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Danielle Co...
Danielle Co...

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September 25th, 2014 4:14 am EDT i FOUND HER!!! or she found me. a (gg) wonderful woman who loves both the man and woman in me and is equally thrilled to spend time with either and both. its ah may zing!!! still struggling to find words to describe this... such BLISS!!
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Samantha Ma...
Samantha Ma...

Underneath and Inside

September 24th, 2014 2:26 pm EDT

I had a bit of revelation for myself…given as much time as I spend in my head about things. For the first time in my life I had been letting myself consider, ‘What if?’ what if I DID transition?

For me, it would never complete things for me because I would not have the memories and experiences of growing up as a girl. Those thoughts color every aspect of my being, to want to have been born female.

But as I have dwelled a bit more on the thoughts of transition lately, I came to an understanding…I would transition on the inside and underneath. There are so many aspects of being a woman that are private, regardless of whether I appear to be such on the outside.

I’ll give you an example. A while back, I had to go out of town for an appointment. What made last evening different for me, was my attitude and thoughts as I shopped for the things Samantha needed and wanted. I stopped first at a Walgreens to pick up a pair of hose. I wear Legg’s Sheer Energy hose and they are not as widely available as they used to be. Before, when I would go in a store, I would look around and slowly make my way to the section to pick up what I was looking for. This time though, I walked straight back to the section with the hose, found the size, style, and color I was looking for and confidently picked them up and went back to the front to pay. I paid for the purchase from the lady ringing me up and I didn’t bat an eye or try to put on an air of frustration that my wife would have sent me in to make the purchase for her.

I went next to a dollar store and went to the makeup section, got a bottle of nicer CoverGirl foundation. I went on down the isles to look at their clothes, but didn’t expect to find much as it is between seasons of merchandise. I went next to look in the bras and panties section and picked out a tummy shaper and a packaged of panties….and kicked myself on the way home that I forgot to look in the individual section of bras and panties for a couple of lace panties I had bought before that I really loved the look and the fit.

Again, paying for these things, this time from a cute, younger girl, was done with just a pleasant and polite demeanor towards her. The sky didn’t fall down or anyone jump out to grab me and say, ‘Hey! you’re buying all that stuff for yourself!”

I went on to my appointment and then stopped at another dollar store to pick up some pantiliners and then on to Walmart. I stopped at the jewelry section and looked through the fashion rings and picked out a cosmetic wedding ring set….a simple silver band and engagement ring with a smallish soliatire. There’s just something about being able to wear a wedding set as opposed to my simple gold band I wear each day that gives so much to the little touches when I am able to dress.

It was the mindset of the evening that went so far to help with my inner transition. Being relaxed and letting my mind shop and consider my purchases without fretting and being nervous about it all was very refreshing.

So, I transition on the inside and underneath. I keep my body shaved now and I keep my toes polished and wear panties nearly every day. I listen to pop music when I work out. And speaking of working out, I am doing it for Samantha, so that I can wear cuter styles and be more attractive to guys. Granted, I only get to dress very infrequently now and don’t have a prospect for when the next time I can go out fully dressed would be, but that doesn’t affect my outlook and relishing the private time I have.

I have the same struggles many women deal with…a body image that they wish was better, relationship issues, daily struggles of work, kid, and life. I can choose to be happy with who and where I am or be miserable and depressed.

I know that at some point in the future, I will have a chance to go out dressed again and get to spend that time getting ready and enjoy it so much…just like many women do…that maybe their husbands only take them out somewhere nice once in every blue moon. How is that different than what I have to deal with really?

Yes, I don’t get to put on a cute outfit in the mornings, do some quick make up and fuss with my hair, but I do get to put on my big girl panties and know that my toes are polished…and that has to be enough right now.

I am Samantha Simms and I am a woman that lives my life to be happy and healthy…even if it is just on the inside and underneath.



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Dana Matthews
Dana Matthews

Executive Assistant

September 22nd, 2014 9:40 am EDT

One of my little fantasies is to interview for an Executive Assistant job wearing my skirt suit!

Skirt Suit


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Lisa VonGretch
Lisa VonGretch

Got Out Recently!

September 20th, 2014 12:27 pm EDT

I got out recently and boy was it wonderful. I met a few new friends and got to dance and party a little bit. I must sneek out of work and go out more often. I got some fun pictures of my outing and put them up in the gallery section.

Hooray for Good DaysCool


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Dana Matthews
Dana Matthews

About me

September 20th, 2014 6:10 am EDT

I am a 40-something MTF crossdresser looking for male admirers, preferably over 50. I like older men! You make me feel young. My fantasy is to be a secret mistress! Please help me explore my own femininity by encouraging me to be as womanly as possible, because you are wearning the pants in the relationship LOL! Hugs! 

Dana

 


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Lady Diana
Lady Diana

My Book

September 18th, 2014 2:43 am EDT

I am a science fiction writer. I signed a book contract. New book will be published May 2015

Get a preview book at my book web sites:

http://dianamiller.iconosites.com

Sept 18, 2014 Update

The publisher and I are now diccussing the book cover design.


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Victoria
Victoria

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September 17th, 2014 6:37 pm EDT

Thank God I am finally almost all of the surgery stuff. It was along journey of healing that is finally coming to an end. I am glad to reportthat I can resume just about all of my pre surgery activities.  I love running, exercising, and learning to dance the Argentine tango. I just bought a beautiful pair of ballroom dance heels. They should be arriving soon. Yay!

Life has been great and I look forward to easch day a d what it has to offer. thank you frie ds for your ssupport. 

Tori


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Kimberly Moore
Kimberly Moore

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September 15th, 2014 11:28 am EDT

13/06/14- What a Friday the 13th. My wife has attended my last few therapy sessions with me and it has been a positive experience. It has given me a venue in which I can tell her things about my dual-gender that I never could when we are alone (I am a chicken when it comes to dealing with things of the heart). It also allows her a chance to unburden the secret about me she now reluctantly carries. We have come to a few compromises, but the best part it has brought us closer together. I guess knowing someones deepest secrets will draw you closer. The therapist has helped me understand why she reacts in certain ways, and even though I do not think I am selfish I do act with a myopic perspective. We will see how it goes but so far it has been a challenging yet positive experience.   


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Jena
Jena

Born naked

September 14th, 2014 9:57 am EDT

"You are born naked. everything else is drag " ~Rupaul


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Neae
Neae

Blocking Bug @ URNA ...

September 6th, 2014 5:53 pm EDT

7September2014
I previously posted an URNA journal
about how even though I have blocked a certain URNA member
the URNA system still allows that certain URNA member to send me IMs.
This evening that certain member sent me another IM»

This certain member is a stalker ...
Not only does this certain URNA member continue to send me IMs
even though I have previously blocked this certain URNA member
and previously told this certain URNA member to "GET LOST

... this certain URNA member has even stalked me on another www TG site.
At least @ that other www TG site, blocking is full, so this certain URNA member
cannot stalk me any more @ that other www TG site.

It seems to me that URNA should "fix" how blocking works @ URNA!
Blocking an URNA member should prevent that URNA member
from all contact ... not just profile views!

Thanx!


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