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Lexxi Marie
Lexxi Marie

Frustrated

August 21st, 2014 8:30 am EDT

No chat until mid or end of September !!! WTH Cry


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Loren
Loren

13 August 2014

August 13th, 2014 6:25 pm EDT

How does one take aceptance gracefully?

4 of my 5 children now know I am transitioning. The last one to know is in Afghanistan, which is too long a road trip even for me. My motorcycle trip to Montana was 1900 miles round trip and just completed yesterday. My children care for me and have known me for 25 years. Their only thoughts are about my happiness.

My coming out seems to have been the opportunity we all were looking for to tell each other how much we loved one another. Could life be any better than this? I am humbled and grateful.


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Melissa Pit...
Melissa Pit...

Test

August 13th, 2014 4:09 pm EDT

Just testing


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Nora
Nora

CD group meeting

August 13th, 2014 10:11 am EDT

I was able to go to the meeting at Kristtophers last night.  Had a very good time, the others there were very open,  honest, and fun to be around.  Were else could you go dressed up, wearing high heels and play pool and enjoy good conversation?

Looking forward to the next meeting and meeting new friends.


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Catherine J...
Catherine J...

"Zero friends" checkpoint

August 13th, 2014 3:42 am EDT

Talking about real-life friends (not network ones) I have zero friends after 6.5 years of being "fulltime".

Also impossibility being "stealth" .

That is mostly because of biology. My body is mutilated by testosteron. But not only

What next? The predators (this way or another). Homeless life then death.

But I have no Gender Dysphoria and depressions, this is what I wanted many years ago


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Corsellatu Zen
Corsellatu Zen

progress, letter from a counselor

August 5th, 2014 6:39 pm EDT

The letter. achieved.

after the "necessary" months of "counseling" i had to take, i finaly got necessary letter for my docter to give me hrt.

first of all it wasnt counseling. i didnt need counseling they just told me what i already knew.. more like i told them.

(i do have to say though there were some things about hrt that were quite hard for me to obtain through my own research and thanks goes out to my seattle counseling service counseler for trying to dig those things up for me.)

second of all it was far from necessary. i spent about 2 days a month painstakingly trying to find ways to go up to seattle to spend time relearning things i knew from my own research.

However now officialy they have become convinced i am a lady who needs hrt and am aware of the psychosocial effects, FINALY i have the letter and FINALY i can begin hrt!! 

now to try to find a ride to seattle again.

ps. a thanks to all those who tried to reach out a helping hand, you know who you are, and though i may not want to compose a list in text i have thought over each of you. and you are free to reply with "your welcome"


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Perry
Perry

A smile or a "hey" DOESN'T mean "can I sleep with you?"

July 24th, 2014 6:01 pm EDT

Just because a guy writes you an email doesn't mean he wants to get in your pants.

Immediately coming to that conclusion could mean:

A. You have a past full of people trying to have sex with you. If that's the case, you might want to check a few things regarding how you're approaching yoru goals. 

B. You assume too much. Assumptions are often incorrect. Not a good idea.

If you're assuming everyone who reaches out to say hey is trying to treat you as a sex object, a fling or fantasy, you're eliminating possibility from your future. What's the harm in that? You may be turning off that one guy who might be THAT ONE. This of course presumes that you're making right choices about where to find that guy, or more important "how" to find that guy.

Every single time I send an email on URNA, I'm seeking to make friends. Yes, my profile describes the awesome situation my fiance and I have created for ourselves, but that doesn't mean I'm out trying to get in the pants of every person I meet! Jeez.

Some men have integrity. If you're not running into those kinds of guys something's wrong in your approach (beginning to get the message?).

Obviously, if the message is a cock pic or a one-liner, chances are you should be prudent. If the guy's sharing something relevant or interesting, maybe he should get the benefit of the doubt? 

Even if you don't like the guy, being cordial is cool. Why? You never know from which direction THAT GUY may come. 

Stay open and be positive!


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Samantha Ma...
Samantha Ma...

The feeling that's hard to describe...

July 23rd, 2014 8:38 am EDT

Yes, it is a feeling, like an itch or a thirst, something that needs attention as it cannot be ignored. Is it a matter of chemisty, a misfiring of synapses, or a deviation from normal actions that just cannot be explained? Regardless of what it is...it is.

It manifests itself in the excited feeling considering become femme yet again. Picking out the color of polish to use on your toes. The warm shower and getting to shave your legs like so many other women do...and even the bikini area.

Stepping into a pair of panties and snugging them against your body...the difference of their feel compared to what you normally have to wear. The bra, hooking it and pulling it up in place and the snap of the straps against your shoulders. Coiling the leg of a pair of hose into both hands and slipping it over the end of your foot and beginning to work it up your leg...their is hardly anything like those feelings.

From the inside looking out, I cannot explain, and from the outside looking in, you probably cannot understand. It just is.


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jackie
jackie

birthday wishes

July 23rd, 2014 4:40 am EDT

I would like to thank everyone for the wonderful birthday wishes.


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Judit Roura
Judit Roura

Tourism in New York as girl!

July 20th, 2014 5:29 pm EDT

I am very excited about my next visit to New York City. I plan to arrive to the Big Apple by August 13th, 2014, and spend 4 days, until 17th, as a girl full-time. I will do some standard tourism in a not-so-standard way, visiting the statue of Liberty and so. It is not only what I see, is also HOW I see it... Of course I will go out by night to bars and possibly clubs...

However, I must say that spending 4 days alone, even as a girl, is not so fun than spending them with a nice company. I plan to attend the meetings of the CrossDressing Internationsl (CDI) and the Stonewall Girls. If you happen to know other interesting groups in NYC, let me know. And if you are really interested to join and doing some tourism in typical places (or not so typical, if you know them!) let me know too. It could be real fun!

 


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