URNotAlone

Nightmare in a Red Dress

June 4th, 2007 5:01 pm MDT

Look I'm as kinky as the next girl, If you saw my collection of heels there would be no doubt. I went to village station this week and a fellow who I chat with occasionally was there. I just happened to be sitting with my girlfriend when he approached. As he raved about how great I looked and how much he missed me I was struck by how touchy feely he was.

Now I'm no prude but I barely know this man and he's all over me. I was subtle and polite in my rebuke but still. I am with someone and his behavior was really inappropriate. He was sitting with another girl, I use the term loosely because she acted and carried herself way to much like a he.....than a she. This could be why he wanted to come hang out with me instead.

Anyway, so introductions are made and he lets me know that we can play together later and "she" is cool with it. Apparently my date who was sitting next to me was invisible. Now both of them are all handsy and touchy feely which again is not something I mind to much when the time is right. What made it so horible was my girlfriend who almost never goes there was really offended by this apparent lack of basic respect and decency. Neither of them knew her and each was pawing her like they were me. Eventually I brushed them off and we got back to our girls night out.

Make no mistake I am a lady first and a whore second. If you want to "sample" the merchandise there is a deposit required! I literally agonize over what to wear and weather my hair and makeup are perfect. I probably change my outfit three or four times before I walk out the door. I do this because I am a woman who really cares about her appearance. I will admit some days I look waaay better than others but it is the overall effort that is most important. Anything worth doing is worth doing right.

This other girl acted more like a guy in a dress than a lady and that's really my point. Girls there are some things that are just down right inappropriate. We all have weaknesses and flaws, lord knows I have a bunch but I work very hard to minimize and conceal them from view. Being a girl is a lot of hard work and being a woman is even harder. Red lipstick and a blonde wig will not make you a girl, for that matter neither will surgery.

Your heart and your head make you what you are. If those don't match what you have on the outside then nobody is ever going to take you seriously.I'm not advocating any particular position other than basic social grace and class. Men and women  can  each be classy and elegant, Now that is sexy! Brutish hey babe look at my dick it's really big is not. If you want me to act like a whore for you that's fine honey but you had better be paying me like one or I'm outa here.