its own. What calls to my heart even more is the majority of transpeople seem to have so very little love for themselves. Low self-esteem and shame are prevalent within the trans community, as the vast majority of its members are closeted, too ashamed and afraid to even show their faces.
My goal is to stand as a beacon of light for these beautiful souls, to illuminate their self-worth by focusing upon their strengths and virtues. For if they can evolve within the realm of self-love, shame and fear will diminish, and many more will begin proudly stepping out of the closet and into the light. Correspondingly, society will begin to realize their value as human beings, deserving of treatment equal to everyone else. The day will eventually come when transpeople can walk freely as accepted members of society, yet it starts within the hearts and minds of transpeople themselves. Self-love, dignity, and pride are the cornerstones, and my hope is to make a positive impact in these areas.
Peace, Love & Light,
Michele Angelique
www.genderevolve.com
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Kingston, Ontario Canada Spring Fling Update
Nancy Ng April 4th, 2006 7:58 am MDTSpring Fling UPDATEMore info at www.xpressions.orgApril 1st, 2006 Beauty Galore!!!The Beauty Consultants from Estee Lauder (The Bay, Kingston) are keen, very keen to tend to the gals at the Spring Fling! They will bring a full selection of camouflage, concealers, eye shadows, eye liners, blushes, foundation, lip stickers…anything that gals like us want and need! The makeup workshop begins at 3:00 p.m., right after the Fashion Show, with private makeup consultations/applications running to 6:00 p.m., or into the cocktail hour if the demand is great! The beauty consultants may come back for the dance! So, if you’ve always wanted to dance with your beauty consultant but never had the chance, the time has come! How many of you will wish a private consulation / application? (there will be a small fee) Please let Alexa know as early as possible alexalady_ont@yahoo.ca so that she can arrange to have enough enthusiastic Estee Lauder beauty consultants on hand! Wigs Galore!!The manager and consultants at All-Ways Hair Styling and Tanning Salon (Kingston) are excited about the opportunity to host the Wig Workshop. Along with bringing a broad range of wigs in different colours, styles and prices, they will also talk about wig fitting, care and cleaning. There will be lots of time to try on different wigs and get tips on the best cut and style for you. If you ever wondered how you might look as a blonde, this will be the time! “This gal” thinks that brunettes have the most fun though!! Fashion Galore!!Additionelle, Penningtons, Reitmans and RW & Co., four of the Reitman chain stores have fully embraced this Spring Fling! The store managers will be at the Fashion Show to watch, “enjoy” and show an extensive range of the spring and summer fashion. Each store will have at least 5 of their garments modelled, from lingerie to skirts, blouses, jackets, pant suits and dresses! Each store will have on display a selection of their garments and accessories. You’ll see what was modelled in the show plus other fun items to complement your present wardrobe! All of the store managers are wonderful and they realize that the CD/TG market is a growing one so STOP BY their table and introduce yourself! Take their business cards and you’ll have wonderful fashion associates who will do their best to dress you whenever you are passing through Kingston!! Check out the store websites so you know the best store for you! (sizing, etc.) One of the assistant store managers who is very, very outgoing and infatuated by this Fashion Show idea is going to MC the 1 hour show! Trust me, she will do an amazing job. She will provide information on each outfit (ie. stretch, material, style, season, etc.) There will be some banter by a couple of us gals to complement what Margaret has to say about the fashions! By the way, Margaret and Gail (Additionelle) entertained me in the Changing Room for 2 hours. After trying on eight outfits, I finally slipped on the 3-piece suit and sealed the deal! These two are amazing women!!! A reminder: SUNDAY MORNING SHOPPING:Additionelle, RW & Co., and Reitmans will open early on Sunday for private shopping! There won’t be a better time to try on outfits and get your perfect fitting! No more grab and run! Relax, browse, ask for assistance and try on the dress or skirt! 10% discount from Additionelle (Margaret and Gail); the other stores will probably do the same! Fetish Wear Galore!!Cynthia’s (Kingston) will be bringing a selection of inexpensive wigs as well as an interesting rack of Fetish Wear, lingerie and accessories! So, for those gals who head out to fetish nights in Toronto, Montreal or Ottawa, make sure you swing by Cynthia’s display! Her rack is interesting (clothes that is!). She will also open up on Sunday to cater to our group. (The store is usually closed on Sunday but will open up for an hour or so if the interest is there….so chat with Cynthia!) Holiday Inn Reservation NEWSThe Kingston Holiday Inn will honour the Conference rate until there are no longer rooms available BUT the reservations NOW must be made directly through the Kingston hotel (613-549-8400), quote Xpressions. Don’t wait too long as tenting in the parking lot is not permitted! Spa at the MillA reminder that if you wish to pamper yourself on Saturday morning, after a long night of partying in the downtown bars, book an appointment with Therse at the Spa as soon as possible. This Spa is gorgeous and therefore very popular. She will bring in additional spa therapists if there is the demand! She and her staff are excited to meet some of the gals (and spouses too). Call 1-877-424-4417; let them know that you are with the GM/TVQ/Xpressions Group Response to the Kingston Spring Fling EventLadies Fashion Stores: 100% excitedEstee Lauder Beauty Consultants: 100% excitedWig Consultants: 100% excitedCynthia’s: 100% excitedBars/Restaurants: 100% excitedSpa at the Mill: 100% excitedHoliday Inn Staff: 100% excited & 100% supportive Gals from Ontario, Quebec and USA: 70, and the interest is growing! Let’s get ready to party!!![Comment on this post]
GenderEvolve Contributors
Michele Angelique April 2nd, 2006 9:30 pm MDTI am so proud to consider this outstanding group of beautiful and intelligent ladies as my dearest friends and sisters. Kudos and love to the Contributors at GenderEvolve, for their unified efforts to uplift, inspire and educate.
Alexis Rene
Miranda Skye
Adarabeth Veau
Brielle Whitney
Marlena Dahlstrom
Lauren Thomas
Felicia Conti
Alysyn Ayrica
Dee Femina
Stacie Ku
Annette Brunette
Devi
Brianna Austin
Shari Williams
Steffanie Thomas
Rhenaiya Jesson
Laurianna Payot
Sweet Explosion
Jacqueline Smyth
Dee Gregory
Monica De La O
Samantha Leigh
Victoria DeRhen
Amber Smith
Christy Garcia
Gwen McGregor
Sumana Galli
Karen Reeves
Michle Anglique Facilitator * Love+Light *
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# of GGs on URNA, up 578% in 9 months!!
Michele Angelique March 31st, 2006 7:28 pm MST[4 comments]
The Road to New Beginnings
Michele Angelique March 21st, 2006 12:57 pm MSTCompletion
The period of completion, rather than being just an act of finality, is also one of transition. When we seek closure, what we really want is an understanding of what has happened and an opportunity to derive what lessons we can from an experience. Without closure, there is no resolution and we are left to grieve, relive old memories to the point of frustration, or remain forever connected to people from our past. A sense of completion regarding a situation may also result when we accept that we have done our best. If you can't officially achieve closure with someone, you can create completion by participating in a closure ritual. Write a farewell letter to that person and then burn your note during a ceremony. This ritual allows you to consciously honor and appreciate what has taken place between you and release the experience so you can move forward.
Closure can help you let go of feelings of anger or uncertainty regarding your past even as you honor your experience - whether good or bad - as a necessary step on your life's path. Closure allows you to emotionally lay to rest issues and feelings that may be weighing down your spirit. When you create closure, you affirm that you have done what was needed, are wiser because of your experience, and are ready for whatever life wants to bring you next.
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Yahoo360, Myspace & Blogger
Michele Angelique March 1st, 2006 7:09 pm MSTI've had the good fortune of bumping into a few URNA girlfriends on other sites lately... if you have a profile on Yahoo 360, Myspace or Blogger, I encourage you to come say hello, leave a comment or send a friends request... I don't bite very hard, I promise...
Yahoo 360: http://360.yahoo.com/micheleangelique1111
Myspace: http://www.myspace.com/28809086
Blogger: http://micheleangelique.blogspot.com
Please don't be shy!
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