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Just fu#k him ... and all will be well

March 16th, 2008 6:59 am MDT

Nikki Sixx of Motley Crue once said, “a woman should be a lady on your arm and a whore behind your door.”  .... I agree.  .... This is why I feel like I’m the only one who has a slightly different viewpoint of this whole Eliot Spitzer mess.  If Spitzer felt the need to pay for sex, doesn’t it at least beg the question of whether or not Mrs. Spitzer was doing her share of her marital duty?  Isn’t that at least a fair question?  After all, the men I’ve spoken to certainly want a lady on their arm and a whore behind their door.  Perhaps Eliot just wasn’t getting what he needed. ..... Now, this blog comes with a fair amount of caveats: 1) I don’t know either of these people, so it’s difficult to get any sort of read on them.  It’s a bad enough idea to speculate on the love life of people you do know, let alone those you don’t. ..... 2) Eliot Spitzer is complete prick.  That much seems certain.  And don’t you get the feeling Eliot’s is a complete egomaniac too?  Have you ever met a real and true egomaniac?  Yikes. They’re weird and unpredictable and don’t fall within the norms of behavior in general. ..... 3) It’s entirely possible Silda Wall Spitzer is a firecracker in bed, although the name and that miserable face lead me to believe otherwise. ..... With those out of the way … I’ll continue. Shouldn’t we at least look at sunny Silda as the cause for all of this?  Yes, he stuck his dick where he shouldn’t have, and as a married man, that’s a bad decision.  Bringing the escort in question across state lines from New York to Washington was also a poor choice – and that act is probably going to land Eliot in the clink.  But I do wonder whether all of this could have been avoided if Silda had just let Eliot cum on her face every day.  .....  If you break it down, it’s a pretty simple set of equations:.....  A man + consistently hot and varied sex = faithful.  .....  A man + boring or non-existent sex = a cheater.  ..... That’s really all we need to know, isn’t it? .....  For the guys reading this, think about your sex drive.  Yes, I know many of you feel you’re “always horny”, and to a point that may be true.  But it’s a scientific fact that men are less horny after they’ve just had an orgasm.  So doesn’t it stand to reason that if Mrs. Spitzer was sucking and fucking the juice out of Eliot on a daily basis, that this may not have happened? .....   After all, guys are sexual creatures.  Most have a penchant for the visual.  This is why the porn industry is so prevalent.  It’s why a garter belt is a turn on for most men.  It’s a sexual/visual thing and they pretty much want to fuck anything wearing one. ..... Doesn’t make them wrong.  Just makes them men. ..... I love to dress sexy for a man in and out of the bedroom.  It’s the centerfold fantasy all over again.  They’re not used to seeing garters and stockings and heels and being able to fuck the girl who is wearing them.  They’re not used to this one bit, so by being that living, breathing fantasy come to life, they tend to have hard-ons a lot. ...... Because of this, when I’m seeing somebody, I’ve constantly got a hard cock inside me somewhere.  They want it – and it’s my obligation to provide it. I’m guessing this is why Eliot Spitzer spent all that money on hookers, too.  He wasn’t getting it at home and if he was, it wasn’t interesting.  As our equations show, that’s the recipe for a man to stray.  Someone like Silda Wall Spitzer should know this too......  Is it really that difficult?  I hear stories from guys all the time about their girlfriend or wife and the utterly lacking sex life they share.  I can’t understand it.  We’re talking about sex!  It’s fun, it feels so good and it’s a satisfying bonding experience too (if you care about the person you’re fucking).  Why don’t these women want it more?   A guy can have me any way he likes – trashy, classy, naked, on the hood of the car … and he can pretty much do whatever he would like – fuck me, cum all over me, tie me up, let me tie him up, toys, role playing, fantasies … the list goes on and on … because 1) I love sex, and 2) I realize that a man is not going to put his dick anywhere else if he’s already blown his load three times before mid-day..... And my guess is Silda could have avoided all of this if she opened her legs for her man on a daily basis.   Thanks for reading. xoxo .... Danielle

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  • Michelle Hart
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Michelle Hart March 16th, 2008 10:14 am MDT

    Is'nt it really sad that this is so acurate. This Just makes think about all the women out there who have no idea their boyfreind or whatever is hitting on me. I can't count the number of married guys who are all over me. I totally agree with your thoughts on this one Danielle.

    Even as statuesqe as I am I always wear heels. Why? The boys like it and part of being a woman is dressing for the boys. My comfort is important but is it really that hard to put on a little sexier bra? Underwear with just a little more lace? I feel like all of us want to please whoever we are with but sometimes one partner or the other is just not "doing their job".

    You know me I'm ALWAYS classy but........well you know?

  • Casey Hill
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Casey Hill March 16th, 2008 12:53 pm MDT

    Pardon my imprudence, but the real reason behind Spitzers' ousting has more to do with his his egocentric behavior while in office. True, he's being investigated for the use of several prostitutes dating back to his tenure as AG of New York State, but as Governor he withheld tax dollar funds from districts in which constituents who disagreed with his stance on awarding driver's licenses to illegal aliens held office. Prostitution is NOT a legalized endeavor in any state (except certain counties in Nevada), and Spitzer is also charged with this criminal offense. He's displayed extreme preference due to the fact he has promised to shut down prostitution rings in New York while "using" such services in New Jersey. You're very correct in your assumption that Spitzer sees himself above the law, to an extent, yet this investigation has little to do with the use of a hooker. I think that aspect will be decided in divorce court. The media just seems intent on ratings, so whatever will catch the viewer's interest is what's going to be on the nightly news.

         In Spitzer's favor, I have to say that it doesn't look like he used tax-payer funds for the prostitutes, but that too is under scrutiny. He did, however use the NY State police to spy on political rivals. And it's very likely he used that same police force to aid in his liasions, and thier transportation across State lines.

  • Danielle Rose
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Danielle Rose March 16th, 2008 5:44 pm MDT Danielle, I wish more women thought like we do, but that might make them trans as well.....lol I Love the insight and agree with you about the sex behind the door! To hell with the politicians!   :) 
  • Rachel Mead
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Rachel Mead March 17th, 2008 4:10 pm MDT I probably shouldn't touch this with a ten foot pole but what the heck, here goes. Silda is a real woman and I'm sure that at some point she must have been sucking and fucking Eliot enough to get to the marriage. It may have even been the best sex of their lives, only they know. Hmmm, maybe then at some point in the relationship (I believe it was a long one) he upset her or treated her badly and she realized what other people knew/know: This guy is an egomaniac, prick, asshole. Well Poor Eliot's happy days with Silda must've ended at some point and it might not be her fault at all. Long term relationships are much different than short ones. I doubt many woman would subscribe to Nikki's philosophy because it is a man's fantasy perspective plain and simple. If/when a woman does perform the role of the male fantasy girl she is probably doing it for various short term reasons, money, catch the guy-security/marriage, low self esteem... but in any rate it is probably not going to be the key to a long term successful relationship. Gee, do I sound like a feminist lesbian? that is a serious question because I actually don't know as my education is all technical based and lacking on the social studies. I do agree with your observations of the male sex drive but not on the contention that lots of sex leads to faithfulness. Some guys are addicts and want variety, it is part of nature and natural selection and here we are in a modern society trying to change our instincts. In college I had a girlfriend who'd suck and fuck me any which way but I didn't see us being the ones for each other so I cheated and moved on. The reason why Eliot chose to pay was because he was too afraid of the consequences of divorce. He figured he had a way to satisfy his needs and he could keep his empire too. He discovered it doesn't work that way. Luv ya Danielle! hugs, Rachel
  • Jen
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Jen March 18th, 2008 9:40 am MDT Thanks to Rachel for responding to this post as she did. I'd have hated for visitors and members to think we all agreed with Danielle on this topic. The original journal has bothered me since it was posted, and I'm glad someone took a different point of view. Not knowing Danielle, I'm glad Rachel disagreed with her as her friend. I'll end with two comments that summarize my opinion - 1. Silda could be an iceberg in bed; it doesn't make right what Spitzer did. Suggesting Silda is at fault for one iota of Spitzer's actions is as wrong reprehensible as suggesting a rapist isn't totally at fault if his/her victim happened to be attractive or sexy. 2.  President Clinton's, and with the recent admissions, Governor Paterson's, marriages and careers have survived marital infidelity. Ultimately it was Spitzer's hypocrisy and personality that brought him down. Jen Fiacco  
  • Danielle Hendrix
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Danielle Hendrix March 18th, 2008 4:00 pm MDT I would like to thank everyone who has commented on this posting so far.  Whether you agree or disagree with what I wrote, I genuinely appreciate the time you've spent articulating your thoughts on a controversial subject like this one.  xoxo Danielle
  • Kara Williams
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Kara Williams April 5th, 2008 7:09 pm MDT I love your fresh take on this issue and agree completely.  Marriage has two equal partners each person needs to come to bed and know what the other likes.  If that spark cant fly and emotions light up the relationship is not what it could be.  Why would a wife not want to find the raw sensual needs of their man.  I have talked to many guys that try and buy lingerie for their wives to get things heated up, the opposite occurs, "I am not wearing this, you think I am a slut"  Wow great way to send your man packing looking for that center fold that Danielle mentioned.  Some times we have to take a chance and leave our comfor zone to heat things up and keep that bond tight.  It seem like some relationships are to much like politics and business deals. All about money and who you know. very sad.   Kara ;)  
  • Danielle Hendrix
    Re: Just fu#k him ... and all will be well Danielle Hendrix April 5th, 2008 8:17 pm MDT Kara, Thanks for the comment.  I agree with you about the lingerie example.  So many women have body issues or sex hangups that are completely unfounded.  And because of those issues, the message they send to their guys is entirely negative.  If women stopped and thought about that, perhaps their time in the bedroom would be better spent.  I appreciate that you read this and felt the desire to comment on it.  It means a lot to me. xoxo Danielle
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