URNotAlone

Auto Erotica OR Sex For One!

February 9th, 2008 10:49 pm MST

So... I've been reading some blog/journal entries and some message board posts dealing with the issue of "sex by yourself" or "the M word" or whatever you want to call it! Seems it BOTHERS quite a few --even some accepting-- GGs that more than a few of us "wanna be" girls resort to auto-erotica or "sex for one" as part of our feminine experience. It's not that I ALWAYS do it, but when I'm wearing my incredibly sensuous layered pink negligee, I find myself thinking "I wanna be f*cked... I want to have my body caressed while it's bathed in nylon tricot... I wanna be warm and wet between my legs!" Well, the simple facts of reality are that my SO would NEVER want to be with me when I'm "dressed for sex" and the only way for me to experience something remotely resembling what a GG might feel is to have sex by myself. I have no problems with a GG --dressed similarly-- treating herself to "sex for one" to the point of climax. After all, there's a REASON my negligee feels SO DIFFERENT than --say-- an old cotton nightshirt! But the only thing I know --as a GB-- is that my "real anatomy" dictates that it has to be "different for boys" than it is for girls. The closest I can get to experiencing the desire to "be f*cked" is to enjoy "sex for one" the only way I know.