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Francine Brice November 4th, 2008 10:21 am MSTWill complete later, Today is the 1st day for the rest of my Life![Comment on this post]
Austin here we come
Anna and Racheal November 1st, 2008 6:32 pm MDTWow my new job I took back in September even though I do not get paid very well has an office in Austin Texas. Now at long last Racheal and I get to move to the place we want to live. This past weekend I went to a national conference and talked with the Austin crew. I am excited to be able in a couple months to move, knowing that we have a job when I get thier. Then all we have to do is find Racheal something work wise. I have hopes that I can go to college but will need to enter the community college to take a few courses first. Wish us luck!![1 comment]
Told the Wife
lusciousleggs November 1st, 2008 4:40 pm MDTWell, I told the wife that I wanted to dress up like a woman for Halloween, she invited me to meet her at the shoe store, to try on some heels. I thought that she was going to say "NO! We looked around and found a nice pair of sexy black high heels. I told her no to mention this to anyone. Well, the night came and she was to meet me at the party, thinking I was going to be dressed up. I told her that I chickened out, and that I shaved myself smooth and tried everything on but just could not do it. I think now, she knows I dress, but is not wanting to deal with it. I asked her if she wanted to see me all dressed up and she said no. So I guess I'm still in the closet, but I think she knows I do this.[5 comments]
Singapore: Halloween 2008
Nicole Singslave November 1st, 2008 12:02 am MDT Singapore: Halloween 2008 Singapore, 31st Oct 2008, Friday Thanks to our lovely gurls that Halloween 2008 beat sitting at 11pm watching Survivor on the telly. Our guests Veron & Dyana were dressed in the dopest meeeoooowww...Cat suit and Goth outfit that would make any straight male go berserk. They look waaay too good. Andy and Alex (AlexSG01) dropped by for a drink before running off to their next caper. We had Rayne in her sexy Goth gear, Kaila in a hot leather chipao, Joy wearing a deliciously wicked she-devil costume, Trish looking like the hot young Tina Turner (I know she'll disagree), Shelia in a nice elegant dress, Destynee looking ravishing in her scrumptious lollita outfit, my luvly slut she-devil Adaline in a cosplay outfit, the shy demure Cindy wearing a kinky french maid costume, beautiful Andrea in a black elegant dress, Hendrika in a Thai university female outfit, and me da big COWgurl. Backstage was packed tighter than a can of sardines. It looked like a mini UN gathering with representatives from all continents with schmoozing and giving each other friendly spanks on the butt. Given that this was the tail end of a work week, the turnout was quite good. The Backstage team did a good job in making the place look spooky unfortunately there were no ghouls or ghost in the place only hot bods on the prowl. After Backstage, the group splintered to Cows&Coolies, Alley Bar @Peranakan Place and Thumper@Goodwood Park. Master Richard + partner, , Bobby + partner, were at Cows & Coolies with most of the gurls. There was a big goth party at Alley bar (http://community.livejournal.com/singaporegoths/) and of course SGDOMSUBS centennarian at Thumper. All in all Halloween 2008 amidst the economic downturn got my two thumps up. For more information on Asia's alternative lifestyles, please visit us at: BDSM sites: SE Asia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork Tgurls sites: Malaysia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls Bangkok: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans Tags: 2008, 31 oct 2008, backstage, bar hopping, bdsm, bondage, costumes, cows & coolies, friday, halloween, leather, pvc, singapore, sm[Comment on this post]
Please tell me your thoughts about my photos!
Cari (anne) Christi October 30th, 2008 7:50 pm MDTWhat are your thoughts about my photos and look? Love, Cari Christi[2 comments]
Halloween party October 25th
Lisa Elizabeth Smythe October 29th, 2008 7:39 pm MDTWell, My lovely wife and I attended the Transformations / Skyscraper Heels/ Rachael's Wig / llusions halloween party on Oct 25th!! Had a wonderful time!! Saw a few old friends and met some new people too!! a good meal a lot of dancing!!! My wife went as my 'Bard' and I his Lady Faire.... Even let her lead during some of the dances!! (Just couldn't during the 'swing' numbers..... we never learned the opposite steps, they are totally different for male and female side.) Otherwise the night was fun, the costumes were wonderful!!! I liked mine but was no where near as cute as some of the 'sexy pirates' or the 2 'Showgirls'!!!Maybe if I lose another 60-70 pounds..... Next year!! Right? Hugs to all, Lisa Elzabeth[Comment on this post]
I'm shopping for my wedding gown!
Alicia Cynthia Smythe October 29th, 2008 7:34 am MDTWow! The Great Goddess continues to bless me, Alicia Cynthia, Her undeserving servant, in wonderful surprising ways. I am engaged to be married!!! A beautiful man whom I have known for years has unexpectedly proposed to me, and I have accepted. We plan to be married as soon as possible after my SRS, which is now scheduled for September 2009. A classic case of friendship blossoming into love... Scott has known me as both Al and Alicia, and he has stuck with me through all of my dark, lost times. He has proven himself to be a real friend, and I have complete faith that he will be a loving husband. He's a lovely man in his fifties and, like me, never married. We are both incredibly excited, to say the least! We also plan to adopt a child, so we will be the perfect little American family... and I will be both a wife and a mother! Within about a year, I shall be Mrs Alicia C. Stevens! But of course the best part is this: now I get to shop for my wedding gown!!! Praise be to the Goddess and to the power of Love to conquer all problems! I am sooo very very happy... FINALLY! ~ Alicia Cynthia ~ :)[Comment on this post]
The USA has been replaced by the USSA
Alicia Cynthia Smythe October 20th, 2008 2:09 pm MDTThe USA is dead. It was a country in which people once believed in individual freedom, personal responsibility, limited government, and free enterprise. It was a unique, special country – the only one ever founded upon the principles of limited government. The USA has been replaced by the USSA – the United Socialist States of America. This is a country in which people now believe in slavery to Big Brother, personal irresponsibility, life-long dependence on government, and business nationalization and collectivism. It is just another third-rate socialist state, like so many others in the UN. It should be obvious to everyone that the USA is dead. After all, if the principles of a constitution are routinely ignored, how can the country founded on that constitution be said to exist? I no longer have a country to call my own. All I have is a government that I am a subject of – a government that confiscates my hard-earned money at the virtual point of a gun and then redistributes my money to its most-favored political minions. The USA has been on the decline-and-fall path since FDR made it fashionable to ignore the Constitution. Bush put the USA in her coffin with his dramatically expansive government and these recent “bailout” power grabs. Obama will surely hammer the final nails in her coffin and bury her forever. But “the people” must also share much of the blame for her death… There is something seriously pathologic about a people who are so willing and eager to put an anti-American Marxist terrorist-sympathizer with a Messianic complex into power. These people are fanatical followers of the Cult of Obama, like other deluded people who were once willing slaves to Stalin, Hitler, Mao, and Castro. Obama will turn this country into a strange and sick concoction of Cuba-France-Kenya-Venezuela, and the people will be enraptured and eternally grateful to their Master! I am now a woman without a country, because the USA that I grew up in and that I once loved is as dead as an eagle that has forgotten how to fly. But I do LOVE SARAH PALIN! She is my new role model as a REAL WOMAN: Strong, smart, sexy, and conservative!!! Alicia C. Smythe I'm a conservative libertarian lady surviving in the USSA October 2008[1 comment]
reflections on scc expierence
Cheryl Jackson October 16th, 2008 8:16 am MDTIt was fabulous in so many ways! Not only being more fully in touch with my feminine core, but also hearing from inspirational leaders of our larger community. I felt part of something truly larger and quite wonderful! We are the cutting edge of the power of self-expression in our culture. We need to strive or even fight for more undertanding, acceptance, and dignity. If our culture can fully accept us so many other prejudices may crumble. We are part of our world and can help it grow and progress. But I do not want to be too serious! Feeling & expressing my feminity just makes me feel wonderful and complete.[1 comment]
Why do we do this
lusciousleggs October 11th, 2008 7:38 pm MDTI wake up feeling alright, then all the sudden, I want to dress like a sexy woman? What is it that make us do this. For the longest time, I thought it was just me, that I had stumbled on the greatest thing that none ever had ever thought of. I'm fine for weeks, months, then all the sudden, WHAM!!! I'm sliding on stockings, fastening my garterbelt, putting on make up, a wig, high heels, short skirt, lacy bra and panties, silk blouse, trying to look my best. I take pictures to see how I will transform from year to year. I was about 10 or 11 years old when these feelings came apon me. My mom always wore sexy things, she was a very attractive woman, but when you're growing up you don't think those kind of things, they don't even enter your mind.[1 comment]
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Crissy Eilleen Williams October 11th, 2008 6:31 am MDTBeen playing with the idea of buying expensive breast forms in the imtreest of realism, has anyone ever found any that are truly "worth it"?[Comment on this post]
Cruising the Interstate
Barbara Catherine Zell October 8th, 2008 8:35 pm MDTI was out last week on a business trip so I had plenty of time to change into my Barbara mode. This time I brought with me a portable cb unit so I could listen to the chatter of the truck drivers and get their feedback on my look as I traveled down the interstate. Since I was going down a rather heavily traveled section with lots of truck traffic I just turned on the radio and listened to the chatter. At first the there wasn’t a lot of talking until I hit a merge with another interstate. Then due to the fact that I got caught behind some traffic I came up along side a couple of trucks for a period of time. It was then that the radio started. “Hey check out the white Taurus it has a nice pair of knockers in there”. Well I was wearing a red tank top and showing enough cleavage so I was flattered. Well the first truck passed and I set my cruise to maintain the speed. The second truck came into position and then said. “She is Hot”. Then the banter was. “Yea she wouldn’t be traveling the speed limit letting us look if she didn’t know that she was hot” “She is just wants attention” “Well I am going to get her attention” Then one of the Trucks pulled up and started to beep its horn at me to get my attention. Once the guy did he waved and blew me a kiss.[Comment on this post]
How odd. O.o
Sana F Llen October 7th, 2008 11:08 pm MDTUm. On a random note, I'm getting aparently php errors on here. Anyhow. I've been utterly depressed and bored the past while. I'd give a lot some nights for a good snuggle. -.- Well, a lot being 'an hour long backrub' and such really. Mew?[1 comment]
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Grace October 6th, 2008 1:45 pm MDTSo we agree to disagree. I "respect" your opinion and am comfortable with who I am and what I believe enough not to project it onto others to get VALIDATION....[6 comments]
A Letter to You
Kathy P Webster October 5th, 2008 4:22 pm MDT Hi Sweety! :) Thank you for reading this journal. I just thought it was time that I wrote an update here so that you would have some idea of where I am at, and maybe for myself too. Just writing about things is so very helpful in me sorting myself out and centering, which I need to do these days. Been so busy lately, and distracted in both good and bad ways, that I have not been able to sit down alone much and "find myself" in writing as I always used to. I am currently going to a transgender discussion group. I am not being "me" as much as I want these days, at least as far as dressing the part. I am working things out with my wife more and more. I do not know what this means. We are negotiating, it seems. On the other hand, I am "being me" more and more than ever.... by this I mean I am more and more outwardly acting my femme self (what I really am), and gradually pulling away the male mask, regardless of how I am dressed. I am quite aware that in the eyes of most of the world this is interpreted as me "acting gay". Fine. Whatever. They can figure me out, if they want to, as they learn more. I apologize to all whom I have not stayed in good contact with. I do feel bad about that, I really do, but since I am still married, and still employed (yay!), and still have family issues to deal with, I have limited time, frankly. So, I am truly truly sorry that I am not being a better friend. If these circumstance change, I will surely be moving more decisively to the "other side" - my femme side, my true side... and I will seek out others and be the good friend that I know I can actually be. My hair grows longer, my ears pierced... my body smoother all the time... slowly changing.... to the delight of some in my life, to the chagrin of others. I am a bit of a shock to relatives who haven't seen me for a while. To them I am a hippie or something like that I suppose. I am not announcing myself to just anyone yet. But perhaps to those who know a thing or two, if they see me, they might guess what I am? I wonder. This will be a rough ride I suppose, I've heard the warning over and over from others... not that I won't do it... I am not the most decisive person, but I find myself relentlessly moving in this direction. As I've heard said, "it never goes away". To my experience, it doesn't. Not really. I don't want to fight it either. I am not pretending to myself anymore. That is long gone. I think I will post some more pics here soon, just cuz it is fun to do. I have been taking some lately. The newest pic is of me with my real hair... most of the newer ones are. It is now almost as long as my beloved red wig in the earlier pics! I just wish i had more in front, as I am an unfortunate victim of frontal recession. Having a boy body really sucks sometimes. Ok, a lot of times. Ok, well, all the time. But don't worry dear, I am figuring out how to make the most of it and live life more and more as I should. Thanks for reading honey. Love, Kathy[1 comment]
Musing on Losing
Fīsha October 4th, 2008 4:19 pm MDTBeing that it’s my 1-year anniversary on this site, I thought I’d say some shit. Fairly, I must state, there has been little real progress as far as any “transition” would go. I’m out there a bit, but I would hardly call it fervent enthusiasm.
So why do I do it? A study, which, unfortunately, I cannot cite specifically, once posed evidence regarding gender identity. In short, it found that in a certain emotional center of the brain, there was a clear difference in “color” between the male and female sexes. Samples of transgendered brains showed their coloration to be in between. Not fully dark, not fully light. Omoshiroi desu ne?
Either way, I’m not letting this stress me out or anything. I am not opposed to the possibility of someday taking things to a larger scale, but I’m not going to push things, either. Education is my top priority.
For now, I guess there’s nothing else to say but…
Brownie Mountain’s gone and now there’s nothing left/
All is gained on the desert plain/
Fudgy ripples swirling through your wandering soul/
All is lost in the melted brain/
Praise be to the perfect (perfect) chocolate god/
We worship you ‘til the day we die
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Sherryutah October 4th, 2008 3:20 pm MDThttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-DPV-vswIM[1 comment]
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Sherryutah October 4th, 2008 3:18 pm MDThttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-DPV-vswIM[Comment on this post]
Christianity
Grace October 3rd, 2008 5:43 pm MDTOn January 16th Dan posted a disturbing comment in his (public) journal. I don't personally know Dan, but from what else I have read - He is a nice guy. His post about Christianity was offensive to me, but this is not why I am writing. In another post he stated "As for religion and politics, maybe it doesn't belong here, but I think of journals as a way to express who are." I agree. However, was Dan expressing who he is or how ignorant Christians are? In any case I don't think politics, religion & SEXUALITY should be taboo as long as we are respectful of others and their life choices. Clearly that was not the case. I felt Christianity was being Mocked. Was it intentional - I prefer to believe it was not. Having said that, let's think about why we love this site so much. I believe it's because we can be who we are without fear of prejudice and judgement or being criticized for who we are and what we believe. Maybe I am naive and that is only applies to SEXUAL preference. If that's the case, it's a sad awakening for many of us, including me. Dan, thanks for reminding me why I choose the name GRACE.[1 comment]
What I wrote My Congressman regarding the US Economy
Jon October 1st, 2008 2:11 pm MDTI've been so disgusted listening to the Talking Heads spew bullshit on what needs to be done to get the Economy going again that I decided to write My Congressman. I encourage everyone to do the same, whether your view is in line with mine or diametrically opposed to it. Here's what I wrote My Congressman.
I'm writing to ask you 2 things and also to express my opinion.
1. Please Vote NO on any Tax Payer funded Bailout, of any kind, for Banks and Financial Institutions. As a Tax Payer, I do not want to see my Hard Earned Tax Dollars going to help out Companies or Institutions that have made irresponsible decisions. Large Firms should be treated no differently than Small Firms. If they can't stay afloat on their own, they should be allowed to go under.
2. Do NOT use my Hard Earned Tax Dollars to Subsidize the Mortgages of others. If a person was irresponsible enough to take out a Mortgage larger than they could afford then they should be foreclosed on. People must be held responsible for their actions. It would be grossly unfair to use My Hard Earned Tax Dollars to help pay off someone else's Mortgage. I have a hard enough time paying My Mortgage and My Monthly Bills without the Added Burden of Subsidizing someone else. Taxes are not levied by our Government to Redistribute wealth and it Offends me that it's even being considered.
My opinion on what should happen going forward...
1. Banks should require Substantial Down Payments before rewarding a Mortgage.
2. Banks should Verify Employment and Yearly Income before rewarding a Mortgage.
A comment on 1 and 2 above... This is what Banks always did until Our Government, towards the end of the 1990's, started pushing Banks to loosen their requirements so that more people could own homes. Well, guess what, not everyone can afford to own a home. I think that's pretty clear now and should have been obvious from the beginning.
3. Financial Institutions must be held responsible for the types of Financial Instruments they buy and sell. If they bundle up Worthless Sub Prime Mortgages into Financial Instruments and then can't sell them, well, that's life, they should be stuck with them. If it causes their Collapse, so be it.
To sum it up, Corporations AND Individuals must be held accountable for their actions. Using My and other people's Hard Earned Tax Dollars to Redistribute the Wealth to help the Rich OR the Poor, goes against everything this country stands for and the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach.
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