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Still Losing Weight!
Veronica Sue Winger November 5th, 2008 6:09 pm MSTI reached 175 lbs this morning! Only 5 lbs to go![Comment on this post]
An Impressionable Youth
Carlotta Spanks October 27th, 2008 8:31 am MDTI was in the 3rd grade. My Spanish teacher was a former runway model. She was totally put together, always dressed to the nines in haute couture. Absolutely gorgeous. What was imprinted in my young brain was this scene: there were only about 6 of us in the class so we each got a lot of personal, 1 on 1 time with her. I remember that we were working on pronouncing the "rr"or erre sound in Spanish. We Anglos have a hard time doing it because there's no equivalent to the sound in the English language. In order to make the correct pronunciation, one has to flutter one's tongue against the upper pallete of the mouth. The sound rolls off the tongue. Being able to pronounce it properly, mastering it (or in my case, mistressing) really separates the men from the boys. Or gurlz from the men. Or gurlz from the girls. So, Mrs. X would go around the room and sit directly across from each of us, one at a time and make sure we were making the right moves with our tongues. (are you there yet? LOL) Mrs. X would draw her chair very close to me. Knees to knees. Face to face, cara a cara, vis a vis. I was wearing short pants and I would brush my shins against her stockinged, very long legs. My entire field of vision was filled with the sight of red lipstick, dangle earrings, false eyelashes, bangle bracelets, bright red fingernails, pearl necklaces. I was drugged by her perfume. And, as we practiced making the erre sound, she would slowly, purposefully lick her lips with her tongue and demonstrate in slow motion how to position my tongue and follow through with my lips. Needless to say, I speak fluent Spanish today. I also wear stockings, red lipstick, dangle earrings, false eyelashes, bangle bracelets, bright red fingernails, and pearl necklaces. Thank you and God bless you Mrs. X, wherever you are. There's nothing like positive reinforcement, is there gurlz? Carlotta[Comment on this post]
Retro Glamour, Style & Fashion
Carlotta Spanks October 23rd, 2008 12:37 pm MDTLeave it to us gurlz to preserve iconic fashion and style until they come back into style: big hair, garter belts, gloves, corsets, girdles, OTT makeup, etc... In other words, Dita von Teese = Betty Page with better photography and stylist. http://shemalecentre.ning.com/group/retroglamour[Comment on this post]
TS Therapist & Facial Feminization Surgery
Veronica Sue Winger October 22nd, 2008 5:22 am MDTI'd like to learn more about Feleshia Porter, MS, LPC and Peter Raphael MD. She's a therapist/counselor and he is a plastic surgeon. I found both through online TS Women's resources. They both work close to my home too. Thank you for your help.[1 comment]
On Target
Veronica Sue Winger October 6th, 2008 9:54 am MDTWoo hoo! I've lost 10 lbs in 1 month! I'm down to 180 lbs. which has been like a wall in the past, but my diet diary is really helping me to control my calories and stay on track for 170 lbs.[Comment on this post]
CBS Sunday Good Morning Show about TS.
Veronica Sue Winger September 7th, 2008 7:22 am MDTCBS Sunday Good Morning show had a good program about Trinidad, CO, Dr. Marcie Bowers, and Transexuals. I learned a few things. About 1,000 girls undergo SRS a year. There are probably only 6 doctors who do it full time. And a common theme I've heard for years of surgery or suicide as the head and body do not match, though many try everything to push away the unwanted dilemna. I certainly can relate.[Comment on this post]
Successful 1st day!
Veronica Sue Winger September 3rd, 2008 9:42 pm MDTWoo hoo! I only ate 1,220 calories today! It can be done, if only I can keep it up. My diet diary is really helping.[Comment on this post]
Fresh Start
Veronica Sue Winger September 3rd, 2008 4:44 am MDTMaybe this journal will keep me on track. Denial hasn't worked, so moving forward might, but it is quite scary. My plan is to first lose weight, then maybe electrolysis and a nose job, then possibly hormones. Today I learned that I need only 12-1500 calories per day to lose 20 lbs in 2-4 months. I will start a diet journal to track my calories. I exercise nearly every day which burns about 400 calories per day. So, here we go![Comment on this post]
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Thamra Leslie Crawford September 2nd, 2008 12:23 pm MDTCome to SCC http://sccatl.org/[Comment on this post]
Retro Glamour, Style & Fashion
Carlotta Spanks August 27th, 2008 9:28 pm MDT Leave it to us gurlz to preserve iconic fashion and style until they come back into style: big hair, garter belts, gloves, corsets, girdles, OTT makeup, etc... In other words, Dita von Teese = Betty Page with better photography and stylist. I was a precocious child and had an obnoxious habit of sliding on my back to look up womens' dresses. What was imbedded in my psyche was this image: open bottom girdles, garters, stockings and high heels. It was the fashion, and women did go shopping or just out of the house dressed to the nines. Gloves, hats, pearls and makeup.I looked today at my wardrobe and realized that the past is prelude to the future. In other words, I wear the same clothes today that were fashionable in the '60's. My dresses, shoes, skirts & tops are de mode and contemporary. But what I wear underneath, ahh what I most enjoy are the synthetic fabrics, the tight binding...In other words, all of the things that get me hot and excited! It is, to me, the arcitecture of pure eroticism. And that style of architecture is coming back into style or has been for a decade. First, the Goth/Punk movement brought back the erotic pleasures of corsets, costume and bondage. Fueled by Madonna & Gaultier, corsetieres are doing business hand over lace. I see Dita and other fetish stars dressed like me! Novo Burlesque!What this group is about is that all of these styles and fashions have been mainstays (corsets not withstanding) of our CD/TV/TG forebears. For us and our predecessors, they never went out of style! Let's celebrate and appreciate evryone who has made this gurl very, very happy.Love,Carlotta Tags: bottom, burlesque, clothes, dita, dresses, eroticism, garters, gaultier, girdles, gloves Share Attachments: 60sgirdle.jpg, 53 KB Delete contemporarydominatrix.jpg, 215 KB Delete Elegance.jpg, 184 KB Delete[1 comment]
The busiest summer ever!
Nicole Morgin July 27th, 2008 7:49 pm MDTOk, sooo! I have been the busiest little bee ever. I had forgotten how much goes into my little ole lifestyle. Not to mention some modeling shoots, and building content for my upcoming site! But Im so happy and having fun, things are calming a bit and Im going to have some time to get back out and enjoy the rest of summer. I opened a flickr account for some photos and you guys and gals that have written me there, thank you! Let see: So far I've done some work now with Elle at Spell Cosmetics--She continues to be awesome and Im going to be working to get the word out in our community, but she's already like the major ROCKSTAR of gg's in Cleveland. I told her Id drop a little note on some stuff on her site and I can vouch for a couple awesome products. The Beard cover kit (Rocks) and is not expensive--the nail colors are beyond killer and she has tons of shadows and lip colors. I even gave permission for her to use a few of my images! ok, for now back to my little grind!!! Luv Ya[4 comments]
I've Gone Vegetarian ...
Danielle Hendrix July 20th, 2008 5:27 pm MDTYes ... Readers Of This Blog, it's official: your dirtly little tgirl correspondent has gone vegetarian. For the record, I'm on Day 2. Let me explain. It all started a few days ago with the firm commitment to make some changes in my life. I'm attending a tgirl conference in Atlanta at the end of September and it seemed like the perfect scenario to set myself some goals. I like to look my best at these things and loyal readers know I like to be the hottest piece of tgirl ass I can be ... so I started thinking about losing weight and going vegetarian seemed like a logical way to 1) accomplish the weight loss, 2) be as healthy as I can be, and 3) keep my tpussy in tip-top shape. They say a goal isn't a goal unless you tell someone ... well, I'm telling everyone who reads this blog that my goal is to lose 20 pounds by the Southern Comfort Conference in Atlanta on September 30th. 20 pounds is a lot. I already work out to keep my ass in shape, so this is going to be a serious muther-fucker of a challenge to get it done. Therefore, WISH ME LUCK. I'm definitely going to need it. One more thing: I get a lot of mail from readers who want to meet me face-to-face. So often I would like to, but I don't know what I'll be doing or where I'll be, which makes it difficult. Well, if you've wanted to meet me and you have the means, here's your chance. I'll be at SCC in Atlanta from Tuesday, September 30th through Sunday, October 5th. So come by and say "hi", have a drink, take a picture or fuck me senseless ... just don't say you didn't have the chance. Details can be found at sccatl.org Wish me luck ... and eat your vegetables! xoxo Danielle (your dirty little vegetarian tgirl)[2 comments]
Ohhh Models
Nicole Morgin June 7th, 2008 4:01 pm MDTOk everyone. Ive been working diligently on my website. Im going to use a URNA member tyo host it. Ive been working with ELLE at www.spellcosmetics.com who has provided my makeovers etc. She rocks!!!! We have been collaborating as I am becoming her fashion editor. We are planning some summer makeover parties, so let me know if you have an interest!!!!![2 comments]
Baby Steps
Danielle Hendrix May 21st, 2008 6:46 pm MDTI got a great email from a girl the other day. After reading my reply, I figured it could possibly help some girls out there, so here's the exchange ... "M" from New Hampshire writes … I have to ask you: do you ever wake up in your nightgown, with that body and those boobs and ask yourself, “how did I get here?” OMG, Michelle … I ask myself this all the time. As a matter of fact, I was driving the other day with my friend Dina and we talked about this very topic. It’s like, “how did I end up in a miniskirt with my tits hanging out in downtown Boston in the middle of the day?” I guess the answer is … it just sort of happens over time. Becoming a t-girl doesn’t happen overnight. Sure, it’s possible to cross-dress in one day. But there’s so much more to it than that. Dressing is just the paint job. It’s the whole mentality that is truly the engine. It’s the way you feel, how you portray yourself, the things you believe in. It’s the walk, the talk, the movements. These things can’t be forced. They need to be discovered and developed over time. It’s a series of the tiniest little baby steps that add up to a long journey. I can’t believe I’m here today, just as I couldn’t believe it when I was at the mall for the first time or a snazzy restaurant or whatever. It just slowly builds. I will say this: the only way to truly grow is to take a very small step outside of your comfort zone as often as possible. I advise to take a real small step because stepping too far causes failure, and failure is a t-girl dish best served in small doses. Otherwise the girl gets discouraged and that leads to more failures and the vicious cycle begins. Take a small step though, and you provide yourself with a reasonable chance of success in a situation you haven’t been in before. That builds confidence. It also allows you to use relatable experience when you’re outside your box. Here’s an example: Take the straight club. They can be tricky at first, because if you’re “made” it can be tough to take. So, if you’re comfortable being out and about at the t-friendly places, slide into a straight club on a Wednesday or some night where you’re not packed in with wall to wall people. Find a boot or a seat at the bar and take it in. Get to know the bartender and the staff a bit. Learn where the bathroom is. Then sip your drink and leave. You came. You saw. You conquered. That way if you end up there on a Friday or Saturday night, you have a chance to make it. You may recognize a friendly staff member’s face. They may recognize yours. You’ll know where the bathroom is. Basically, you’ll look and more importantly feel like you belong a little bit. This will keep your confidence up and just might lead to a successful night in a potentially highly stressful environment. Conversely, walking in cold, without the Wednesday dry run, sets you up for a much higher chance of failure. I got a bit off track here, but the basic point of all of this is: yes, I often wonder how the hell I got here – until I think about all the little things I’ve done to make it work. When I do that, it allows me to understand it all a lot better. This is a journey. Take your time. If you do, you’ll be surprised how far you get. xoxo Danielle[3 comments]
Oh its on!!!
Nicole Morgin April 23rd, 2008 8:38 am MDTSo, I prep for spring weather for like six months, and I start it with a cold the last couple weeks---YUK! But Im better and back at work with my site. Im thinking June 1 I launch it. I want it to be rockin, fun and most of all inetresting and different. Any ideas will be so greatly appreciated.[Comment on this post]
New Gallery
Nicole Morgin April 7th, 2008 4:55 pm MDTSome new pics, New fashion looks, new makeup, new attitude--I think..lol[Comment on this post]
TG Friendly
Nicole Morgin April 5th, 2008 8:15 am MDTTG Friendly!!! The term has bothered me for years!! I've often wondered what TG Friendly really means. First, we all use it, and that includes me. But it serves as a reminder and a big caution to all of us, that its implication exists. There remains a non Tg friendly world out there. For the most part, we have the whole internet to shop our little hearts out, but we do not however enjoy that luxury when it comes to the big bad world of retail sales. How we are treated on the world wide web is radically different then how we are treated in the local mall. Now bear in mind that there are some big box stores that are accepting of us, BUT, this may only be because of a tendancy to blend with hundreds of shoppers. I wish you the best however if you have to walk up to the counter of a mall store or boutique and receive positive open service. Don't get me wrong, Im not going to write reviews and point out the bad places, what I will do however is point out the good. I am a critic, because I shop. I am fortunate enough to properly budget to spend a bit of money on this habit. When I do shop, I pay particular attention to my treatment, and when it is done in a caring, professional, comfortable and businesslike way, I'm on it and loyal. I have layed out in some of my blogs, comments in different places on the net my pleasurable experiences. Those stores/sites/owners, I will stand up for and promote. As I have been working to build my new website, I have come across different web pages while doing research and or intermittantly shopping. One thing is starting to bother me because I've noticed it recently and I'm going to give my two cents in a heads up. Im a shoe shopper (more than I should be), but there are a ton of shoe sites out there ready to sell to the world. Recently I have discovered that there are almost an equal number of shoe stores catering specifically to the transgender world. Here comes the problem: I have seen the same shoe on a standard woman's shoe site for $19.00 and the exatc same shoe (same picture, same name) on a transgender shoe store for $39.00. I've often thought "this shoe must be TG Friendly, because it costs so much more!) NO.... NO....NO.... Bad Shoe Store. I can't buy it from you. I guess I must have clicked the button that said transgendered, because my price seems to be a lot higher than a genetic female is paying for the same one. I think we are getting the drift. Now, I'm all about businesses and companies making profit, but profit off of me because you have set demand, profit off of me because you have free gifts with my shoe order, profit off of me because you can get them wholesale cheaper than others or because you sell obscure sizes, but DO NOT profit off of me just because I am who I am. Know your business, know your clients. If you want to sell to us, we are very glad to buy, but treat us equally and care about how we feel when shopping with you. Make us comfortable and be welcoming and yes, we will even pay the higher price for that treatment. I know I do. So when you have a good shopping experience, drop me a line and I'll check it out. I believe those stores/sites get our attention first.[2 comments]
Just the basics
Nicole Morgin April 5th, 2008 3:15 am MDTI have such issues. Im trying to put together a website, but then at the same time feel compelled to write some fashion reviews. Now, I will lump this on top of making and more importantly (keeping in contact with) new friends. Well, if I"ve been a bit distant--oops---Hit me up--get my attention. I put up a new google group to chat in... http://groups.google.com/group/nicole-morgins-tgirl-club Of course ..all welcome..[Comment on this post]
Warmth
Nicole Morgin April 1st, 2008 4:29 pm MDTIt was 55 at some point today--its coming!!!!![Comment on this post]
The End Of An Era
Danielle Hendrix April 1st, 2008 3:02 pm MDT The End Of An Era (04.01.08) Isn't spring supposed to heighten the senses and reawaken the sex drive of people the world over? I think so, right? It's spring … so we fuck a lot. Skirts are worn, covering little. Tops get tighter, covering less. Isn't this a rite of spring? Shouldn't my t-girl honey-pot be longing for a wide range of sexual fulfillment right now? Shouldn't I be spending my days slowly contracting my legs and core so I can provide an A+ sexual experience? Shouldn't I be researching the latest oral techniques? Shouldn't I be doing … something? I should be. But I'm not. Why am I so blasé about sex right now? Is it planetary alignment? Probably not. Is it my newfound maturity? It sure seems like it. I know what you're thinking. You're saying to yourself, "Danielle, you love sex, drugs and rock and roll too much, both figuratively and literally, to be maturing." I know this. I know. What can I do? I went to a party this Saturday. Spring was clearly in the air – if you are OK with substituting "spring" with "sex". There were plenty of hookups. Tons of propositions. I could have had sex with any number of people in the place. I thought about it. And yet, when the bar was closed and the after-parties were about to begin and I was entering a prime space to slide out of my skirt and slide onto a good man … I went to bed. Alone. I went to bed? Yup. Yes. Affirmative. I went to bed. So, before you begin to doubt what I'm saying, be assured that I do have it in me to keep certain things out of me. And I was OK with calling it a night. I went to my hotel room. I showered. I slipped into bed. I considered watching my roommate get it on … but even those plans were overtaken by beautiful, blissful sleep. It wasn't even 2:00 AM. And here I am, a few days later … still feeling the same way. My beloved vibrator sleeps alone, probably feeling discarded and unwanted. My fishnets have been packed away. Can this really be happening? It can. It is. I found myself shopping for shoes on-line last night … and I clicked the "low heels" button for the first time. There's quite a few good buys to be had in that section. I was surprised. My sweatshirt is baggy. My hair is up. My lips are a soft pink. My makeup is light. My inner sexpot has left the building. If you wanted me and haven't had me, your time appears to be up. Yes. I do believe maturity has set in. And I'm surprisingly OK with it. I say this with a straight face and not a hint of a coquettish smile: Turn out the lights … the party's over. Thanks for reading. xoxo Danielle[4 comments]