Joanna
"watching her wild flowers bloom and harvesting apples."
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Whats up with the TV/CD thing?
June 30th, 2008 2:49 pm MDT
I wrote the following for a girl on another forum wondering whats up with the TV/CD and how we could consider ourselves transexual. By dictionary terms, I am not transexual. The TV/CD is an entirely different experience from the transexual. But I am a Transgender Person which is an umbrella term for all of us. The existence of the TV/CD muddies the water of public perception and makes things more difficult for the transexual. For me putting on a dress and makeup is lots of fun and going out to clubs and drag bars is a riot. My putting on a dress has nothing in common whatsoever with Transexualism or GID. Well almost nothing. I think that cross dressing may be an exploratory part of GID for some people. I could write a small book about my experiences, emotions and my changed perspective on society. But I did realize that my prefered form of gender expression does not fit the role model society expects. Nor does it fit the "Real Man" image foisted on to our society. And in no way do I consider myself anywhere close to a beinga woman. Other than a hardcore transvetite who puts a dress on for pure sexual stimulation, one might find the CD/TV to have a different set of esthetics and value you for your feminine qualities rather than just whats between your legs. We have a deep appreciation for those feminine qualities we try so hard to emulate. So for the little bit of time you play "dress up" with him you might find an incredibly appreciative and loving partner. Legal Disclaimer: As in all aspects of humanity there are degrees of everything. He may only need to dress a little or dress a lot. Fixation on genitals may vary. Fashion sense may vary from embarrassing to way better than yours. This statement may contain forward thinking concepts. Please read full prospectus. Mileage may vary.
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Re: Whats up with the TV/CD thing? Spirit July 1st, 2008 5:27 am MDT I always llike your posts. I agree with you to a large degree. I think the central issue, here, is that people tend to ask for answers instead of searching for them. It's not laziness, it's just a facet of immaturity that we all need to pass through. If mature beings discuss and ponder matters amongthemselves, they engage in a sharing of ideas. This process reveals the novelties and contradictions of viewpoints each may have thought were flawless. Thus, both parties learn, not because they were taught, but because they shared and assimilated the observations of another person. I try to live this way. I know that my definitions of of the world, from huge abstractions to mundane daily events, are subjective, different, and mine. I will share them with anyone, but I don't expect people to agree with me. I just hope they'll give my ideas a fair shake, and then make their own decision. I am a girl. Sometimes. I never bother with TV/CD/TG/etc., because, to me, they're all just abstractions. Sue is a girl. Her brother is not. There isn't any conflict, just two distinct portrayals of one soul.- Re: Whats up with the TV/CD thing? Daphne Danger July 8th, 2008 12:51 pm MDT It's fairly simple, while simultaneously sad. People don't like their striped toothpaste with more red than green or white, more green, or more white. They want their stripes to be of equal size and of relatively consistent color. They want the same amount in each tube they buy. Any deviation and they demand a refund., even if the toothpaste still serves it function. Most people can't handle shades of grey, because they are so used to being catered to aestheticly, because they want it that way.
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